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Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 12:19 AM
1. The Needy Guy
He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

2. The Predictable Guy
Women don't like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he'll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he'd never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night.

3. The Arrogant Guy
He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He is also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.

4. The Boorish Guy
The Boorish Guy doesn't try to hide the fact that he's checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women.

5. The Cheap Guy
He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests they go Dutch. He never splurges to buy her flowers and he always opts for the cheapest wine. He makes her feel like they're on a tight budget from the very first date.

6. The Arguer
This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. When he takes a woman out, he makes her feel like she's in debate class rather than on a date. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious.

7. The Self-Righteous Guy
This guy is very judgmental of others. He probably doesn't drink or smoke, and he doesn't hesitate to tell others to follow suit. From the very first date, he'll preach to a woman, telling her she shouldn't drink wine or get dessert.

8. The Misogynist
This guy makes no secret of his bitterness toward women. On a date, he can't help but exude negativity toward his companion and the entire female gender by making rude and insulting comments.

SOURCE: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_100/141_dating_girl.html
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~Kisses.

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wombat33
04-06-2007, 12:22 AM
1. The Needy Guy
He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

2. The Predictable Guy
Women don't like the Predictable Guy because they know exactly how he'll react to everything. He follows formulas and never wants to do anything differently. For example, he'd never surprise a woman by spontaneously taking her out for the night.

3. The Arrogant Guy
He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He is also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.

4. The Boorish Guy
The Boorish Guy doesn't try to hide the fact that he's checking out other women while in her presence; he flirts with the waitress and he even goes as far as to brag about his past conquests. Overall, he lacks respect for women.

5. The Cheap Guy
He invites a woman to dinner and then subtly suggests they go Dutch. He never splurges to buy her flowers and he always opts for the cheapest wine. He makes her feel like they're on a tight budget from the very first date.

6. The Arguer
This type of guy turns every conversation into an argument. When he takes a woman out, he makes her feel like she's in debate class rather than on a date. And in doing so, he makes her feel defensive and self-conscious.

7. The Self-Righteous Guy
This guy is very judgmental of others. He probably doesn't drink or smoke, and he doesn't hesitate to tell others to follow suit. From the very first date, he'll preach to a woman, telling her she shouldn't drink wine or get dessert.

8. The Misogynist
This guy makes no secret of his bitterness toward women. On a date, he can't help but exude negativity toward his companion and the entire female gender by making rude and insulting comments.

SOURCE: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_100/141_dating_girl.html
__________________________________________________ ___________

~Kisses.

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WHAT'S LEFT??????????? LOL.

North_of_60
04-06-2007, 12:23 AM
It's not going very well for me as I see.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 12:29 AM
WHAT'S LEFT??????????? LOL.

:lol: Lmao :lol:

What women want

Are you confused about what women are looking for? Well, iVillage.com unravels some of that mystery for you by revealing the types of men women are looking to date. Read through the five categories of men and see if you are one of the eligible bachelors she’s looking for.

1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.

Celebrity counterparts: Cary Grant, Johnny Depp as Don Juan DeMarco

2. Mr. Big Shot
He dresses sharp, talks slick and has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag. One look at him in his tailored suit and you're toast -- which is exactly why he wears it.

Celebrity counterparts: Chris Noth as Mr. Big, any Bond

3. Mr. Sexy Older Guy
He's old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough women to know that you require much more than dinner and a few martinis to get into the mood. Best of all, he never makes you late for dinner because he's playing Xbox.

Celebrity counterparts: Sean Connery, Antonio Banderas

4. Mr. Man's Man
He carries your bags, will defend your honor and would rather swallow glass than shave his chest or take hot wax to his eyebrows.

Celebrity counterparts: Frank Sinatra, Russell Crowe

5. Mr. Fun Social Guy
Whether he's out with friends or meeting the family for brunch, one thing's for certain: He's going to be the life of the party.

Celebrity counterparts: Will Farrell, Vince Vaughn

SOURCE: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_150/168_dating_girl.html
__________________________________________________ _____________________

~Kisses.

