Surprising turn on

[Mirgofino]

What is the most surprising turn on you ever discovered that you had?

[Murmdrum]

having my ears breathed into and licked

[tslvr]

Transwomen

[Mirgofino]

Thanks for the answers so far. I was surprised when I found out I like asses slightly hairy. I did not see that coming. And yes, transwomen! Just some of the most beautiful people on Earth.

[danoblue]

having my ears breathed into and licked

Me too!

[petitskinny]

When she is taller and/or unexpectedely stonger than me ! Thinking I would top her, and she finally tops me.
Also when her dick is unexpectedly longer and/or bigger than mine.

[filghy2]

Just about everything that turns me on now I would have scoffed at when I was in my 20s. It's even changed a lot since I first got into trans about 15 years ago, when I still had firm ideas about lines I wouldn't cross. Sexual pleasure is mostly in the mind, which is influenced by social conditioning. People can find new sources of enjoyment if they are willing to set aside the mental barriers.

[StevenDavid]

I was surprised by 2 things:

First, I was surprised by how much I enjoy licking the right person’s ass. By right person I mean someone that really enjoys having their ass licked. I always knew it was something I liked as a quick foreplay act but I was surprised how much I can get into it when certain partners. Sometimes so into it that there is no sex just a long ass licking session lasting over a half hour.

Second, how good receiving anal can feel on its own with no penile stimulation and how satisfying it can feel without cumming. I was shocked to find that through anal masturbation, and a few bottoming experiences, how good it can feel just to be penetrated and not play with my cock at all and how satisfied I can feel even though I don’t cum. I’ve always wanted to meet a Top that found this hot because being an ‘anal only’ bottom and not being allowed to cum for an indefinite amount of time really intrigues me. Exploring more would be really fun!

[StevenDavid]

I should have included this on too:

Thirdly, I was surprised by how much I enjoy Topping someone that enjoys being anal only. It drives me wild!

[ReynaRolandKiss]

my most surprising turn on I ever discovered was crossdressing! And it coincides with being an insatiable bottom and hypersexual! Here in my late 40's I would have never believed it if you told me when i was younger that i'd be "Slutty Reyna" so much so, and so vested in her coming to life, that I'd be actually exploring this like i have, but here we are! I'm still learning a lot too.

[SanDiegoPervySage]

Choking
Eye contact

[Lorca81]

I was surprised by 2 things:

Second, how good receiving anal can feel on its own with no penile stimulation and how satisfying it can feel without cumming. I was shocked to find that through anal masturbation, and a few bottoming experiences, how good it can feel just to be penetrated and not play with my cock at all and how satisfied I can feel even though I don’t cum. I’ve always wanted to meet a Top that found this hot because being an ‘anal only’ bottom and not being allowed to cum for an indefinite amount of time really intrigues me. Exploring more would be really fun!

Same, though Sounds like you’re into the BDSM aspect of “denial play,” which isn’t really my jam. But when I was in an LTR with a verse girl, I discovered this too. Sometimes, she would top me until she orgasmed, while i was just along for the rise, so to speak. I was very surprised to learn how enjoyable and satisfying it can be to just focus on bottoming without trying to achieve orgasm.

[jakejd]

Ureathral sounding . I would love to do a double sounding a la Liana and Natalie .

[StevenDavid]

Same, though Sounds like you’re into the BDSM aspect of “denial play,” which isn’t really my jam. But when I was in an LTR with a verse girl, I discovered this too. Sometimes, she would top me until she orgasmed, while i was just along for the rise, so to speak. I was very surprised to learn how enjoyable and satisfying it can be to just focus on bottoming without trying to achieve orgasm.

Not necessarily into bdsm denial play.

I would just like to experiment with focusing on bottoming just for the anal stimulation and see how long I could do this for. The thought of doing this on many subsequent meet ups with someone is very intriguing to me.

I like the idea of having to get my pleasure ‘a different way’ i.e. just from anal. It would also turn me on if the Top was really into this too. I really how you said it ‘going until she orgasmed, while I was just along for the ride.’ It’s not that I’m being denied orgasm it’s as if the Top just isn’t concerned about one way or another. Sex involves my mouth and asshole and that’s it :)

[mikey_stl]

That I was a submissive. I recently met a woman who dominated me, and it was so exciting it opened up a side of me that I had suppressed for years. Now, it's all I can think about, and I want a trans woman to dominate me, hopefully in a LTR.

[kmersh]

my most surprising turn on I ever discovered was crossdressing! And it coincides with being an insatiable bottom and hypersexual! Here in my late 40's I would have never believed it if you told me when i was younger that i'd be "Slutty Reyna" so much so, and so vested in her coming to life, that I'd be actually exploring this like i have, but here we are! I'm still learning a lot too.

Sort of funny story about crossdressing, I thought I might find it a turn on and maybe it would have been had the whole thing not gone completely wrong.

I had obtained an outfit, shoes, etc and figured how hard could it be, well it is harder than it seems and I bit off way more than I could chew for a first time.

I got the clothing on no problems there, but the heels were a different story entirely.

I put them on, took a few steps, my ankle twists and I hit the ground hard. I realize I did something bad because my left leg hurt pretty bad and I could barely move it.

I luckily could reach my phone and call the rescue squad to take me to the hospital.

My biggest issue how do I get out of the outfit before the ambulance arrives. I probably stupidly was able to get the outfit off, toss it into my closet and put on a pair of boxers, gym shorts and a t-shirt and just laid on the floor until the ambulance arrived.

Let me tell you, getting the panties and skirt off was incredibly painful, but I pushed through because the embarrassment of the rescue squad finding me wearing those type of clothes would be far far worse or at least that is how I felt at that moment.

So, I did go to the hospital, had surgery to set my tibia and had a cast for long time.

I never tried crossdressing again, every time I think about it, I have a pain in my leg and stop thinking about it.

[alan327]

To be submissive to a trans girl and her telling me she’s is going to give me what I need!

[mikey_stl]

I recently had a couple of encounters with a Cis female that I met online. I didn't know she was a domme when I met her, but as we corresponded, her dominant side came out and I was loving it. She dominated me in the two encounters that we had, and then she ghosted me.I had suppressed my submissive side for most of my life. Now, I want to explore it. I'd love to find a trans-woman who is a domme.

The other thing that surprised me is how much I LOVE drinking piss from a woman. I've only done it a couple of times. I'd also like to drink from a trans-woman.