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Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 04:30 AM
Some early warning signs: LOL

1. Has a good understanding of how bras do up.
2. Isnt useless at home when it comes to household chores.
3. Doesnt stand outside small shops selling intimate clothes whilst you shop inside.
4. Handles delicates when you are searching something with plain cups.
5. Turns to the fashion pages of Sunday supplements.
6. Shows more interest in Vogue than Stuff.
7. Seems to know more than he should about female shoes.
8. Comments upon what women are wearing rather than what their clothes reveal.
9. Knows that a size 14 women's doesnt fit him (too big/too small).
10. Does not sit with his legs at 45 degree angles.
11. Pretends to show no interest in cosmetics but immediately thumbs through pages when he thinks you are not looking.
12. Talks about female clothes to your girl friends.
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If you can add more that be great! LOL :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

elo
03-22-2007, 04:55 AM
13.Buys you lingerie which is way too big for you.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 04:59 AM
13.Buys you lingerie which is way too big for you.

LOL :lol: Maybe he just happens to give you the wrong VS bag..that was for his wife? :lol: ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

surfoc
03-22-2007, 04:59 AM
Is on the Victoria's Secret mailing list.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 05:01 AM
Is on the Victoria's Secret mailing list.

LOL That's also quite possible surfoc. ;)

:P

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 06:24 AM
LMAO #'s 7, 11, and 12 are hilarious lol keep adding more http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Laughing/lol-053.gif

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 06:29 AM
LMAO #'s 7, 11, and 12 are hilarious lol keep adding more http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Laughing/lol-053.gif

LOL Glad you like blackmagic. :lol: ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 06:42 AM
14. comments and says, "o those shoe do not match that dress!"

http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Thinking/thinking-020.gifmore or less #8 covers that one.........

http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Thinking/thinking-020.gif a few others id add with allot of skepticism is if he is growing his nails out, and or having his eye brows shaped along with his body hair always shaved off.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 06:47 AM
14. comments and says, "o those shoe do not match that dress!"

http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Thinking/thinking-020.gifmore or less #8 covers that one.........

http://smileys.on-my-web.com/repository/Thinking/thinking-020.gif a few others id add with allot of skepticism is if he is growing his nails out, and or having his eye brows shaped along with his body hair always shaved off.

Hahaha :lol: I know blackmagic. Here n L.A. believe it or not. Ive seen guys (mostly latino) who re-shapes their eyebrows ala backstreet boy AJ. LOL :lol: Now not for anything, I could understand a guy who is into looking good and all but shaping of the brow to me just seems a little gay. LOL It's not stereotyping but men are supposed to have bushy brows not arched IMO. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

surfoc
03-22-2007, 06:49 AM
When doing laundry, you notice panties with stains in the front instead of the thin in-between part.
http://a820.g.akamai.net/f/820/822/1d/i.ivillage.com/WB/081505/WB_panties_157x157.jpg

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 06:52 AM
Hahaha :lol: I know blackmagic. Here n L.A. believe it or not. Ive seen guys (mostly latino) who re-shapes their eyebrows ala backstreet boy AJ. LOL :lol: Now not for anything, I could understand a guy who is into looking good and all but shaping of the brow to me just seems a little gay. LOL It's not stereotyping but men are supposed to have bushy brows not arched IMO. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

yeah......... i know, im one of those guys :lol: :wink:

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 06:55 AM
Which guy? The one with bushy brows or the one with arched brows? LOL ;)

I hope the former (like Ive seen in your pics). LOL :lol: ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 06:57 AM
Which guy? The one with bushy brows or the one with arched brows? LOL ;)

I hope the former (like Ive seen in your pics). LOL :lol: ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

ahhhhhhhh i totally forgot you have seen my pics, no way more like the more recent pic, sorry to burst the bubble but im diggin the androgenyous look, well the look that my avatar has, i wouldnt mind that look well without the makeup but im so diggin that :!:

TJT
03-22-2007, 07:00 AM
I used to have a girlfriend w/ thick ass. She comes home one day and starts giving me Hell for having her jeans on. I go "They're Levis and they fit. I thought they were mine?"