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arc angel
04-06-2007, 12:29 AM
:banghead hmmm?... why am i single?...............

wombat33
04-06-2007, 12:36 AM
WHAT'S LEFT??????????? LOL.

:lol: Lmao :lol:

What women want

Are you confused about what women are looking for? Well, iVillage.com unravels some of that mystery for you by revealing the types of men women are looking to date. Read through the five categories of men and see if you are one of the eligible bachelors she’s looking for.

1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.

Celebrity counterparts: Cary Grant, Johnny Depp as Don Juan DeMarco

2. Mr. Big Shot
He dresses sharp, talks slick and has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag. One look at him in his tailored suit and you're toast -- which is exactly why he wears it.

Celebrity counterparts: Chris Noth as Mr. Big, any Bond

3. Mr. Sexy Older Guy
He's old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough women to know that you require much more than dinner and a few martinis to get into the mood. Best of all, he never makes you late for dinner because he's playing Xbox.

Celebrity counterparts: Sean Connery, Antonio Banderas

4. Mr. Man's Man
He carries your bags, will defend your honor and would rather swallow glass than shave his chest or take hot wax to his eyebrows.

Celebrity counterparts: Frank Sinatra, Russell Crowe

5. Mr. Fun Social Guy
Whether he's out with friends or meeting the family for brunch, one thing's for certain: He's going to be the life of the party.

Celebrity counterparts: Will Farrell, Vince Vaughn

SOURCE: http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi_150/168_dating_girl.html
__________________________________________________ _____________________

~Kisses.

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WHAT A COINCIDENCE.......I JUST HAPPEN TO BE ALL OF THOSE. WHAT ARE YOU DOING LATER TONIGHT ; )

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 12:39 AM
WHAT A COINCIDENCE.......I JUST HAPPEN TO BE ALL OF THOSE. WHAT ARE YOU DOING LATER TONIGHT ; )

LOL :lol: I'm retiring early to bed as I'm working (on duty) the weekends wombat33. :?

~Kisses.

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wombat33
04-06-2007, 12:48 AM
WHAT A COINCIDENCE.......I JUST HAPPEN TO BE ALL OF THOSE. WHAT ARE YOU DOING LATER TONIGHT ; )

LOL :lol: I'm retiring early to bed as I'm working (on duty) the weekends wombat33. :?

~Kisses.

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Sleep well, in peace and may tomorrow bring you your finest day.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 12:58 AM
Sleep well, in peace and may tomorrow bring you your finest day.

I know! LOL Laguna Beach here I go!! :lol: I hope there are cuties out there! I guess I'll just have to find out for myself. :P ;)

~Kisses.

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a994
04-06-2007, 01:37 AM
[1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.




He'll also be rejected within five seconds by at least 99% of all women, who will instead find themselves some edgy, thuggish, or even soociopathic "bad boy" who will behave inconsiderately, irresponsibly, or even violently toward them. Then these same women (genetic and otherwise) will then go crying to their friends and wonder why they can never find a Nice Romantic Guy.

whatsupwithat
04-06-2007, 01:47 AM
Sleep well, in peace and may tomorrow bring you your finest day.

I know! LOL Laguna Beach here I go!! :lol: I hope there are cuties out there! I guess I'll just have to find out for myself. :P ;)

~Kisses.

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Lifeguard?

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 01:50 AM
Sleep well, in peace and may tomorrow bring you your finest day.

I know! LOL Laguna Beach here I go!! :lol: I hope there are cuties out there! I guess I'll just have to find out for myself. :P ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Lifeguard?

:? Nope! I'm not too fond of the beach actually..But I want one tho! LOL :lol:

~Kisses.

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whatsupwithat
04-06-2007, 01:53 AM
Sleep well, in peace and may tomorrow bring you your finest day.

I know! LOL Laguna Beach here I go!! :lol: I hope there are cuties out there! I guess I'll just have to find out for myself. :P ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Lifeguard?

