Misconceptions you want cleared up

[TomSelis]

I'm pretty sure the girls will have a lot of these, but guys have at it too.

I'm going to start it off by speaking on the guys end:

All guys are not secret bottoms

All guys do not want to sleep with your friends

Keep it going

[BeardedOne]

All bottom guys do not want you to fuck them on the first date.

(Sometimes they are patient enough to wait until the second date)

[Felicia Katt]

I'm pretty sure the girls will have a lot of these, but guys have at it too.

I'm going to start it off by speaking on the guys end:

All guys are not secret bottoms

All guys do not want to sleep with your friends

Keep it going

depends who is doing the topping

depends who your friends are :)

meow

FK

[hondarobot]

The "secret bottom" misconception is the worst one. No offense to guys who are into that, I know many straight, bi, and gay guys who are into it, but just because I view TS girls as regular girls, doesn't mean I want to get fucked in the ass.

Where does this generalization come from? I place blame on a lack of sexual creativity.

[BeardedOne]

PS:

I can't help but ask about Tom's current avatar. Did that girl ever forgive Rocco Sifredi for trying to poke her in her 'taint'? :lol:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

KEEP
IT
GOING
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

all guys are not rushing to find some chick at 3am at a pickup bar

all guys are not looking to get you alone so you can talk them into driving you by the weed spot before you consider giving them some ass

all guys do not do oral sex

all guys do not look at your friends who are staring you down because they want to try and take you away from shorty you're with because they can't stand the fact that you're with shorty instead of them

all guys do not fuck a chick they give a ride to, it can often be just a ride

all guys do not talk to their homeboys about who they fucked, to many a guy it's personal

all guys do not ONLY call chicks for bootycalls

oh yeah
all guys do NOT talk about other guys to the chick they are sweating to try and make that other guy look bad because they fear their chick will jump on that other guy's dick and have the best orgasm she ever had!!!!!!!!!!!

hehehe hi Jen Paris baby, mwah love you

[TomSelis]

KEEP
IT
GOING
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

all guys are not rushing to find some chick at 3am at a pickup bar

all guys are not looking to get you alone so you can talk them into driving you by the weed spot before you consider giving them some ass

all guys do not do oral sex

all guys do not look at your friends who are staring you down because they want to try and take you away from shorty you're with because they can't stand the fact that you're with shorty instead of them

all guys do not fuck a chick they give a ride to, it can often be just a ride

all guys do not talk to their homeboys about who they fucked, to many a guy it's personal

all guys do not ONLY call chicks for bootycalls

oh yeah
all guys do NOT talk about other guys to the chick they are sweating to try and make that other guy look bad because they fear their chick will jump on that other guy's dick and have the best orgasm she ever had!!!!!!!!!!!

hehehe hi Jen Paris baby, mwah love you

That made me LOL!

[Ecstatic]

All guys are not afraid or ashamed to be seen in public with their TG friends or lovers.

[trish]

All guys are not secret bottoms

this is just obviously wrong since it implies no guys are secret bottoms; and yet some are. so in our zeal to make our own preferences clear, let's not overstate our case. i think you mean to say, "not every guy is a secret bottom."

[TomSelis]

No, I think that was quite clear.

[TomSelis]

All guys are not afraid or ashamed to be seen in public with their TG friends or lovers.

Good one, BTW Ecstatic! 8)

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

All guys are not secret bottoms

this is just obviously wrong since it implies no guys are secret bottoms; and yet some are. so in our zeal to make our own preferences clear, let's not overstate our case. i think you mean to say, "not every guy is a secret bottom."

wow, ok so we have to be politically and grammatically correct on here now?!?

let me reword mine for arguments sake

some guys are not rushing to find some chick at 3am at a pickup bar

some guys are not looking to get you alone so you can talk them into driving you by the weed spot before you consider giving them some ass

some guys do not do oral sex

some guys do not look at your friends who are staring you down because they want to try and take you away from shorty you're with because they can't stand the fact that you're with shorty instead of them

1% of guys worldwide do not fuck a chick they give a ride to, it can often be just a ride

some guys do not talk to their homeboys about who they fucked, to many a guy it's personal

some guys do not ONLY call chicks for bootycalls

oh yeah
most guys do NOT talk about other guys to the chick they are sweating to try and make that other guy look bad because they fear their chick will jump on that other guy's dick and have the best orgasm she ever had!!!!!!!!!!!

guys like that are insecure, have alias names so they can read threads, and log into gabber chat rooms but never sign in so they can read what people are typing to hide like the pussies they are

thanks for the motivation trish, ;)

[hondarobot]

JWBL has a Jennifer Paris avatar now. Interesting. . .