(They were a little roomy in the hips.)

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 07:00 AM
Hmm..is this an initial step in "crossing over" blackmagic and become another tgirl :?:

LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 07:01 AM
I used to have a girlfriend w/ thick ass. She comes home one day and starts giving me Hell for having her jeans on. I go "They're Levis and they fit. I thought they were mine?"

(They were a little roomy in the hips.)

LOL@girlfriend w/ thick ass. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 07:05 AM
Hmm..is this an initial step in "crossing over" blackmagic and become another tgirl :?:

LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

LOL its the step on the brink of being a girl but with my piss ant attitude towards tgirls its highly unlikely that id be a good candidate for that position :wink:

Coroner
03-22-2007, 07:10 AM
don´t be such a pussy, blackmagic

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 07:14 AM
LOL its the step on the brink of being a girl but with my piss ant attitude towards tgirls its highly unlikely that id be a good candidate for that position :wink:

:lol: Well you are 6'4" and used to play football. LOL So that might involve alot of work on your part should you decide to crossover. :? But having the pissy attitude towards tgirls wont get you anywhere (incase you went on with it). ;)

And you've been a bit critical of some girls on here.

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 07:15 AM
don´t be such a pussy, blackmagic

Hey! if you have some shit to say then say it in a pm to me dont fucking bullshit all over the board!

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 07:18 AM
LOL its the step on the brink of being a girl but with my piss ant attitude towards tgirls its highly unlikely that id be a good candidate for that position :wink:

:lol: Well you are 6'4" and used to play football. LOL So that might involve alot of work on your part should you decide to crossover. :? But having the pissy attitude towards tgirls wont get you anywhere (incase you went on with it). ;)

And you've been a bit critical of some girls on here.

~Kisses.

HTG

lol, actually im 6ft3, and yeah i used to play football............ yeah uhhhh lets not even venture into thinking of me as a tgirl kay?

lol critical isnt the word ive been way worse pretty harsh actually........

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 07:23 AM
lol, actually im 6ft3, and yeah i used to play football............ yeah uhhhh lets not even venture into thinking of me as a tgirl kay?

lol critical isnt the word ive been way worse pretty harsh actually........

Well I was close..just a little off by an inch. LOL :lol:

So are you saying, Your recent consideration to become one (a tgirl) has made you regret being harsh in the past (Not to me)? :P

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 07:41 AM
But continuing on..

I found this woman's letter floating on the net:


I met an awesome guy 2 months ago. He is smart, good job, no kids, and a great sense of humor. Last night the old relationships and why they failed was our topic of conversation.

The reason for his marriage failure? HE IS A CROSSDRESSER. I am hung up on this guy and he wears high heels at home. Am I making to big of a deal out of this by thinking I need to run? Has anyone else dealt with this?

http://messageboard.tuckermax.com/archive/index.php/t-12794.html

Any thoughts?

~Kisses.

HTG

TJT
03-22-2007, 07:49 AM
Hell,if he's a good man let him wear the heels? I can think of ton of things worse than a guy crossdressing at home.

Vicki Richter
03-22-2007, 07:57 AM
I know there are TS that are 6'3" and claim they are 5'10 or something. Black Magic... are you going T or are you more along the lines of Dave Navarro.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 08:20 AM
Hell,if he's a good man let him wear the heels? I can think of ton of things worse than a guy crossdressing at home.

LOL :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Aragon21
03-22-2007, 08:22 AM
Back to the original topic....


Is on the Victoria's Secret mailing list.This is the male bible until we are old enough to legally buy pornography! And I knew several buddies that continued to receive it well into college. (True usually it had their mom's name on the mailing list and not their own. :lol: )


8. Comments upon what women are wearing rather than what their clothes reveal.8a. In commenting on said attire, he describes the fit and hang of the outfit in terms other than "That's fucking HOT" or "Get me a barf bag."

