B-WARE of the Tranny Lurker

[Thuggish_Intellect]

It seems that we have a lot of transsexual lurkers on this message board, who only post when someone attacks transsexuals, makes a comment about them not to their liking, or when they're posting about business. I just wanted to say that is sooooooooooooo wack (wack = ebonic for bad).

If you'd like to be looked at differently, try posting and conversating more in general with the guys, with the other girls, with the mods, etc. I think this is one of the more lively boards I participate on (and actually the only sex related site I post on). I personally love to see good quality banter/interaction amongst the different and diverse groups of people. I've also come to be pleasantly suprised by interacting with a few of the girls in here...for example (even though most might not think it's that big of a deal) I didn't know some of the girls had a thing for Hip Hop, I didn't know Hip Hop was played at Allanah's parties (I always think of New York as techno related) and didn't know Allanah was soooooo down to earth.

So type up a little...get involved...don't just stick to atypical "how big is your cock post" (which actually disgust me)...if you don't like the content/topic, change it up...speak about it...

[Felicia Katt]

Face it, this place is more like a locker room than a cocktail party. I've tried starting new conversations which usually grind to a halt, or adding to exisiting ones, which devolve into personal attacks and name calling. No one likes being snapped at with a verbal wet towel

While I have felt welcome here, I have to say I have been underwhelmed by the response. It really seems like most of the posters here only want pictures or sexual talk. and the only girls they want to hear from are girls they have seen in videos or on eros. Its that way on another board I am on. So much so, that I almost never post there anymore, and a friend of mine who was very active there has stopped posting entirely.

I'm still going to post here. but I pick my spots. Maybe this is like asking leopards to change their spots, but if the men here would elevate their level of discussions, you'd see more girls posting here.

Felicia

[hillbilly]

i can see why the board has left a bad taste in your mouth at times but i think the fact that you have stuck it out Felicia has helped balance out the board.

i hope you stay and i love the avatar and visited your site. you look great.

[Felicia Katt]

i can see why the board has left a bad taste in your mouth .

they say pineapple juice helps with that bad taste

meow

thank you for the compliments :)

[eclipse2000b]

I have to agree with Felicia. A lot of the topics here are about pictures or cock size or something like that. Also, a lot of the posts are NYC specific and I'm in and out of a lot of cities, but call none home. But your point is well taken.

[Danielle Foxxx]

I TOTALLY DISAGREE WITH FELICIA AND FROM NOW ON I AM GOING TO TYPE EVERYTHING IN CAPS AND YELL AT ANY POST THAT I DON'T LIKE...I AM AGRY AND I HATE THE WORLD, I HATE FELICIA - I HATE SMART TALK

lol

I love to laugh, it's really a great thing

Felicia, on a better note - I love the new Pics as well, you look stunning on Friday night and we must do pictures in that look as well

Kisses

me

[ONEWORLD]

...but if the men here would elevate their level of discussions, you'd see more girls posting here.


HERE HERE.



i can see why the board has left a bad taste in your mouth at times but i think the fact that you have stuck it out Felicia has helped balance out the board.

YESSSSS, THE BOARD NEEDS MORE GIRLS, PREFERABLY YOUNGER GIRLS & FOR THAT MATTER, "NON-INDUSTRY" GIRLS...AS WE HEAR A LOT, ANECDOTALLY ABOUT T-GIRLS THAT HAVE REGULAR JOBS AND THAT ARE IN HEALTHY, MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIPS BUT IT WOULD BE GREAT FOR THEM TO GIVE ADVICE AND ENLIGHTEN MEN WHO ARE INTERESTED IN T-GIRLS AS POSSIBLE LIFETIME PARTNERS...



...Face it, this place is more like a locker room than a cocktail party...

