DO's and Don'ts when dating for the very first time

[monkey2006]

Please Angels give to us some hints... :oops:

[lincspoacher]

Hi Monkey2006,

I'm certainly no "Angel" (being a man) but if I may offer this advice which has served me well ...

1. Make no assumptions ..

2. Treat each & every person you meet with the respect you'd like to receive from them ..

3. If you're unsure about how to refer to someone's TG status .. ask how they refer to themselves ..

4. Do not assume that merely because someone is TG that they are either an "easy lay" or worse,a slut ..

5. Respect the fact that many TG women prefer to form relationships with other TG women & have no interest in men .. (it's not personally aimed at you) .. it's just their personal preference.

6. Finally,I would say ... remember that TG women are not freaks .. they're human (just like the rest of us) .. except they have to live with the kind of stresses in life which we men cannot even begin to comprehend.


I hope these few suggestions may be of help to you & that the ladies will forgive me for jumping in .. especially as you originally addressed you question to the "Angels" ... :wink:

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[InHouston]

Don't assume she has a vagina when you go down on her for the first time. You might end up getting poked in the eye, and would have to lie and tell your buddies you got beat up.

[crayons]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

I thought the exact same thing when I read this title. What an absurd assumption to assume there is something different to do on a date with TS. They're humans just like everyone else- treat them as you would like to be treated. What the hell do you need a 'to-do list' for?

[peggygee]

The simple answer is to treat her like the lady she is. Treat her
like you would want someone to treat your Sister, daughter, or
any other female close to you.

For a more detailed answer, try this site.

http://tsgirlfriend.com/

Good luck. :wink:

[monkey2006]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

Resident BallBuster, please don't put words in my mouth..Please!!!

Girls, don't take it wrong.. Like I said, You are angels to me.. And I love you all...

English is not my natural language... Sorry for that, So I will try to change the title from "DO's and Don'ts when dating TS for the very first time" to
"DO's and Don'ts when dating for the very first time" I think its better now

[scorpion]

My first date whit a tranny was little nervous. I told her the true that i was absolutly novis and that i wasnt sure about tranys and that my realations earlier have been straigt Gay but that i found transexuall very exciting.
This was a lucky meating and i have been meating some more trannys after... and guess what. I was even maried whit one of the most beatifuls four a short while. I guess my job and the scandinavian climat kills that love story.

[monkey2006]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

I thought the exact same thing when I read this title. What an absurd assumption to assume there is something different to do on a date with TS. They're humans just like everyone else- treat them as you would like to be treated. What the hell do you need a 'to-do list' for?


crayons, take a look on Scorpion's post . That is what I am looking for...

Once again, sorry for the misunderstood.. Ts are like algels to me

[crayons]

monkey2006; my appologies to you. I didn't realize you're not a native English speaker so that changes everything. I have a high degree of respect for people that are not english speakers that can still articulate themselves well because English is one of the most difficult languages. So once again, I'm sorry.

[monkey2006]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

Resident BallBuster, please don't put words in my mouth..Please!!!

Girls, don't take it wrong.. Like I said, You are angels to me.. And I love you all...

English is not my natural language... Sorry for that, So I will try to change the title...

"DO's and Don'ts when dating for the very first time" I think its better now

what words did i put in ur mouth? and whats better now? and what country are u from, perhaps i can make it easier for u in ur native toungue...

ur full of shit, thats the problem, regardless of what language...all the girls are angels to u? what about the bitches, the nasty ones and the assholes? are u saying that anyone with tits and a cock is special to u and gets treated like gold? and u think a girl respects u for this position? why not respect a girl for being sweet, kind and caring? when did this love anything that gets me a hardon become acceptable practice? shame on u and anyone else who has this small minded approach to reality...theres planty of sweet attractive girls here and in general, stop insult them by showing how indiscriminatory ur sweet words are

Resident BallBuster, I already said that it was a misunderstood but if you want to arque in my natural language, I speak portuquese...

Jä disse que foi um mau entendido. Todos merecem todo o respeito indepentende de credo, raça, cor, religião, opção sexual ou qualquer outra coisa.. Acredito que o mais importante pra sermos felizes é respeitar nossas diferenças...
Não quis em nenhum momento parecer discriminatorio. Estava procurando somente conversar sobre ter um primeiro relacionamento. Não importando se com um garota genética ou com uma transsexual.
Por gentileza, mantenha a discussão em um nível civilizado.


If you need a translation let me know.. I will ask for a professional help to avoid new misunderstood..

Be in Peace.

[monkey2006]

monkey2006; my appologies to you. I didn't realize you're not a native English speaker so that changes everything. I have a high degree of respect for people that are not english speakers that can still articulate themselves well because English is one of the most difficult languages. So once again, I'm sorry.

Crayons.. Thank you for your kindness!!! I just here to make new friends.
Now I am afraid of make new mistakes.. lol Just kidding... I will pay more attention in my words

[monkey2006]

My first date whit a tranny was little nervous. I told her the true that i was absolutly novis and that i wasnt sure about tranys and that my realations earlier have been straigt Gay but that i found transexuall very exciting.
This was a lucky meating and i have been meating some more trannys after... and guess what. I was even maried whit one of the most beatifuls four a short while. I guess my job and the scandinavian climat kills that love story.

"my job and the scandinavian climat kills that love story" sorry for that.. I am sure you will find a new love to live a new love story with a happier end.

