Bumping into TGirls you know from online in real life

[anton101]

Just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience…

So, there’s this park near me, where I walk the dog in the evenings. I often stop and chat to this same guy, who walks his dog there too. He’s clearly gay, and I often wondered if he might be a cross-dresser — he has this kind of very beautiful, feminine face and wears a bit of makeup, and maybe there’s something about the way he applies it that struck me as a bit… cross-dressery? Dunno. But we bump into each other quite frequently and talk about our dogs, life, the weather, that sort of thing.

Well, last week I stumbled upon the Twitter/X profile for a TV who works in my local area… and it’s the same person! Wearing a wig and a lot more makeup, but unquestionably them. Like, there’s no doubt — the nose and teeth are pretty idiosyncratic and unmistakable. Eyes, lips, jawline… all identical. Only difference, of course, online they’re posing in lingerie and getting their (surprisingly large) dick sucked.

Anyway, I bumped into them again yesterday, for the first time since seeing their profile on X. And we had the same kind of chat we always have — and it was just so cognitively dissonant! Because the whole time we’re talking about summer holidays, and picking up dog shit, my brain is just going, “I KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE NAKED!!!”

And it’s weirdly turning me on, so I’m desperately trying to maintain eye contact and carry on like normal — but I can feel myself getting hard, and I know I’m blushing, and I'm just praying they don’t notice. Meanwhile I’m getting these waves of penis envy because, bizarrely, I now know that this stranger I’m speaking with has a rather thick cock. I mean, the whole episode was a mind fuck.

Obviously, I’m never going to mention anything about this to them, and would never let on that I know about their other life. But it got me thinking, has anyone else here ever bumped into a TGirl they know from online in a real world context — either before or after you saw their work/advertisements online? Would be curious to read any other experiences!

[incognito_bot]

I live in a small city so mostly I meet working tgirls travelling here. I am friends with one and we usually hangout whenever she’s in town.
So one day we are hanging out and we decide to grab dinner at food court. We ran into another working tgirl and obviously they know each other. So we sat down at the same table. I met the other tgirl too a couple of times, although I don’t think she remembered.
P.S. she had a nice tool, but didn’t know how to use it. Shame

[Stavros]

Just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience…

So, there’s this park near me, where I walk the dog in the evenings. I often stop and chat to this same guy, who walks his dog there too. He’s clearly gay, and I often wondered if he might be a cross-dresser — he has this kind of very beautiful, feminine face and wears a bit of makeup, and maybe there’s something about the way he applies it that struck me as a bit… cross-dressery? Dunno. But we bump into each other quite frequently and talk about our dogs, life, the weather, that sort of thing.

Well, last week I stumbled upon the Twitter/X profile for a TV who works in my local area… and it’s the same person! Wearing a wig and a lot more makeup, but unquestionably them. Like, there’s no doubt — the nose and teeth are pretty idiosyncratic and unmistakable. Eyes, lips, jawline… all identical. Only difference, of course, online they’re posing in lingerie and getting their (surprisingly large) dick sucked.

Anyway, I bumped into them again yesterday, for the first time since seeing their profile on X. And we had the same kind of chat we always have — and it was just so cognitively dissonant! Because the whole time we’re talking about summer holidays, and picking up dog shit, my brain is just going, “I KNOW WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE NAKED!!!”

And it’s weirdly turning me on, so I’m desperately trying to maintain eye contact and carry on like normal — but I can feel myself getting hard, and I know I’m blushing, and I'm just praying they don’t notice. Meanwhile I’m getting these waves of penis envy because, bizarrely, I now know that this stranger I’m speaking with has a rather thick cock. I mean, the whole episode was a mind fuck.

Obviously, I’m never going to mention anything about this to them, and would never let on that I know about their other life. But it got me thinking, has anyone else here ever bumped into a TGirl they know from online in a real world context — either before or after you saw their work/advertisements online? Would be curious to read any other experiences!

Uses social media, but you don't think she visits HungAngels and even posts here...? How would you know?

[anton101]

Uses social media, but you don't think she visits HungAngels and even posts here...? How would you know?

Well, of course, I’ve no idea if they post on HA. They don’t seem to be a big social media user, given the activity on their profile. Plus, my sense — and I may be wrong about this, as I haven’t posted here in years myself — is that HA isn’t the primary place where escorts post anymore, following site changes in light of legislation some years back (partly that’s why I chose to share my experience here rather than elsewhere). But if I’m wrong about that, I’m still comfortable with the level of detail in my post — I’m sure they’re not the only TV who walks their dog in a park.

Even if they somehow do recognize themselves (and I changed one detail to make that harder), it’s not like I’m the only other person they speak with. So, fair point, but I’m pretty comfortable sharing what I shared.

[anton101]

I live in a small city so mostly I meet working tgirls travelling here. I am friends with one and we usually hangout whenever she’s in town.
So one day we are hanging out and we decide to grab dinner at food court. We ran into another working tgirl and obviously they know each other. So we sat down at the same table. I met the other tgirl too a couple of times, although I don’t think she remembered.
P.S. she had a nice tool, but didn’t know how to use it. Shame

That’s a great example! Thanks for sharing. I’ve often wondered if any TGirls I’ve had one-off meets with would recognize me if we crossed paths in the street? Your experience suggests maybe not, although I guess different people remember different things. Still, it’s somehow reassuring!

[instantm]

A former TS porn star who was pretty well known works at a local fast food chain near me. When I went there and saw her for the first time I was pretty surprised. She is usually pretty kind when I interacted with her, never let on that I know about her past life, although I am sometimes tempted to call her by her name haha.

[incognito_bot]

That’s a great example! Thanks for sharing. I’ve often wondered if any TGirls I’ve had one-off meets with would recognize me if we crossed paths in the street? Your experience suggests maybe not, although I guess different people remember different things. Still, it’s somehow reassuring!

I met her twice, but she’s one of those self obsessed types. Only reason I saw her the second time was because she had a nice cock and I gave her the benefit of the doubt.
(She did give me a good golden shower the first time. My first time trying it)

Most others I’ve met more than once have remembered a few things about me.

Also in Thailand you always run the risk of being chased down the street by a ladyboy you met a few days ago haha.

[Lorca81]

I used to see a girl on Grindr who I could tell lived extremely close to me based on the app’s locational sorting. Her pics were more-or-less PG-13, but I could tell from her profile pretty explicit, and I could tell she was very much a DTF non-pro. One weekend afternoon, I saw her on the MUNI line I rode to get downtown. Later that day, I messaged her saying I’d noticed her on MUNI earlier and had thought she looked extremely cute in her cutoff jeans. It turned out we lived four or five blocks from each other. One thing led to another and we hooked up that same evening.

[anton101]

I used to see a girl on Grindr who I could tell lived extremely close to me based on the app’s locational sorting. Her pics were more-or-less PG-13, but I could tell from her profile pretty explicit, and I could tell she was very much a DTF non-pro. One weekend afternoon, I saw her on the MUNI line I rode to get downtown. Later that day, I messaged her saying I’d noticed her on MUNI earlier and had thought she looked extremely cute in her cutoff jeans. It turned out we lived four or five blocks from each other. One thing led to another and we hooked up that same evening.

Nice! See, I’d be lying if I said I hadn’t fantasized about doing something like that with the TGirl I keep bumping into — but I’m just too paranoid about hooking up with someone who lives so nearby, haha. Kind of like a don’t-shit-where-you-eat mentality, you know? But very cool that it worked out for you!