14. He doesn't think using the dryer is a quick iron, and actually knows how to press his clothes.

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 08:29 AM
lol, actually im 6ft3, and yeah i used to play football............ yeah uhhhh lets not even venture into thinking of me as a tgirl kay?

lol critical isnt the word ive been way worse pretty harsh actually........

Well I was close..just a little off by an inch. LOL :lol:

So are you saying, Your recent consideration to become one (a tgirl) has made you regret being harsh in the past (Not to me)? :P

~Kisses.

HTG

If I could go back all the way to the wig thread that destroyed my image and name, I would have never posted it. But after that the damage was done and I pretty much was labeled as a hater of tgirls so theres not much you can do to change that.

im not considering to be nor wanting nor anything to be a tgirl, the only thing I want to be is androgynous, I have no intent in dressing in drag, or having breast implants or anything like that, only things ima have done is FFS, laser hair removal and that’s it, does that make me a tgirl? no, does that make me one odd dude yeah, of course you would think, that me getting all that done I would be turning myself into a girl but no im not. It’s been my dream since I was 16 to be androgynous, and lol looking at this guy i think you would see why

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 08:33 AM
^^^^^



I know there are TS that are 6'3" and claim they are 5'10 or something. Black Magic... are you going T or are you more along the lines of Dave Navarro.

cough like jennifer cough :lol: im joking, i saw her pics well one by the door she was even bending and i know from when i worked in construction the majority of doors are 6ft8..................... but again im joking

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 09:00 AM
LOL :lol:




im not considering to be nor wanting nor anything to be a tgirl, the only thing I want to be is androgynous, I have no intent in dressing in drag, or having breast implants or anything like that, only things ima have done is FFS, laser hair removal and that’s it, does that make me a tgirl? no, does that make me one odd dude yeah, of course you would think, that me getting all that done I would be turning myself into a girl but no im not. It’s been my dream since I was 16 to be androgynous, and lol looking at this guy i think you would see why

Hmm I dont think there is anything wrong by wanting to look androgynous. Although, FFS and laser hair removal would almost strip you of your original pallette.. in the end if you feel good then go for it! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 09:18 AM
14. He doesn't think using the dryer is a quick iron, and actually knows how to press his clothes.

Hey, There's nothing wrong when a guy knows how to press his own shirt! LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 08:13 PM
Hmm I dont think there is anything wrong by wanting to look androgynous. Although, FFS and laser hair removal would almost strip you of your original pallette.. in the end if you feel good then go for it! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

LOL yes well having the face of a women and the body of a male with the name hermaphrodite should suit me well. :P

Hmmmmm well FFS and laser will almost strip me of my original palette but lol almost is the keyword. Not intending to sound rude to GGs or tgirls who are 6ft3 but lol being that tall will be my dead give away in telling I am a man still. Although I wont deny there are women that tall, actually I knew 2 I went to highschool with who where that tall, and well theres always lisa leslie but im not trying to be rude, just stating the obvious.
:lol:

blackmagic
03-22-2007, 08:13 PM
15. you’ll know when hes a crossdresser when you look in your panty and bra drawer and see it all unorganized (women know!!)

16. you look at your panties and bras one day to find them over stretched.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-22-2007, 09:54 PM
Here's more..


What should I do with a crossdressing boyfriend?

I have been dating the same guy for almost six months. Last weekend he confessed he likes to wear girls clothes. And he wants me to help dress him up. Should I take him shopping and put him in everything from panties and bras to a dress, or drop him and move on? He says he is straight. I do really care about him, but do not love him yet.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060805084503AAWTnyQ


~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-24-2007, 01:38 AM
16. you look at your panties and bras one day to find them over stretched.

True..LOL :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

elo
03-24-2007, 01:41 AM
Here's more..


What should I do with a crossdressing boyfriend?