YESSSSS, I CAME TO THIS SITE, WITH MY GIRL, TO VIEW ALLANAH'S PARTY PICS...AND AFTER SEEING THE VARIOUS TOPICS, I SAW NO REASON TO POST ON THIS SITE...SO IMAGINE MY SURPRISE WHEN I SAW SUBJECTS ABOUT DATING AND OTHER TG SPECIFIC ISSUES BEING DISCUSSED...AND WHAT WAS EVEN MORE SURPRISING WAS SEEING ABSOLUTE SHADE TELLING THE DUDES WHAT THE GIRLS WERE REALLY THINKING AND CRITIQUING THE PICTURES...MY GIRL LOVES SHADES POSTS BTW...

[Danielle Foxxx]

Pref. younger girls???
What exacly does that mean? LOL OHHHHHHH Like underage looking ones with no life experience....I see I see said the blind man...LOL

What does "non-industry" mean?

And what does that have to do with someone's ability to carry on a smart conversation?

Hummmm.... here we go again....

[ONEWORLD]

Pref. younger girls???

YESSS, AS WE HEAR ABOUT HOW THESE YOUNGER GIRLS ARE GENERALLY LEADING SHADY, SEEDY LIVES; WELL I KNOW SOME YOUNG GIRLS THAT ARE NOT FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF SOME OF THE OLDER GIRLS AND/ OR GAY PARENTS...THEY ARE PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE AS OPPOSE TO LIVING FOR TODAY...MINE INCLUDED...AND DON'T SEE THAT POINT OF VIEW YET. (18 - 25)




What exacly does that mean? LOL OHHHHHHH Like underage looking ones with no life experience....I see I see said the blind man...LOL

...AND WHO WAS COMPLAING ABOUT THE ATTACKS EARLIER? :wink:



What does "non-industry" mean?

NOT IN THE SEX BUSINESS...SOME GIRLS ARE COMPLAINING ABOUT THE "LOCKER ROOM MENTALLITY" BUT THE ONLY WAY THESE GUYS KNOW YOU IS THROUGH YOUR WORK IN THE INDUSTRY...WHAT DO YOU EXPECT?...IT'S SORTA LIKE WHEN JAMES GANDOLFINI (TONY SOPRANO)WALKS DOWN THE STREET AND EVERYONE YELLS OUT "HEY TONY!!!!!"...PEOPLE DON'T SEPERATE ENTERTAINERS FROM THE CHARACTERS THEY PORTRAY...



And what does that have to do with someone's ability to carry on a smart conversation?

WHERE DOES THIS COME FROM?




Hummmm.... here we go again....

...I DON'T KNOW YOU BUT YOU DON'T SEEM TO BE OPEN TO A FRANK DISCUSSION AS YOU ASK A QUESTION AND THEN PUT UP YOUR WALLS...

[Danielle Foxxx]

Your comments just seemed a bit "group focused", but hey...Who am I to even argue a good point right?
I have a few strikes as far as my "character" goes...
As you can see not all "industry" is mindless...I do have a few tricks under my sleeve and probably on the phone as we speak...LOLOLOL

Kisses

D

[ONEWORLD]

NO SHADE MAMA, I'M NOT JUDGING INDUSTRY GIRLS, I'M JUST SAYING THAT THERE ARE OTHER LIFESTYLES AND POINTS OF VIEW FROM TG'S OUT THERE...BUT I SUPPOSE YOU ALEADY KNOW THAT.

[Felicia Katt]

Felicia, on a better note - I love the new Pics as well, you look stunning on Friday night and we must do pictures in that look as well

Kisses

me

thank you, but I can't take any credit. I had the best hair and makeup person anywhere helping me that night.


Felicia

[Realgirls4me]

...and we see just how "effective" Farve is when facing a great team like the Eagles. The Eagles put a whipping on those boys ... Um? Where am I ? Oh my gawd, what did I just post in the NFL site about my last visit to Peanuts and the girl I left with that night to the comfort and warmth of her motel room ?!