[TomSelis]

Yeah, might as well reword mine too.

All top guys are not secret bottoms.

*hands out a cookie*

[trish]

thanks for the motivation trish, Wink

just a quirk of mine...i'm not a big grammar person...but i'm a sucker for a man who's accurate. have good weekend.
:wink:

[mbf]

my little list:

a good looking chick will ALWAYS get the guy

its only chicks that get stalked

its only chicks that get their hearts broken

beeing "nice" will get you the chick

a guy who is into TS will never go back to GGs

women dont enjoy watching porn

guys who are on this forum and say they just wanna learn about TS-ism are by no means interested in the nude pix


:P

[MacShreach]

i'm a sucker for a man who's accurate. have good weekend.
:wink:

LOL I see you have lost none of your sparkle, anyway.

Oh yeah

Not all straight men look at you as if you're mad when you use the word "mauve"

Not all men are culinary disaster areas


and


Not all men who think transsexual women are cool are obsessed by dick.

[62des]

a guy who is into TS will never go back to GGs

You lost me there bud, and some other points you brought up as well.

[Quinn]

My favorite:

All guys are "thirsty."

-Quinn

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

JWBL has a Jennifer Paris avatar now. Interesting. . .

yeah that's my homegirl, glad we became friends

[hondarobot]

JWBL has a Jennifer Paris avatar now. Interesting. . .

yeah that's my homegirl, glad we became friends

Cheers to that. Don't look into her eyes, though. There's something magic about her eyes, you know what I'm talking about.

I've never seen them in person, but still. . .

[Quiet Reflections]

1. not every new person on this site wants to fuck you all or be fucked.
2. Not every guy will pay for sex
3. being quiet and not posting dosent always mean your just here to jerk it! sometime what you want to say has already been said and from what i observe everyone hates a cosigner.
4. there are guys that ask girls out just to get to know them
5. i once read a post from someone somewhere that said if you put a gg and a tg next to each other you can always tell the difference. that in my opinion is not true.
6. believe it or not There are actually nice, interesting guys that just enjoy like minded people

[TJ347]

1. That I have no personal experience whatsoever with tgirls, and just pull whatever I say with regards to them out of my ass.

2. That someone who really doesn't give a shit what you think or have to say about anything can truly be "pwnded". Seriously... You've been made to look ridiculous before a community of a thousand or so faceless, nameless people, to whom you are faceless and nameless as well... How very embarrasing. :lol:

3. That I have some irrational dislike for some of the women here, and take any opportunity I can to cause an argument with them.

4. That I really am a trust fund baby.

[Ecstatic]

All guys are not secret bottoms

this is just obviously wrong since it implies no guys are secret bottoms; and yet some are. so in our zeal to make our own preferences clear, let's not overstate our case. i think you mean to say, "not every guy is a secret bottom."

wow, ok so we have to be politically and grammatically correct on here now?!?
Interesting. In fact, the debate over the "All are not" construction in English dates back several centuries, including Shakespeare's famous quote, "All that glitters is not gold," which literally includes gold. Fowler addressed the construction in his Modern English Usage 80 years ago, and just this past Sunday it was the subject of Jan Freeman's "The Word" column in the Boston Globe Ideas section.

However, the locution is usually understood without ambiguity by most readers, though Freeman notes: 'Sure, you can write sentences in which the scope of the negation (as the linguists call it) is unclear. "The entire team was not available": Were all players sidelined, or only some? And spoken language is more flexible than written: "Everyone can't go" might be puzzling in print, but not if uttered by a baseball fan with three tickets and six friends.' (Find Freeman's full discussion here: http://www.boston.com/news/globe/ideas/articles/2007/10/28/entirely_wrong/ )

Your objection crossed my mind as I posted my response, Trish, but I elected to follow suit with the construction already in use. But to rephrase my point with greater clarity: "Not all guys are afraid or ashamed to be seen in public with their TG friends or lovers."

And thanks for the props, TomSelis!

