Sunny d's party at Vapor tonight any suggestions?

[fitnesshero]

I am thinking about going. Is anyone else planning on attending tonight. If you have attended in the past is there a good crowd of women

[tg4me]

Don't expect alot of answers. We will go on & on about god and the war and race, but nobody gives a very good trip report. "Had a great time", is about all you get. From what I gather, Sunny stays at the door. The guys show up early and stare at each other. The girls roll in about midnight. It's a very pretty place. Only part of it is open. Drinks are not cheap. No idea if snacks are available. Lots of guys are shy and stare more than talk. Every girl smokes:~) This is not a strip/dance club and there are no back rooms,etc. If any of this is not true PLEASE join in.

The good news is that you can talk to a girl and get a number if ya like each other.
I live in DC and have not been there. But I think the things here are pretty close to the truth.

[Looking 4 Now]

Don't expect alot of answers. We will go on & on about god and the war and race, but nobody gives a very good trip report. "Had a great time", is about all you get. From what I gather, Sunny stays at the door. The guys show up early and stare at each other. The girls roll in about midnight. It's a very pretty place. Only part of it is open. Drinks are not cheap. No idea if snacks are available. Lots of guys are shy and stare more than talk. Every girl smokes:~) This is not a strip/dance club and there are no back rooms,etc. If any of this is not true PLEASE join in.

The good news is that you can talk to a girl and get a number if ya like each other.
I live in DC and have not been there. But I think the things here are pretty close to the truth.

you draw a lot of conclusions for someone who has never been there

[tg4me]

That's why I said to PLEASE jump in if any of this is not true. I'm just trying to help the guy out. I would be there every week if I didn't live 200 miles away and have to go to work in the morning. I've seen many ask questons and few get answers. Someone did PM me with some of the details about the place and the parties. I saw photos of the club and it looked beautiful. It looks to me like the best thing around for meeting girls. But you have to get off your ass to talk to them. After all they are girls!
Have you been there? Week after week guys ask about the party but we get no trip reports. I just took the few sparse comments from over the weeks and combined them into one statment. I then finished by saying I had not been there. Is that so wrong:~)
I frequent various forums like Club Hombre. There you get day by day reports of guys traveling the world meeting GG's for play. Thing's like places to eat, cost of rooms, cab fare from the airports, details of love and problems to avoid. Makes for great reading and truthful reports helps us with our future travel plans. That's what I mean by trip reports.

[cheez]

do you have a decent amount of money to spend?
not to be mean, but it's a new york club and there are attractive girls and you will spend money if you hang with them...
i've been to this party three or four times and am a personal trainer, so I'm in good shape and have no problems talking to the girls.
but invariably if you like a girl, you will spend 12-15 a pop on each drink for her if you spend an hour or so with them. And that can add up if you talk to two or three girls during the course of the night. you can easily blow through a c-note with naught but pleasant conversation to show for it.
and if they're looking for a "date" the first guy who looks like he's throwing real money (i.e. anyone looking to throw two to three hundred bucks for an hour of fun) around will win out.
it is fun and there are often a lot of pretty girls there, but it is like any other low to moderately pricey club in Manhattan where there are pretty girls.
considering that many of them escort, if all you're looking for is some fun and not a relationship, you'd be better off browsing their ads.
that's why my first post was to find out if that one beautiful talisa soto lookalike named Ashley or Lisa does escorting. I could spend a hundred bucks trying to spend time with her at Sunny's (and many of the girls are social butterflies who'll only stay with you for a while, epsecially if some one they know regularly pops up), or I could just spend double that and get her alone for an hour.
again, you can have fun hanging out and I've never felt out of place or unwelcome in any way, but it will feel a lot like and cost as much as any visit to say a strip club and you don't necessarily get to see a lot of boobies...

[PatrickFromNYC]

I was there last week. There were probably 20 to 25 girls and maybe 15 guys. Sunny is at the door with Yasmin Lee, both very stunning. You walk in and there is long bar on the right with a pretty but somewhat rude GG bartender. The back part of the bar had a dance floor and couches. The place was a decent size, safe and clean. The drinks are typical NYC club prices which some people might find expensive. FYI...I got there about 12:45AM, not sure what it is like earlier.

[ice]

tg4me, that's exactly right.
the girls roll in just about whenever but it is better to get there 11-12. There are usually a very good amount of girls...kudos sunny. i haven't gone in a few weeks but i'm sure the pattern hasn't changed much.

[louh61]

I am hoping that when I go next Tuesday 1/9 to Sunny's party it will be a lot better than Allanah's party on Friday 12/29 not many girls and the ones that were there were not that Impressive and a little too pushy . I went in hopes of finding my favorite girl I think her name is Abbie i guess she only goes to tuesday's party so that's where I'm headed next week.