(Just kidding around, folks) ;)

Felicia -- Love that new avatar. Wow! I think I do remember you once or twice from my few visits to Peanuts. My visibility of who's in the club is rather limited to one part of the club being that I generally remain in the booth nearest to the restroom for some reason. I think it's because one can see all the action from that vantage point, be it on the dance floor, or who's entering the back bars or restrooms ... Girls also do the primp thang all night long ya know. :)
Anyway, are you doing the get-together on the 17th that wantats wants to organize ? I would love to meet you and a few of the others. I'm going to try to make it, but at this point it looks like a no go. It's really a bad time of the year for me. I hope he's not disappointed in case I can't make it. We'll see. I hope I do get to meet y'all!

[Danielle Foxxx]

FELICIA HAS A BOYFRIEND...LA LA LA LA LA LA
lol :D

[Felicia Katt]

YESSS, AS WE HEAR ABOUT HOW THESE YOUNGER GIRLS ARE GENERALLY LEADING SHADY, SEEDY LIVES; WELL I KNOW SOME YOUNG GIRLS THAT ARE NOT FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF SOME OF THE OLDER GIRLS AND/ OR GAY PARENTS...THEY ARE PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE AS OPPOSE TO LIVING FOR TODAY...MINE INCLUDED...AND DON'T SEE THAT POINT OF VIEW YET. (18 - 25)


A person is not their job. Its what they do, not who they are. Just because a girl works in adult entertainment does not make her shady or flaky. Many of the girls here who post are all smart, driven, motivated and successful. Those qualities are not dilluted because of their jobs. nor is the value of their perspectives on the issues discussed here diminished.

Felicia

[Realgirls4me]

FELICIA HAS A BOYFRIEND...LA LA LA LA LA LA
lol :D

You're not referring to me are you, you silly ? I simply asked if she was going to make it to Peanuts on that day. Silly girl. :)

That Danielle has a very playful disposition, doesn't she (Now I'm even more turned on by her) ? :)


...
I guess I'm all confused about you
I feel so in love
Oh, baby, what can I do ?

I've been thinking about you
I've been thinking about you
I've been thinking about you
I've been thinking about you

Got you on my mind

Sha bow bow

Londonbeat

[Felicia Katt]

thanks for the nice compliments, Realgirls. I'm at Peanuts almost every Friday, so you may well have seen me, though I like to explore differnent looks. Sometimes, even my friends don't recognize me right away. :)

I was flirting with the idea of going for Sushi that nite. But I haven't committed yet. hmm, flirting, but not committing. maybe there is a pattern there :)

meow

[Danielle Foxxx]

I LOVE THAT SONG - IS THAT RICK ASLEY OR AHA?

[Realgirls4me]

thanks for the nice compliments, Realgirls. I'm at Peanuts almost every Friday, so you may well have seen me, though I like to explore differnent looks. Sometimes, even my friends don't recognize me right away. :)

I was flirting with the idea of going for Sushi that nite. But I haven't committed yet. hmm, flirting, but not committing. maybe there is a pattern there :)

meow

Felicia -- You're quite welcomed. I have probably brushed up against you and not even known it. I really need to get my eyes, as well as my feelers, examined. ;)
Ha-ha! Aren't you the clever creative one with that flirting/committing line ?! You go. girl! I hope I do make it for the get-together. :)

Danielle -- Rick Ashley is a far better guess than Aha. It's neither, but I guess if one combines Rick's vocals with Aha's tempos, you'd probably have a sound such as Londonbeat, as Hingsing correctly noted. I was playing it at the time I made that post, so it kind of gravitated toward the keyboard somehow. ;)
Your playful attitude comes across so beautifully in your posts. Keep it up, girl! :)

[magic9inch]

felicia looks more on the dude side than on the girl side :lol: :lol:

[Thuggish_Intellect]

but if the men here would elevate their level of discussions, you'd see more girls posting here.
Felicia



I've been saying this for the longest time. But the ladies are going to have to play there part in this revelation. Be proactive instead of reactive.