I have been dating the same guy for almost six months. Last weekend he confessed he likes to wear girls clothes. And he wants me to help dress him up. Should I take him shopping and put him in everything from panties and bras to a dress, or drop him and move on? He says he is straight. I do really care about him, but do not love him yet.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060805084503AAWTnyQ


~Kisses.

HTGWhat should i do with a crossdressing boyfriend???

Share clothes with him! :)

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-24-2007, 01:48 AM
I think it's different with guys. If you found your girl wearing your clothes it's less intimidating. LOL :lol:

There's alot of girls who wears their bf's shirt, boxers etc. Yet it doesnt appear bothersome. LOL It's the complete opposite to girls when a guy they're with crossdresses.

~Kisses.

HTG

elo
03-24-2007, 03:19 AM
I think it's different with guys. If you found your girl wearing your clothes it's less intimidating. LOL :lol:

There's alot of girls who wears their bf's shirt, boxers etc. Yet it doesnt appear bothersome. LOL It's the complete opposite to girls when a guy they're with crossdresses.

~Kisses.

HTGSo when a girl wears a guys clothes its OK.But when a guy wears a girls clothes its inappropriate?Thats so dicriminating,ignorant and unfair!!!!!!!!! :evil: Whats the matter when a guy wants to wear a skirt?Especialy in the summer time its very refreshing feeling the cool brize between your legs.I meant not that i ever made it,i heard about it. :lol:

Aragon21
03-24-2007, 03:48 AM
Whats the matter when a guy wants to wear a skirt?Especialy in the summer time its very refreshing feeling the cool brize between your legs.I meant not that i ever made it,i heard about it. :lol:
Kilt...OKAY. 8)
Skirt...NO NO NO. :lol:

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-24-2007, 04:08 AM
So when a girl wears a guys clothes its OK. But when a guy wears a girls clothes its inappropriate?Thats so dicriminating,ignorant and unfair!!!!!!!!! :evil: Whats the matter when a guy wants to wear a skirt?Especialy in the summer time its very refreshing feeling the cool brize between your legs.I meant not that i ever made it,i heard about it. :lol:

No you've completely missed the point elo. It's not discriminating or is it ignorant nor unfair. When women wear men's clothes it still doesnt de-feminize them however men are emasculated because it's not the norm. In a relationship..tranditionally men wear the pants (not the skirt) in a relationship. Now if your of Scottish descent then that might be a perfect excuse. Tho even if you are, would you be wearing kilts all the time? To the office, to the grocery store, the mall, a business meeting, a brunch etc. I dont think so. LOL :lol: There's just not alot of women that finds men who crossdress attractive. And that is a REALITY.

~Kisses.

HTG

Aragon21
03-24-2007, 04:17 AM
Now if your of Scottish descent then that might be a perfect excuse. Tho even if you are, would you be wearing kilts all the time? To the office, to the grocery store, the mall, a business meeting, a brunch etc. I dont think so. LOL :lol:

Now this is odd because although as far as I know my dad had no Scottish in him, he was a Presbyterian deacon and for some reason would occasionally have a Scottish accent (even named his 1st born male Scott). :shock: WTF? I know! But I agree there are few appropriate times to wear one.

Scottish heritage days? Sure. Practicing your bagpipes? Of course! Family reunion? Why not. Grocery shopping? Huh, what, are you crazy? :lol:

Aragon21
03-24-2007, 04:28 AM
Oh! Oh!

