Questions for those that Top and/or viewers of porn

[StevenDavid]

If you like to Top and/or watch porn:

1) If the person bottoming is completely limp the entire time do you think they are not enjoying getting fucked as much as a bottom that is hard all/most of the time?

2) If the person bottoming does not cum do you think they did not enjoy getting fucked as much as a bottom that does cum?

Thanks!

[Maya Steam]

On both questions:
My opinion is that they make an effort to experience pleasure but subconsciously do not perceive the action as sex, do not get aroused and do not reach orgasm at all. They try to do the top person a favor by pleasing them.

[Maya Steam]

If such a situation occurs while I'm on top, I immediately terminate the session because the pleasure disappears.

[Stavros]

If you like to Top and/or watch porn:

1) If the person bottoming is completely limp the entire time do you think they are not enjoying getting fucked as much as a bottom that is hard all/most of the time?

2) If the person bottoming does not cum do you think they did not enjoy getting fucked as much as a bottom that does cum?

Thanks!

Now discuss with regard to those who have popped Viagra or other stimulants before the session. Like most performers?

[Maya Steam]

I still don't need help from chemistry. My several friends I meet don't share their secrets whether they use pills or not but I think they are OK without them. Sometimes failures happen but they depend on many circumstances.

[StevenDavid]

On both questions:
My opinion is that they make an effort to experience pleasure but subconsciously do not perceive the action as sex, do not get aroused and do not reach orgasm at all. They try to do the top person a favor by pleasing them.

Fair.

Do you not think there can be enough pleasure derived from just getting fucked? The pleasure that comes from being fucked anally is not legit unless the bottom has a throbbing erection and cums at the end?

I am not judging, just asking. I expect many different opinions on this.

[MrFanti]

If you like to Top and/or watch porn:

1) If the person bottoming is completely limp the entire time do you think they are not enjoying getting fucked as much as a bottom that is hard all/most of the time?

2) If the person bottoming does not cum do you think they did not enjoy getting fucked as much as a bottom that does cum?

Thanks!

Is this directed towards anyone who is a Top or just Top women?

[GroobySteven]

On both questions:
My opinion is that they make an effort to experience pleasure but subconsciously do not perceive the action as sex, do not get aroused and do not reach orgasm at all. They try to do the top person a favor by pleasing them.

Go to the back of the class.

[GroobySteven]

If such a situation occurs while I'm on top, I immediately terminate the session because the pleasure disappears.

That is your mental/emotional issues. Not theirs.

[Dudedude12345]

I think the best way is if you can stimulate the prostate, but it depends if the top has a curved penis

[Maya Steam]

That is your mental/emotional issues. Not theirs.
That's not just my issue. If you see the partner doesn't enjoy and feel good, you should better stop rather than keeping on pumping, and try to please them in another way.

[StevenDavid]

Is this directed towards anyone who is a Top or just Top women?

Any Top and/or anyone watching porn. Whether you see it 1st or 3rd person.

[StevenDavid]

I think the best way is if you can stimulate the prostate, but it depends if the top has a curved penis

That is not what I am asking.

Let’s say you have the perfect cock and hit the bottom’s prostate perfectly and they are still limp do you think they are not enjoying themselves? If they do not cum do you think they have not enjoyed themselves?

[StevenDavid]

That's not just my issue. If you see the partner doesn't enjoy and feel good, you should better stop rather than keeping on pumping, and try to please them in another way.

What if the bottom just loves anal and really has no concern for their cock whatsoever?

Do you not think anal is pleasurable?

[zaphod]

I experience prostate orgasm whether or not I am hard. Both ways are special. Sex is 55% physical and the other 75% is mental. The need to equate erections and sexual satisfaction is quite limiting. I also find a soft dick and erect dick quite exciting as long as the owner enjoys the playtime!

[StevenDavid]

I experience prostate orgasm whether or not I am hard. Both ways are special. Sex is 55% physical and the other 75% is mental. The need to equate erections and sexual satisfaction is quite limiting. I also find a soft dick and erect dick quite exciting as long as the owner enjoys the playtime!


Nice! I wish I could cum just from anal. I am working on it!

55% and 75% lol!

I agree fully that erections are not required to experience intense pleasure. Some of my best sessions riding my dildo I am completely limp and shriveled and could carless since it feels so good! Other times I am rock hard lol.

I also find soft and hard dicks exciting as it pertains to others as well as myself. I think it is sexy to see bottoms in porn get fucked and remain limp the whole time. It is also sexy to see bottoms get fucked that are hard the whole time too. I do not assume either is enjoying themselves anymore or less than the other just based on their erection or lack of.

I also do not assume that if the bottom cums that they had a better experience than a bottom that did not cum. Often if my ass is getting wrecked and my prostate is getting rubbed intensely my cock will be completely limp and shriveled up like a little acorn. I mean it looks nonfucntional even though the anal/prostate pleasure is incredible!

[GroobySteven]

That's not just my issue. If you see the partner doesn't enjoy and feel good, you should better stop rather than keeping on pumping, and try to please them in another way.