:? Nope! I'm not too fond of the beach actually..But I want one tho! LOL :lol:

~Kisses.

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I'll get certified. :P

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 01:57 AM
I'll get certified. :P

Awesome! LOL :lol: Now if you're moving to LA that be interesting! LOL :P

~Kisses.

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Aragon21
04-06-2007, 02:16 AM
[1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.




He'll also be rejected within five seconds by at least 99% of all women, who will instead find themselves some edgy, thuggish, or even soociopathic "bad boy" who will behave inconsiderately, irresponsibly, or even violently toward them. Then these same women (genetic and otherwise) will then go crying to their friends and wonder why they can never find a Nice Romantic Guy.

AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH! Then we get labeled:
1. The Needy Guy
He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

Odd how both are number one. :frustrated As they say "Damned if you do, damned if you don't"

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 02:22 AM
1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.




He'll also be rejected within five seconds by at least 99% of all women, who will instead find themselves some edgy, thuggish, or even soociopathic "bad boy" who will behave inconsiderately, irresponsibly, or even violently toward them. Then these same women (genetic and otherwise) will then go crying to their friends and wonder why they can never find a Nice Romantic Guy.

AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH! Then we get labeled:
1. The Needy Guy
He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

Odd how both are number one. :frustrated As they say "Damned if you do, damned if you don't"

Being a ROMANTIC and NEEDY are two different things Aragon21. You can be romantic yet unselfish and realistic..not needy, pressuring and stalkish! Don't even get me started if you meant your apology!! :evil:

~Kisses.

HTG

Kriss
04-06-2007, 02:46 AM
8 Types of men women avoid

I think most girls rather like a bit of number 3 and 4
number 8 is obviously gay.


What women want


# 2 ; has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag

GAY


# 4 ; would rather swallow glass than shave his chest or take hot wax to his eyebrows

GAY (protests TOO much)

(you WAX your EYEBROWS!!!???OUCH , THAT'S HARD WORK)


stalkish!

:lol: :lol: Good word

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 03:21 AM
8 Types of men women avoid

I think most girls rather like a bit of number 3 and 4
number 8 is obviously gay.


What women want


# 2 ; has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag

GAY


# 4 ; would rather swallow glass than shave his chest or take hot wax to his eyebrows

GAY (protests TOO much)

(you WAX your EYEBROWS!!!???OUCH , THAT'S HARD WORK)


LOL Except for the waxing their eyebrows part..:lol: If those statements were true (Gay) then more than half the population of New York men would be GAY! LOL :lol:

I don't think there's anything wrong if a guy grooms and dresses sharp for his lady. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

mikey_stl
04-06-2007, 08:50 AM
2. Mr. Big Shot
He dresses sharp, talks slick and has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag. One look at him in his tailored suit and you're toast -- which is exactly why he wears it.

Celebrity counterparts: Chris Noth as Mr. Big, any Bond

How true! I usually don't dress up, but I went to a party one night in a tux -- and then I went to a t-bar afterwards. I got quite a bit of attention from the ladies there (also from the ggs at the party).

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-06-2007, 12:44 PM
2. Mr. Big Shot
He dresses sharp, talks slick and has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag. One look at him in his tailored suit and you're toast -- which is exactly why he wears it.

Celebrity counterparts: Chris Noth as Mr. Big, any Bond

How true! I usually don't dress up, but I went to a party one night in a tux -- and then I went to a t-bar afterwards. I got quite a bit of attention from the ladies there (also from the ggs at the party).

Agreed! And I've met alot of these types back in NYC. :P

These men always look sharp! ;) Now back to bed.. lol

~Kisses.

HTG

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
04-06-2007, 01:04 PM
3. The Arrogant Guy
He has a huge ego and he's condescending. He is also rude -- not necessarily to her, but to anyone he perceives as beneath him. And that's just as bad as being rude directly to her.


hehehe

insert_namehere
04-06-2007, 01:20 PM
1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.

