My Boyfriend Came Out As Transgender And It Saved Our Relationship

[MrFanti]

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[diddyboponTOP]

https://www.yourtango.com/love/boyfriend-came-out-transgender-saved-relationship

This is too new school for me lol I'm not down with this PC anything goes way of the world we have going on today but it is what it is lol. If I would have came out as a TS my ex wife would have literally took me out lol.

[Lovly-red]

This is too new school for me lol I'm not down with this PC anything goes way of the world we have going on today but it is what it is lol. If I would have came out as a TS my ex wife would have literally took me out lol.

My ex and I always joked she was a closeted bi sexual, but in reality she was 100% straight. We broke up when I started my transition, but that wasn't the only reason we broke up. We still chat once and a while, and see each other once and a while, but we are far from friends.

[diddyboponTOP]

My ex and I always joked she was a closeted bi sexual, but in reality she was 100% straight. We broke up when I started my transition, but that wasn't the only reason we broke up. We still chat once and a while, and see each other once and a while, but we are far from friends.

My ex was always Bi the night she met she told me I play with myself every night before bed while watching porn and it's usually lesbian porn, I started laugh and said I don't see myself as gay but I wack off to porn every night before bed too and it's usually tranny Porns, she looked shocked as Hell but didn't comment lol.
We had amazing sex but the age difference ruined it.
I met her on my 30th birthday, by then I had sowed my Oates totally there was nothing I had not done that was on my sexual bucket list many times over, I was now 100 percent faithful, I was done with 3somes 4somes moresomes orgies etc matter of fact I always preferred 1 on 1 but I was a sex addict for 19 years and obsessed with what I called my " numbers" I wanted to rack up as huge of a list of sexual partners as humanly possible which I achieved but not before realizing it was wrong and it ruined my life.
I should of had kids, stayed married or remarried by then and 20 years of that I started feeling like worthless skin, thought all I was good for was sex so anyway.
I was 30 had that disgusting past and she was 22 and while she has a good number of sexual experience for her age, I could tell she wanted more, she liked girls and asked for 3somes a few times I got irate said I want us to keep it faithful etc she didn't see it as cheating as I would be involved too, she was beautiful with an amazing body she wanted to strip she made great money bartending. I wasn't gonna go for the stripping. One I hated strippers then saw them as low class crawling around the floor for singles lol anyway I realized she just needed to check off her own bucket list, she was only 22 and I thought back to myself at that age how could I not let her have her fun or stand in the way of it.
Till this day I have never loved anyone that much she checked off her list and is doing great today. She is now 38, married with one son, she lives in a huge home in the sticks of NJ and was a PA for a few years.She was already in college when we met at least she stuck with it. Now she's a housewife cause she wants as much time with her boy and bartends a few blocks from her house a couple of nights a week to get out unwind and make some money of her own. It's a crowd of mostly 55 year olds and up so her husband has no worries of her getting with anyone else lol one thing about Lauren she likes em young, She was never with a girl older then 18 when we became friends again 11 years after splitting I was 41 and in a relationship with a 52 year old I usually like them older, she said Eeeeeewwwww grossss! Lolol Same ole Lauren. Men her cut off age was 35 but she loves her husband she been with him since a year after we broke up and he's older then me she's not happy about his age but she loves him they have a kid BUT if he gets comfy and gets out of shape she will be gone like the flash. Sometimes I hope it happens we are both very much alike and the age gap is no longer an issue so..... :)