[Felicia Katt]

felicia looks more on the dude side than on the girl side :lol: :lol:


I've been saying this for the longest time. But the ladies are going to have to play there part in this revelation. Be proactive instead of reactive.

How am I supposed to be proactive to something like that? You want girls to participate more or to have more girls participate, and look at what we have to deal with? Rude comments by one person, and the very next poster just overlooks them, says nothing to that person, or about his comment, and then asks the girl who was just insulted to play a greater part in the board??

I know why girls stay away from here. I'm starting to question why I shouldn't do the same.

Felicia

[hillbilly]

wowser nasty!

felicia i wouldn't blame you for fleeing.

i think we need to do a little excercise. men buy a wig walk to the mirror and return to your keyboard and evaluate yourself. if you don't have a wig you may substitute cook pasta, brocolli, or anything that strikes your fancy in the fridge.

good luck and report back here if you're hot or ugly.

[zerrrr]

I think magic was kidding. The 2 smilies usually mean a joke. I use that all the time. At least when I see that I consider it a subtle rib and not something to be taken seriously. Either that or /sarcasm to start and /sarcasm to end.

[Felicia Katt]

putting a smile after an insult doesn't really change it. I don't see how its funny or subtle or anything other than mean.

Felicia

[Realgirls4me]

I think you're a hottie, Felicia, and guys, dem thar are long shapely wimmin legs. Yum yum! :)

[zerrrr]

If you are going to post in a forum on the internet where it is easy to hide behind a TV screen you need to have a thick skin or the ability to let comments roll off your shoulder.

If you are going to make a comment, especially in a forum like this, you should have a reasonable idea how the person on the other side will take the comment.

One thing I have noticed about this forum is that a lot of people do not have thick skins and easily take things the wrong way. If you filter out the pr0n and the yelling there is some very intelligent conversation made by very intelligent people.

I try to remember that it is not how many posts but the quality that counts.

[Realgirls4me]

Also, along with postings, is the lack of a functioning avatar. :lol: ;)

What's up with your avatar, Zerrr ?


Fix it !!!

[zerrrr]

The album cover for Queensryche's Operation Mindcrime album. An album that came out over 15 years ago but is very relevant in todays world. I found it through a google search.

[Bigguy]

This is what it looks like to us:

[Felicia Katt]

thank you, Realgirls

Zerr, I try to not be too "thin skinned", but an unsolicited insult, especially in a thread about how women should do more on the board, is a little much.

I agree I should be able to let rude comments go. But then again, ideally I should be able to post here without being insulted, doncha think?

Felicia

[Felicia Katt]

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[zerrrr]

Hmmm, I see the logo when I post and on all of my posts. I guess that is a question for the moderators.

Although I must say that the little box with the red x is pretty cool in a different sort of way.

Links to an album review and lyrics:

http://www.metal-observer.com/articles.php?lid=1&sid=1&id=3786

http://www.gerardio.com/queensryche-operation-livecrime.htm

Felicia,

You should have that freedom. Unfortunately, as with any board, the tone is taken from the moderators. I am a part of boards with weak mods and with strong mods. If the weak mods are not careful conversations often degenerate into namecalling and insults. On strong mod boards people complain about conversation being stifled.

It is not my place to say but maybe there should be another folder where the pr0n pics can go and leave general discussion just that. I would hate to lose some of the more intelligent posters and have the board degenerate into finger pointing and name calling.
Or maybe add an ignore button.

[Ecstatic]

How am I supposed to be proactive to something like that? You want girls to participate more or to have more girls participate, and look at what we have to deal with? Rude comments by one person, and the very next poster just overlooks them, says nothing to that person, or about his comment, and then asks the girl who was just insulted to play a greater part in the board??

