T-girl Relationship Problems :(

i feel stupid posting this but here it goes:
I met this "hungangel" at a club a few weeks back. She's cute,spanish/black complexion big tits and a nice round onion ass (the kind that makes you cry). She's a nice person, intelligent and doesn't seem to be a psycho. All in all a great catch.
My problem is, we are completely sexually incompatible. She's hung like a horse and likes submissive guys. I don't do that "fag shit". (kidding, I've tried it, didn't like it.)
She doesn't like to get fucked. At all. She used to escort and even then she was a "TOP ONLY".
We've had sex 3 times since we've met and it's like she always wants to "fuck me" and never get fucked. My blue balls are getting bad and a handjob is not doing the trick for me. I practically had to pull my self back from "forcibly having my way with her" (Oz style!).

What should i do?

[snatch]

wish i had his problem

[thanos]

If it's not working for you, you should just leave. She has needs but so do you, and why should your needs come second?

[Kaveena]

she sounds like me and I thought is was different

call me a dummy but I'm still with her. It's working out alright, only I have to get relief from other places. Like I said, other than the sex, she's a cool person. She doesn't know I go elsewhere to get relief but if it really mattered to her, she help out, if you know what I mean. Anyway, love the site.

[thanos]

I checked the IP, it's the same guy. :wink:
so E Nonymous, do you still get done by her or do you two have no sex what-so-ever? If the answer to this question is what I think it is, do you like it now?

[Vicki Richter]

Remember thanos the moderator? He used to like shemales.

[LG]

Remember thanos the moderator? He used to like shemales.

That's a pretty old thread you're ressurecting Vicki.

Yeah, Thanos...he seemed cool. Whatever happened to him...He must be pretty busy. He's posted once or twice lately though.

Oh and how did the colostomy go, Vicki? Are you out of the clinic?

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

smh, Thanos was on yesterday, he made the 600 posts thread

[LG]

smh, Thanos was on yesterday, he made the 600 posts thread

Yeah, I know! I saw that! That was unexpected. He replied to a query of mine in the Membership Services thread, too. I did say he posted once or twice lately, didn't I. But we haven't been seeing much of him for months- he used to be on all the time when I first joined up. I was just curious where he disappeared.

[justatransgirl]

This situation isn't that unusual. There are quite a few TS's who are not intersted in being bottom. Just as there are TS's who are not into men, who even though they "are" women and may consider themselves lesbians, prefer to have sex with women in the traditional way.

This is what makes the TS community so diverse and difficult for people to understand. As has been said many times before sexuality is not gender.

My partner, Jessica and I each have our preferences. It works for us. She is strictly a top, does not like being bottom. I prefer being bottom. So we compliment each other and between us when we date we truly do have the "best of both worlds."

But a relationship usually has to result in sexual gratification for both parties, and sex is in some ways a coupling of the soul. So while I'm certainly no therapist the situation "guest" described sounds doomed.

Which doesn't mean you can't be friends, and interests change, so I always say "go with the flow..."

Hugs,
TS Jamie

[LTR_Seeker]

discuss it with her since youre getting some on the side it seems that wont help the situation

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

LG I wasn't SMH @ you and I can't believe we are continuing this ancient thread, LMAOOOOOOOOO

[LG]

I can't believe we are continuing this ancient thread, LMAOOOOOOOOO


I know!

A note to everyone: Do not try replying to the original posts. This thread is dead. For all we know the original poster might be too. Or he might have fucked off to Brazil or Thailand or to jail. In any case, he won't read your replies.

Thank you for allowing me to vent, JWBL. It's becoming quite therapeutic. :D