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BottomGuy_4TopTS
01-10-2025, 06:16 AM
Happy New Year Hungangels forum!
I have a job opportunity that allows me to move to a different city in the USA. Currently, I live in Michigan and the dating scene has been challenging because most trans women I meet expect me to be a top, then look down upon me when they learn I’m not. I’m a 40-year-young vers-bottom guy (can be 100% bottom for the right trans woman), and am tired of waiting to meet a lady compatible with me.
So, which cities in the US have you all found to have a high concentration of Top trans women who are genuinely attracted to bottom men? Some areas I’ve been curious about are San Francisco/bay area of California, Houston, Dallas, and Chicago, but not sure how the dating scenes are over there. I’d greatly appreciate hearing from the rest of you members more experienced than me 🙂.
Houston and Vegas seem to have a high concentration. Lexington KY if you want trashy ts. Chicago seems to have a scene too.
FionaFortune
01-10-2025, 06:19 PM
Beside Las Vegas, my impression is that yes, The SF Bay area plus Miami, LA, Seattle and Portland all have large and visible trans communities.
As to whether you can find one who want to top you, I can not say.
Discodavis
01-10-2025, 10:55 PM
It's impossible to determine something like this without a study/survey and it's highly unlikely anyone took the time, money and effort to conduct one. Any answer you receive will be based on anecdotal data. You also have to take into account that many transwomen work as escorts and travel to different cities.
Whichever city has the largest population of transwomen is the best place to go searching.
StevenDavid
01-12-2025, 03:51 PM
The best way to estimate this would be to try and guess which percentage of trans woman we think are Tops/mostly Tops and then find the city with the biggest trans community and apply the estimated percentage.
Does anyone have a guess to what percentage of trans woman may be exclusively Tops or in open relationships where they are strictly a Top to one of their partners but bottom for others?
I know there is no way to pin this number down but does anyone have a guess?
Lorca81
01-13-2025, 12:53 AM
In the US, Los Angeles and New York City have the largest number of transwomen. That is because they have the largest populations overall, and also have LGBT populations that are larger than in the overall per capita LGBT population due to other socioeconomic factors.
The San Francisco Bay Area still has a lot of transwomen, however it does not have as many as it once did, or than you would think given San Francisco’s reputation as an LGBT Mecca. That is because cost of living—especially in San Francisco proper—has priced many people out. Anecdotally, this seemed to especially effect transwomen (I noticed from social media and keeping up with old acquaintances I knew back in the early to mid 2000s many left for other locales.)
BostonBad
01-16-2025, 11:21 AM
I'd say NYC, Miami and Las Vegas.
DreamingofTS
01-24-2025, 09:46 PM
Where in Lexington are you finding them?
BottomGuy_4TopTS
02-01-2025, 01:21 AM
I appreciate everyone’s input. Because of recent fires in LA, I’m assuming that is temporarily off the list. Since Chicago is closer to me, I can visit it over a weekend. Where are good areas to go in Chicago to meet Top trans women (not escorts)?
Lorca81
02-02-2025, 06:09 PM
I appreciate everyone’s input. Because of recent fires in LA, I’m assuming that is temporarily off the list. Since Chicago is closer to me, I can visit it over a weekend. Where are good areas to go in Chicago to meet Top trans women (not escorts)?
Despite what the new networks show, Los Angeles is not a burned out moonscape due to the fires. LA is a huge place, and life is back to normal, except in Pacific Palisades, parts of Malibu, and parts of Santa Monica.
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