Reality = Girl gets edgy waiting for the other shoe to drop. The assumption that eventually all the hearts and flowers stuff is merely to impress grows and grows until she is unable to enjoy the moment but instead is constantly LOOKING for the crack in the façade. The first time he smiles in response to a comment by a waitress - girl is convinced that he's now ready to "trade up", goes home and eats a gallon of ice cream, calls her girl friends and spends the rest of the night discussing why men are such dogs.


2. Mr. Big Shot
He dresses sharp, talks slick and has the perfectly coiffed looks of a man straight out of a lad mag. One look at him in his tailored suit and you're toast -- which is exactly why he wears it.

Reality = Eventually revealed as having the depth of a teaspoon. Topics of conversation will include how badly everyone else dresses, what a douche Mister Blackwell is, the problems of a six button suit, how excruciating NYC "Fashion Week" was and why green really isn't your color and what on earth were you thinking with that scarf thing?


3. Mr. Sexy Older Guy
He's old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough women to know that you require much more than dinner and a few martinis to get into the mood. Best of all, he never makes you late for dinner because he's playing Xbox.

Reality = Listens to nothing but "dinosaur music", cannot discuss "American Idol" or "The Apprentice" with you, has faded badly by 10:00 p.m., has weird and creepy stuff in the medicine cabinet, REALLY needs to pluck hairs growing out of the tip of his nose and the eges of his ears and cannot hear what you're saying over the sound levels of the average nightclub or trendy restaurant


4. Mr. Man's Man
He carries your bags, will defend your honor and would rather swallow glass than shave his chest or take hot wax to his eyebrows.

Reality = Cancels dates on a regular basis when the Knicks, Rangers or Giants are in town… eventually will be charged with assault for pummeling the crap out of some guy you didn't even notice but he was certain was "checking you out".


5. Mr. Fun Social Guy
Whether he's out with friends or meeting the family for brunch, one thing's for certain: He's going to be the life of the party.

Reality = Life of the party role model will slowly shift from Vince Vaughn to Will Farrel to John Belushi to John Candy to Chris Farley. Now you're stuck with a fat, drunk, sweaty guy in a loud Hawaiian shirt.

mikejones
04-06-2007, 02:58 PM
ROFL at the fat, drunk, sweaty guy in a loud Hawaiian shirt!

insert_namehere
04-06-2007, 06:05 PM
ROFL at the fat, drunk, sweaty guy in a loud Hawaiian shirt!
"It's funny 'cuz it's true"

Perverted Monk
04-06-2007, 07:32 PM
LOL!!! at Insert's counters

peggygee
04-06-2007, 07:33 PM
Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.

Celebrity counterparts: Cary Grant, Johnny Depp as Don Juan DeMarco


3. Mr. Sexy Older Guy
He's old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough women to know that you require much more than dinner and a few martinis to get into the mood. Best of all, he never makes you late for dinner because he's playing Xbox.

Celebrity counterparts: Sean Connery, Antonio Banderas



I'd like a combination of the Mr. Romantic with a bit of the older guy.

The caveat, is for Mr. Romantic to not stop 'romancing me' beyond the
courtship. Some men feel that once they have you they can take you for
granted, and that they should'nt keep doing the sweet things they did to
woo you.

As to the older man, he needs to be emotionally availible, knows what he
wants, has sown his wild oats, yet is still young at heart.

werwt22
04-06-2007, 07:52 PM
Negative

I'd say I'm a little bit of an arguer and a needy guy. I exercise restraint in being needy but I'm not one of those guys that will let my relationship fall apart. When I see a problem I speak on it, aka the arguer, but with good intent and purpose. I always reevaluate my friendships anyway b/c a lot of people are sneaky and make you think that you can trust them even though u cant.

Positive

I'd say I'm more of Mr. Bigshot with a combo of Mr. Smooth LOL. Reminds me when I wore my tux to the bar and everyone was coming up to me just because I was dressed better than everyone else there LOL. I like to stay smelling fresh (like 5 body washes in my shower and 4 colognes not at the same time obviously), and I try perfect a smooth walk and a smerk and keep a fresh shape-up. I cant help my big cheesy smile every now and then though.

werwt22
04-06-2007, 08:06 PM
[1. Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.