I know why girls stay away from here. I'm starting to question why I shouldn't do the same.
I hear you, Felicia. Your posts are often among the most intelligent posts on the board. I don't blame you for wondering why you don't stay away (but I really hope you don't choose to; the forum would be much less interesting without your input). Yes, that post was unnecessarily rude. But I think many of us would rather move on to good posts and ignore the bad than beat that drum: so often, replying to a negative post fuels that fire, and I for one would rather ignore it than feed it. Flame wars are so common here, why fan that fire? But otoh, yes, I agree he was rude and more of us should speak up.

BTW, I tried to post this response last night, when the server suddenly became unavailable again. So here's hoping it goes through this time.

[magic9inch]

its a opinion kat. you actually look like dude, but at the same time it happen to be funny :lol: :lol:

[magic9inch]

its a opinion kat. you actually look like dude, but at the same time it happen to be funny :lol: :lol:

[Thuggish_Intellect]

felicia looks more on the dude side than on the girl side :lol: :lol:


I've been saying this for the longest time. But the ladies are going to have to play there part in this revelation. Be proactive instead of reactive.

How am I supposed to be proactive to something like that? You want girls to participate more or to have more girls participate, and look at what we have to deal with? Rude comments by one person, and the very next poster just overlooks them, says nothing to that person, or about his comment, and then asks the girl who was just insulted to play a greater part in the board??

I know why girls stay away from here. I'm starting to question why I shouldn't do the same.

Felicia


Actually Felicia, I noticed the ignorant comment. However, unlike you I know that people who make such absurd and rude comments only want you to fall on there level so I pay it no mind. Remember, immitation is the best form of flattery...And as for attacks against people on here, hey I haven't been exempt from it. I've seen people post deragatory messages about blacks and latinos on here. Am I offended? Not one bit. They don't know me personally so I don't take it to heart. You can't give someone the power over you...just handle your business and brush the haters off.

[Felicia Katt]

CAUSE


its a opinion kat. you actually look like dude, but at the same time it happen to be funny :lol: :lol:

EFFECT


Post subject: THE BOARD CHAT HAS DECREASE AGAIN

the board is going slow once again. what happen to the pics and forumms

They always say opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. But most people keep their asshole to themselves. and some assholes, like some opinions, are full of shit

Felicia

[kieron]

So what if a girl happens to look a bit masculine? it's what's on the inside that counts.

sorry to you all that i don't post much, i don't look through the posts that often, again, my apologies.

[Felicia Katt]

I wanted to say thanks to Ecstatic, Thuggish and Kieron for their words of support or encouragement.

I'm taking them to heart, and not taking my leave of this place, just yet

Felicia

[peb]

Felicia, i always enjoy your considered posts and sense of humour..If you decide this is not a pleasant place to stay i can understand, but i will miss your input.
As for me, I don't post much or generate much discussion because i'm fairly new to the scene and i've only been with escorts, never had a TS relationship (though i would like one).

[Ecstatic]

You're most welcome, Felicia, and I'm glad you're staying. FWIW, sometimes I feel out of place here, too, like I'm standing on a street corner surrounded by thugs (not Thuggish!) rather than chatting in a lounge where we can relax and converse. But it takes all kinds, and I agree: interact with whom you want, and ignore the rest.

BTW, I love your avatar, and that outfit. Is it my imagination, or did your avatar shrink a bit?

Cheers.

[magic9inch]

MY APOLIGIES KAT. KIERON AINT THE INSIDE THAT COUNT. YOU PAY FOR THE BEST DONT YOU. KAT I SHOULD HAVE NEVER SAID THAT EVEN DOE IT WAS FUNNY. I'M SORRY MA.

[runningdownthatdream]

Some guys just see girls - be they GG or T-girls - as whores and objectify them as such. The thing is that they are quite often able to get away with it...and it carries over into any forum (online or otherwise) that they are in.