[Fox]

lincspoacher and Peggygee pretty much summed it up. Treat them (GG and TG) like you would have someone treat your mother/sister/daughter/niece and make no assumptions.

That alone puts you ahead of legions of other guys.

EDIT: Also, forgot to mention, it's probably best not to talk about her being TG unless she brings it up first. Cause, you know, you wouldn't ask a GG about her being GG on a date.

[scorpion]

I have a new one monkey a swedich tranny from Stockholm this time.. but its a free relation...I think this is the best just now.
How about your relations?

[francisfkudrow]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

I thought the exact same thing when I read this title. What an absurd assumption to assume there is something different to do on a date with TS. They're humans just like everyone else- treat them as you would like to be treated. What the hell do you need a 'to-do list' for?

Sometimes a first (or even second) date with a GG can be fraught with just as much uncertainty as one with a TS. It's nice that some of you have the self-confidence to meet anyone and know exactly what to do, but for the rest of us, any tips anyone can come up with might be quite valuable.

[TrueBeauty TS]

...all the girls are angels to u? what about the bitches, the nasty ones and the assholes?

I think J's talking about me..... :roll:




lol
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[lincspoacher]

A great deal of sense being talked here .. it's also as well to remember that not every girl you meet (either GG or TG) is going to be compatible with you,or you with her ... you may have a drink,a chat & discover you have no "common ground" ...

Also bear in mind that even in a TG "setting",such as the "Village" in Manchester (where the question of whether a girl is TG or not doesn't really apply) .. not every TG woman there is looking to jump directly into your bed .. some will,many won't ... just like GG's

For the benefit of our Transatlantic cousins,the Manchester "Village" is an area of the City given over to Gay or TG Bars & Clubs .. Wednesdays are usually "Scene" nights,when the girls tend to congregate with other girls to talk girl-type talk etc .. the weekends tend to be more general .. much frequented by "seedy" little men,in dirty macs hoping to "pull" .. these are usually referred to as "Admirers" .. and one of the reasons I dislike the term,or being referred to as such .. I prefer to refer to myself as a "Suitor" .. as that best describes me.

Incidentally,I have been to Manchester several times .. usually in the company of a TG woman .. and had a thoroughly good time,there's little trouble and the area is discreetly but well Policed.

So,really .. just treat any woman with due respect & if things don't go as you'd hoped .. well .. such is life ... :wink:

BTW .. your English is far better than my Portugese ... Lol

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[a994]

Just treat her like what she truly is: a person, who is deserving of class and dignity.

[wombat33]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...


WHY DO YOU PERMIT THIS GUY TO DEGRADE PEOPLE FOR ASKING A SIMPLE QUESTION?? HE NEVER HAS ANYTHONG POSITIVE TO SAY AND SADLY THINKS HIS BLUNT SARCASM IS ACTUALLY QUICK WIT. IT'S PRETTY PATHETIC.

I THINK PEOPLE HERE, ESPECCIALLY ROOKIES WOULD ENJOY THE FEEL OF THE PLACE, AND POSSIBLY STAY LONGER IF HE WAS NOT PERMITTED TO SHOOT PEOPLE DOWN EVERY TIME THEY EXPRESS REAL FEELINGS.
I WOULD ASK FOR MYSELF AND FOR THE COMMUNITY THAT YOU PLEASE REMOVE HIS POSTS WHEN HE FEELS THE NEED TO TRY AND INSULT PEOPLE AND MAKE AN ASS OUT OF HIMSELF.

THANKS......HOPE SOME ONE IS LISTENING.

[TheGermanDream]

when in a restaurant, order with a slight belgian accent...also they love it when u walk with a limp...and of course, dont forget to eat lots of garlic all day...

fuckin idiot...

maybe if u started treating these girls like real human beings and not mythical creatures who have a unique set of rules for ettiquette and dating youde get somewhere...how insulting that a grown adult needs tips before meeting another human being...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

"Look, who's talking!" I could say... YOU should learn to treat all human beeings (not the girls only) as humans :wink:

As I am new member and a non native english "speaker" as well I feel pretty unsure now to ask questions for the fist time. I've never had a relationship with a TG and that's why I clicked that thread to prevent verbal shit on a possible first date.
I actually listen to every hint and think of its consequence afterwards. If you know everything you won't make any faults but you won't get surprised any more. :?:
peace please - Just have a good time :idea:
the german dream

[lincspoacher]

Hi German Dream,

I understand your reasons for asking the question .. sadly,none of us is ever going to know "everything" as each & every TG woman is as individual as everyone else on the planet .. there's no such thing as an "average" T-Girl .. just as there's no such thing as an "average" genetic man or woman.

All you can try to do is to become better informed .. hopefully people here, with more "first-hand" knowledge than I will be willing & able to assist you ... especially the "Girls" themselves.

I believe that anyone who takes the trouble to become better informed deserves to be applauded .. rather than "put down" .. just my humble opinion.

BTW .. I wish my German was as good as your English .. lol

Bye for now,

Poacher.

[BeardedOne]

...if u need tips on dating, odds are ur a bad fuckin date...

It's official: I'm screwed. :?

[Vicki Richter]

Instead of dating, he may have meant having sex with an angel for the first time... and trust me... you first timers need all the advice you can get.

[hwbs]

Instead of dating, he may have meant having sex with an angel for the first time... and trust me... you first timers need all the advice you can get.


lmao...the hung angels mentoring program..