He'll also be rejected within five seconds by at least 99% of all women, who will instead find themselves some edgy, thuggish, or even soociopathic "bad boy" who will behave inconsiderately, irresponsibly, or even violently toward them. Then these same women (genetic and otherwise) will then go crying to their friends and wonder why they can never find a Nice Romantic Guy.

AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH! Then we get labeled:
1. The Needy Guy
He is overly emotional and shares all his feelings with her right away. The Needy Guy also doubts himself and needs constant reassurance about his relationship, work and friendships.

Odd how both are number one. :frustrated As they say "Damned if you do, damned if you don't"

Yes I learned to stop being Mr. Nice guy a long time ago and tried to find a midpoint between Crap and Nice LOL. Its funny b/c my relationships lasted longer that way...it's like it adds some fire/spice to the relationship.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
04-08-2007, 07:03 AM
Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.

Celebrity counterparts: Cary Grant, Johnny Depp as Don Juan DeMarco


3. Mr. Sexy Older Guy
He's old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough women to know that you require much more than dinner and a few martinis to get into the mood. Best of all, he never makes you late for dinner because he's playing Xbox.

Celebrity counterparts: Sean Connery, Antonio Banderas



I'd like a combination of the Mr. Romantic with a bit of the older guy.

The caveat, is for Mr. Romantic to not stop 'romancing me' beyond the
courtship. Some men feel that once they have you they can take you for
granted, and that they should'nt keep doing the sweet things they did to
woo you.

As to the older man, he needs to be emotionally availible, knows what he
wants, has sown his wild oats, yet is still young at heart.

I couldnt agree more. ;) Unfortunately, sometimes guys forget being romantic after they already won your affection and starts taking their girls for granted. :evil:

:roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

franks
04-08-2007, 07:38 AM
Mr. Nice Romantic Guy
He'll show up with flowers, leave cards around your apartment and quote Keats on a whim. Think old-fashioned courtship where you're being wooed instead of sitting by the phone wondering if he'll call.

Celebrity counterparts: Cary Grant, Johnny Depp as Don Juan DeMarco


3. Mr. Sexy Older Guy
He's old enough to have settled into his skin and has been involved with enough women to know that you require much more than dinner and a few martinis to get into the mood. Best of all, he never makes you late for dinner because he's playing Xbox.

Celebrity counterparts: Sean Connery, Antonio Banderas



I'd like a combination of the Mr. Romantic with a bit of the older guy.

The caveat, is for Mr. Romantic to not stop 'romancing me' beyond the
courtship. Some men feel that once they have you they can take you for
granted, and that they should'nt keep doing the sweet things they did to
woo you.

As to the older man, he needs to be emotionally availible, knows what he
wants, has sown his wild oats, yet is still young at heart.

well stated. :)

Justwaiting
04-08-2007, 09:03 AM
i would say im a chivalrous guy, a guy was tailing my sisters car all the way home even fallowed her into the parking lot he was about to park right next to her when she parked so what did i do lol, went out there with a 4 foot sword and scared the living shit out of him, he floored it driving away as fast as his crappy little ford fuck truck could.
ive also defended my sister against 6 guys, fuckers came at me all at once so i had to use my violen case to keep em back. i tend to do stuff like that when i can. i tend to help the little guy out. its goten me into alot of fights tho.

werwt22
04-08-2007, 03:36 PM
i would say im a chivalrous guy, a guy was tailing my sisters car all the way home even fallowed her into the parking lot he was about to park right next to her when she parked so what did i do lol, went out there with a 4 foot sword and scared the living shit out of him, he floored it driving away as fast as his crappy little ford fuck truck could.
ive also defended my sister against 6 guys, fuckers came at me all at once so i had to use my violen case to keep em back. i tend to do stuff like that when i can. i tend to help the little guy out. its goten me into alot of fights tho.\

How the hell do you go from wielding a sword to playing the violin? :violin LMAO