[RawNY]

tg4me and cheeze, you are right on target.
Sunny sits outside the door or just inside. She is as attractive you can imagine, pleasant and will greet you will a smile unless she is busy with business.
The action gets going late and the women are generally passable with some extrememly attractive ladies.
Part of the problem is that they tend to congragate in packs, tearing apart when the go for a drink or to "hunt".
I have not been there for a while, but every time I was there I got fed up with being hit on, i.e. "wanna spend some time with me?" Mean ing, throw some $ down and I will go to the back of the place in the dark part of the sofa and grope you. (I never bothered to ask the going prices) If you say no thanks, they ask you to at leaset by them a drink ($10-13.00).
I will actually go back when I get the chance, only for the experience. Don't expect sex and don't expect to get someone's number so you can call them for an actual date.
Sorry, Sunny, but just telling it the way it is. If I am wrong, contact me in private.
Happy New Year All

[tg4me]

Well then this sounds like a great place. Not a perfect place. There is a place that you can go and see real t-girls. Sometimes more girls than guys! If you are happy just dreaming you can get out of there cheap. If you want to hand pick a half dozen girls to see what their vibe is, you can blow a $100, see and talk to more t-girls than you will ever meet in one place. If you know what to expect, then you don't arrive with too great of expectation or fear. My fear is that they would want to dance. Because girls dance and tonight they are girls and they are STARS!!
This place sounds like a strip club without stripping allowed. That doesn't bother me. Many times I would go to a strip club and offer a girl dinner and drinks at the club. Having her sit with me and enjoy herself, was way more rewarding than 3:17 minutes of her grinding on my crotch then walking away. I know many would disagree.
From what others are saying, this place isn't high $$ for NY city. Just moderate.

[RawNY]

My man,
If your comming to NYC and want to experience sex with a transexual pick up the NY Village Voice after you step off the bus. Go to the back and look fir the SheMale pages. All shapes, races, sizes locations you could want. You will be guarranted sex for at least a half hour. You can discuss that you want before you lay your $ down.
THey are as clean or unclean as anyone you might meet "escorting". (Lord I love that expression)

[Looking 4 Now]

Cum on guys.......What do you expect....Any where you go in NYC on any place else your gonna have to spend a few bucks to meet a girl. Most of the girls in there are real nice. It's a great opportunity to meet a girl buy her a drink and get to know her and if you want to call her back some time in the future that's great. At least you know who she is. I would much rather do this than shoot in the dark with Eros or even worse the Village Voice

[RawNY]

Looking,
I think you have missed the point.
I dont know if you live in NYC, as I do, but you dont have to spend alot of $ to meet a woman here.
The actual point is that you cannot expect to go to one of these parties, introduce yourself to a TG, "get to know her" and get her number for a date at a later time. If you go with that expectation, I haev a brideg not too far from Vapor that I would love to sell to you.
I am sure it has happened, but the norm is the hustle, not the looking for love fantasy you have in mind.

[louh61]

I would actually like to meet a nice Tgirl for a relationship type of thing should i try this place or just skip it? It seems like it's just a hook up joint for the night. Please bear with me I am new to this type of thing and am not the most suave type of guy.

thx.

[TheOne1]

I would actually like to meet a nice Tgirl for a relationship type of thing should i try this place or just skip it? It seems like it's just a hook up joint for the night. Please bear with me I am new to this type of thing and am not the most suave type of guy.

thx.

yes.. Vapor is a great place to find a LTR... and is also a good hook up joint.. think of it as like the 'bar scene' in the original Star Wars, lil bit of everything :smoking

[NiceBod]

I would actually like to meet a nice Tgirl for a relationship type of thing should i try this place or just skip it? It seems like it's just a hook up joint for the night. Please bear with me I am new to this type of thing and am not the most suave type of guy.

thx.

I don't think one can find an LTR at one of these parties. I don't believe the girls that go are looking for that. They consider any guy that goes to the parties a tranny chaser and therefore not the kind of guy they would date. I've exchanged tons of numbers with girls on a purely social basis and it never worked out. They always ended up flaking out when I called.

[rick331us]

All right I will provide my take on the Tuesday party....I have been to 4 and I have had a lights out blast every time. The prices for drinks is no different than any other NY club and is what I would expect for a night out with a great time. I will speak of what the crowd is like after 11:30 or 12:00 before that is not worth ths time. After 12 great group of ladies...maybe 25-30 with anywhere froma like number of guys. The girls are very friendly and most are working...have left with a couple and had a great time...much more of a date experience given the bar foreplay. In terms of LTR I then started spending some more uncompenstated time with one of the girls from there and have connected several times so while I think\know most are looking for a gift for some time together there are certainly some girls who would love to connect....in saying that these are beautiful girls and expect some of the same from there men. This is based on 4 trips in.

[Kriss]

What is wrong with you guys? There seems to be a lot of cheap guys out there who expect to buy a girl one drink and own her for the night. It's quite simple, all girls want you to buy them drinks, presents, ect to demonstrate that you are interested and yes all girls like a guy with a fat wallet. Surely its been like this for thousands if not millions of years. We must assume that these beautiful ladies have spent a lot of time, effort and money to look good. Well now you gotta make your effort so the lady knows you see that beauty. O.K., Ive never been to the Tuesday nights but it looks great from the many photos posted here on HA. Washington guy-If I lived within 200 miles of NY I would be at Vapor every week! Come on guys, I spent today checking out the photos from the Tuesday parties (thank you sunny) and every girl looks gorgeous. I see guys complaining that they spend $100 there on door and drinks and leave without a girl. Thats like 60 pounds! Its not a lot of money for a night out in the city guys, where you can hang out with so many stunning Transexual ladies. Many guys I know will happily blow double that amount to watch 22 ugly footballers run around for 90 minutes every saturday. Fools, I know what to save my pennies for. We just don't have parties like that here in u.k., certainly not as glamourous or well presented anyway. I know theres the wayout club but the photos are only ever as hot as vapor if a big name like Allanah visits, then it seems all the sexy u.k. girls turn up at once.
This is all opinion based on observation and not experience.