If you look thru magic9inch's posts he's quite often calling for cock and more cock....like some kind of man-bitch.....so it stands to reason that he doesn't really see a person - only a cock (which I guess should be used only for his gratification). And actually he's not the only one.

Thuggish probably has the best solution and that is simply to ignore base statements. Eventually the offender will either go away or change their tactic. After all they can't be cornered and beaten senseless in cyberworld

[joyboy123]

its a opinion kat. you actually look like dude, but at the same time it happen to be funny :lol: :lol:

Felicia,
Just flat out ignore this crap. Don't even acknowledge it. Some people are resentful and jealous that you have put a lot of yourself out there.

That takes guts, something they don't have.

[Felicia Katt]

thank you for the apology, Magic. Thanks again to everyone else who lent me their support. I'll try to pay it back, with interest, or at least interesting posts.


Felicia

[ONEWORLD]

thank you for the apology, Magic. Thanks again to everyone else who lent me their support. I'll try to pay it back, with interest, or at least interesting posts.


...AND THEY BETTER BE WORTH IT TOO; WITH ALL THE ATTENTION YOU ARE GETTING FOR SUCH A FRIVOLOUS AND INNOCUOUS COMMENT. 8)

[dj4monie]

thanks for the nice compliments, Realgirls. I'm at Peanuts almost every Friday, so you may well have seen me, though I like to explore differnent looks. Sometimes, even my friends don't recognize me right away. :)

I was flirting with the idea of going for Sushi that nite. But I haven't committed yet. hmm, flirting, but not committing. maybe there is a pattern there :)

meow

Felicia -- You're quite welcomed. I have probably brushed up against you and not even known it. I really need to get my eyes, as well as my feelers, examined. ;)
Ha-ha! Aren't you the clever creative one with that flirting/committing line ?! You go. girl! I hope I do make it for the get-together. :)

Danielle -- Rick Ashley is a far better guess than Aha. It's neither, but I guess if one combines Rick's vocals with Aha's tempos, you'd probably have a sound such as Londonbeat, as Hingsing correctly noted. I was playing it at the time I made that post, so it kind of gravitated toward the keyboard somehow. ;)
Your playful attitude comes across so beautifully in your posts. Keep it up, girl! :)

The Redzone (David Morales) Remix smokes the Radio/LP edit you here on Adult Radio.

I have Rick Ashley as well, 12" versions of course...

Ah, those were the dayz...

[zerrrr]

This is what it looks like to us:

Is it still broke?

[zerrrr]

This is what it looks like to us:

Is it still broke?

[zerrrr]

This is what it looks like to us:

Is it still broke?

[Bigguy]

Is it still broke?
Yes, yes & yes. :lol:

Try clearing your browser cache out then close your browser then come back to this thread to see what it looks like. You probably just have the image cached and thats why you see it. I would say the other site doesn't allow hot linking from this site so thats why it is broken.

[zerrrr]

Still works for me and I tried both IE and Mozilla. Let me try and change icons. Maybe your off site linking suggestion is the problem.

[zerrrr]

Still works for me and I tried both IE and Mozilla. Let me try and change icons. Maybe your off site linking suggestion is the problem.

[partlycloudy]

zerrrr, this is whats showing for your avatar

h**p://theposse.org/mojo-land/aimicons/murphy3.gif

[zerrrr]

Gonna kill it until I figure out what is wrong. I think it has to do with a setting somewhere on my computer because I was able to view the icon in both IE and Mozilla.

[NYCe]

It seems to be a hotlinking problem. I couldn't see it until I loaded the link in your profile in a seperate browser window. Then it loaded on this board.

R.I.P Captain Murphy btw. That show has gone to shit since the actor who provided his voice died.

[zerrrr]

Thanks. BTW, I was riding the bus yesterday and stood next to a lady with a Happy Cake Oven. The phrase '...and the secret ingrediant is love, dammit' kept running through my head.

Agree with you about the post-Murphy episodes. It just isn't the same.