Getting erect, just because it's something that you want to see doesn't have anything to do with how they are feeling, or what they are enjoying.
I don't think you have a lot of experience with this.

[snowysissysummer]

I think when it comes to anal, you either enjoy it or you don't. If you do then it then you can continue taking it for minutes, hours, days? As long as it goes. It depends on the person getting fucked what turns them on. They may enjoy anal but it doesn't turn them on as much as something else in the scene.
Personally I love it and am hard throughout/ To add to what someone said earlier once I wanked myself whilst being fucked and when I came the guy left so now I leave myself rock hard and untouched throughout all sex - a monument to how much I'm enjoying myself and how much I want it to continue.
The issue might be - did they start off hard and then lose during sex - this MIGHT indicate the person is less aroused than they were before the frivolity started.

[StevenDavid]

I think when it comes to anal, you either enjoy it or you don't. If you do then it then you can continue taking it for minutes, hours, days? As long as it goes. It depends on the person getting fucked what turns them on. They may enjoy anal but it doesn't turn them on as much as something else in the scene.
Personally I love it and am hard throughout/ To add to what someone said earlier once I wanked myself whilst being fucked and when I came the guy left so now I leave myself rock hard and untouched throughout all sex - a monument to how much I'm enjoying myself and how much I want it to continue.
The issue might be - did they start off hard and then lose during sex - this MIGHT indicate the person is less aroused than they were before the frivolity started.

Sometimes I am hard throughout. Other times I am completely limp, shriveled even. Then some other times I am hard and go completely limp during anal. In all three scenarios the anal feels just as good. In fact the more intense the anal the more likely I am to be completely limp and loving every minute of it!

I prefer to not cum as well.

[Lorca81]

1) If the person bottoming is completely limp the entire time do you think they are not enjoying getting fucked as much as a bottom that is hard all/most of the time?

Tops shouldn’t read too much into this. Many bottoms derive pleasure from the act of receiving in an almost psychological rather than physiological manner. This is especially true of trans women who have been on HRT for any length of time, because estrogen and testosterone blockers almost always result in increased difficulty obtaining and maintaining erection, if not outright erectile dysfunction.


2) If the person bottoming does not cum do you think they did not enjoy getting fucked as much as a bottom that does cum?

See above. Trans women who have been on HRT for any length of time do not ejaculate the same way. Basically, if you see a doll shoot a large, white load, she is probably not on hormones.

[StevenDavid]

Tops shouldn’t read too much into this. Many bottoms derive pleasure from the act of receiving in an almost psychological rather than physiological manner. This is especially true of trans women who have been on HRT for any length of time, because estrogen and testosterone blockers almost always result in increased difficulty obtaining and maintaining erection, if not outright erectile dysfunction.



See above. Trans women who have been on HRT for any length of time do not ejaculate the same way. Basically, if you see a doll shoot a large, white load, she is probably not on hormones.

I understand HRT and its effects.

What do you think if the bottom, a trans woman or man, does not want to touch their cock at all, it may or may not get hard and they do not want to cum? Not cause of HRT but because they find it fun or maybe there is a bdsm element and they are ‘not allowed to.’

I think it is really hot if one person in a scene does not cum. Be it a 1 on 1 or 3+. I think it is hot in real life too.

[Lorca81]

I understand HRT and its effects.

What do you think if the bottom, a trans woman or man, does not want to touch their cock at all, it may or may not get hard and they do not want to cum? Not cause of HRT but because they find it fun or maybe there is a bdsm element and they are ‘not allowed to.’

I think it is really hot if one person in a scene does not cum. Be it a 1 on 1 or 3+. I think it is hot in real life too.

Honestly, if I top a trans woman and she doesn’t touch herself or want me to touch her either, I just assume it’s because of dysphoria rather than a kink/bdsm element. But I have usually encountered that during one off hookups where I didn’t know the girl very well. (With one exception all of my regular hookups and LTRs have been girls who were, to some degree, verse and enjoyed receiving handjobs, oral, and/or topping.) If a girl seems/says she’s enjoying the encounter but isn’t hard and/or touching herself, I take her at her word. That, said I am very vanilla and not into bdsm/kink.

[StevenDavid]

Honestly, if I top a trans woman and she doesn’t touch herself or want me to touch her either, I just assume it’s because of dysphoria rather than a kink/bdsm element. But I have usually encountered that during one off hookups where I didn’t know the girl very well. (With one exception all of my regular hookups and LTRs have been girls who were, to some degree, verse and enjoyed receiving handjobs, oral, and/or topping.) If a girl seems/says she’s enjoying the encounter but isn’t hard and/or touching herself, I take her at her word. That, said I am very vanilla and not into bdsm/kink.

I am not very much into bdsm either but I do think it is really kinky when one person cums and the other does not and they both enjoy it.

From my experience as a bottom not cumming for long periods of time makes the anal a lot more intense and rewarding. Cumming resets that.