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

my little list:

a good looking chick will ALWAYS get the guy

its only chicks that get stalked

its only chicks that get their hearts broken

beeing "nice" will get you the chick

a guy who is into TS will never go back to GGs

women dont enjoy watching porn

guys who are on this forum and say they just wanna learn about TS-ism are by no means interested in the nude pix


:P

lol, flip all of those over to the other side of their coin and you have a valid argument

as it stands right there though, they are all so false
lol

[slinky]

cocks size doesn't matter

I want to date a nice guy

It's just a pimple

She looks so good, I don't care if she's got a cock or not

I'm into TS but I never look at their dicks

I don't like pretty boys / I don't like gym bunnies

I am not a prostitute

[blckhaze]

People who wear glasses are not punks

Cuddling with your girl IS manly.

Skinny bitches are evil, but fat chicks are haters.

[justatransgirl]

All men are jerks

All men are cheapskates

All men care about is how "big" you are

All men are only interested in their own orgasams

Not all men want to sleep with Jessica

Jamie will sleep with anybody... (well, OK that one is true...)

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[mbf]

two more:

a compliment from a guy is NEVER sincere and ALWAYS connected with a hidden agenda aka an attempt to get in her pants

not answering to an idiotic/insulting posting always means you are defeated and dont know what to answer

[BeardedOne]

My favorite:

All guys are "thirsty."

-Quinn

All gurls are 'thirty'. :wink:

[Ecstatic]

All girls on Eros are 24 and have at least 8"-9"....

[trish]

Here’s a quote from the link provided by Ecstatic,

Neal Whitman, who blogs about language at Literal-Minded, spent some time trying to figure out Kilpatrick's reasoning. Mark Liberman, at Language Log, furnished examples of famous writers flouting Kilpatrick's dictum, back to Shakespeare's "All that glisters is not gold." They could find no evidence that English speakers are confused by constructions like "not available in all areas."
So why do people claim befuddlement? I guess they're looking for trouble.


Mia culpa! Generally I don’t find such constructions confusing, though being technically trained, the ambiguities in these constructions always stand out in my mind. I can forgive Shakespeare his use of poetic license. But then Shakespeare wasn’t overcompensating with Freudian overtones that all poets are not secret bottoms. I just saw an opportunity to cause a little mischief and gave into the impulse. Sorry. :twisted:

[whatsupwithat]

that all transwomen are sex workers.

[justatransgirl]

that all transwomen are sex workers.

Nah... only 50%

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

[CORVETTEDUDE]

That the height of a guy is an indication of the size of his dick.

[Chaotic]

That the height of a guy is an indication of the size of his dick.

If I may supplement that, the size of other body parts (feet, hands, et al) is an indicator of dick size. :smh

[Ecstatic]

Mia culpa! Generally I don’t find such constructions confusing, though being technically trained, the ambiguities in these constructions always stand out in my mind. I can forgive Shakespeare his use of poetic license. But then Shakespeare wasn’t overcompensating with Freudian overtones that all poets are not secret bottoms. I just saw an opportunity to cause a little mischief and gave into the impulse. Sorry. :twisted:
LOL! :lol: "But then Shakespeare wasn't overcompensating with Freudian overtones that all poets are not secret bottoms." ROTFL!! Anyway, I had the same initial reaction that you did to that construction. I just think it's nice that we can break away from T&HA long enough to engage in a little grammatical discussion once in a while!

Now back to your regularly scheduled T&HA....

[MrsKellyPierce]

We all don't wear wigs.
We all don't date men.
We all don't have to get implants to have breast!
We all don't escort.
We all aren't sluts or sexual fantasies waiting to be taken advantage.
We all aren't catty.
We all aren't crazy.
We all aren't bottoms.
WE all don't sound like a man!

Just a few

[Quinn]

We all aren't sluts or sexual fantasies waiting to be taken advantage.


I really hope that you are joking about this one being a misconception. Otherwise, my five-year long campaign of PMing unsolicited genital pics to every transsexual woman on this forum will have been in vain. Damn it! Why didn't someone tell me this sooner?

-Quinn

[MrsKellyPierce]

We all aren't sluts or sexual fantasies waiting to be taken advantage.


I really hope that you are joking about this one being a misconception. Otherwise, my five-year long campaign of PMing unsolicited genital pics to every transsexual woman on this forum will have been in vain. Damn it! Why didn't someone tell me this sooner?

-Quinn :lol:

[yodajazz]

Here’s three. 1. A man who would even touch the penis of a pre-op woman during sex, would leave her if he found one who had bigger one.

2. A man who dates a pre-op woman will not want her after she has surgery, when he is also into GG’s.

3. A man would leave one woman for another, only becuase the sex was better.