#17 You're out shopping together, and the salesperson in the ladies' wear/lingerie department says to your man, "Welcome back" yet he has never given you any clothing.

elo
03-24-2007, 04:59 AM
So when a girl wears a guys clothes its OK. But when a guy wears a girls clothes its inappropriate?Thats so dicriminating,ignorant and unfair!!!!!!!!! :evil: Whats the matter when a guy wants to wear a skirt?Especialy in the summer time its very refreshing feeling the cool brize between your legs.I meant not that i ever made it,i heard about it. :lol:

No you've completely missed the point elo. It's not discriminating or is it ignorant nor unfair. When women wear men's clothes it still doesnt de-feminize them however men are emasculated because it's not the norm. In a relationship..tranditionally men wear the pants (not the skirt) in a relationship. Now if your of Scottish descent then that might be a perfect excuse. Tho even if you are, would you be wearing kilts all the time? To the office, to the grocery store, the mall, a business meeting, a brunch etc. I dont think so. LOL :lol: There's just not alot of women that finds men who crossdress attractive. And that is a REALITY.

~Kisses.

HTGMaybe you took my post a little to serious.I never whore a skirt.But i liked to wear my mothers pumps when i was little boy from time to time in the house and due to her i could it quite well. 8)

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-24-2007, 05:08 AM
LOL@I never whore a skirt. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

elo
03-24-2007, 05:17 AM
LOL@I never whore a skirt. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTGWhat is that supposed to mean? :frustrated I guess no matter what i would say now,you wouldn´t believe me,biaaaaatch.

Aragon21
03-24-2007, 05:22 AM
LOL@I never whore a skirt. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTGWhat is that supposed to mean? :frustrated I guess no matter what i would say now,you wouldn´t believe me,biaaaaatch.

Dude! Breath! I was laughing too!

You wrote whore as in prostituted yourself. You meant wore as in past tense of to wear. :lol:

elo
03-24-2007, 05:32 AM
LOL@I never whore a skirt. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTGWhat is that supposed to mean? :frustrated I guess no matter what i would say now,you wouldn´t believe me,biaaaaatch.

Dude! Breath! I was laughing too!

You wrote whore as in prostituted yourself. You meant wore as in past tense of to wear. :lol: :banghead :banghead :banghead :banghead :banghead Its late in germany. :lol: My last post wasn´t meant too serious any way little smerf. :wink:

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-24-2007, 06:07 AM
LOL@I never whore a skirt. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTGWhat is that supposed to mean? :frustrated I guess no matter what i would say now,you wouldn´t believe me,biaaaaatch.

You're being a Dick! Maybe it means..Dont type your thoughts when it's late in Germany? :lol: LOL

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-24-2007, 07:51 AM
Oh! Oh!

#17 You're out shopping together, and the salesperson in the ladies' wear/lingerie department says to your man, "Welcome back" yet he has never given you any clothing.

LOL Soo TRUE! Either he crossdress or he has another girl and is cheating on you! LOL :lol: ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

blackmagic
03-24-2007, 09:46 PM
Oh! Oh!

#17 You're out shopping together, and the salesperson in the ladies' wear/lingerie department says to your man, "Welcome back" yet he has never given you any clothing.

LOL Soo TRUE! Either he crossdress or he has another girl and is cheating on you! LOL :lol: ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

LOL 2 excuses came to mind reading that one,

1. O yeah this is the store i bought your gift from (sorry hunny the idiot sales women spoiled your suprise)

2. huh? lady i dont know what your talking about ive never been in this store before in my life!! :lol:

franks
03-25-2007, 12:54 AM
Some early warning signs: LOL

1. Has a good understanding of how bras do up.
2. Isnt useless at home when it comes to household chores.
3. Doesnt stand outside small shops selling intimate clothes whilst you shop inside.
4. Handles delicates when you are searching something with plain cups.
5. Turns to the fashion pages of Sunday supplements.
6. Shows more interest in Vogue than Stuff.
7. Seems to know more than he should about female shoes.
8. Comments upon what women are wearing rather than what their clothes reveal.
9. Knows that a size 14 women's doesnt fit him (too big/too small).
10. Does not sit with his legs at 45 degree angles.
11. Pretends to show no interest in cosmetics but immediately thumbs through pages when he thinks you are not looking.
12. Talks about female clothes to your girl friends.
__________________________________________________ _____________________

If you can add more that be great! LOL :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

He has bra strap marks around his shoulders.