Does your ass stretches over time after bottoming?

[Polloronco]

In other words, does it get less painful after a while?

[BostonBad]

Yes. 100%
Your body grows to accept it.
You have to relax too.
After 10-20 poundings you will be good.

[Lester316]

Not strictly true; you do get used to anything with practice but you don't "stretch" after repeated poundings as Boston has implied. If people did there would be a lot of incontinent porn stars out there.

If you train yourself with fingers, lube, toys and proper cleaning you will be all good. Also best to be relaxed and find a patient top for the first few times. You will get used to it but it's not like your ass is going to be naturally ready for immediate anal sex just because you've done it before.

Boston's description makes me more sure he has probably only ever thought about it.

[BostonBad]

Both are true. It's like breaking in an engine. More than one school of thought.

[Lester316]

If someone causes their ass to be permanently stretched because of... "10-20 poundings" they will need to see a doctor asap.

It is actually quite easy to cause micro tears or even worse fissures in your anus if you aren't super careful. These are an infection risk.

The only sensible way to do things is slowly and carefully until you know what you are doing. Even then best to start careful and slow.

[Ted54]

You don't stretch doing anal . The key is for the top to enter slowly and for the bottom to be relaxed and of course use lots of lube.
From my own experience being a bottom for several years the pain is less now because I know what to expect and enjoy being a bottom very much. There is some pressure as she enters and the head passes thru the sphincter but only lasts a few seconds.
So relax and enjoy.

[Laphroaig]

You don't stretch doing anal . The key is for the top to enter slowly and for the bottom to be relaxed and of course use lots of lube.
From my own experience being a bottom for several years the pain is less now because I know what to expect and enjoy being a bottom very much. There is some pressure as she enters and the head passes thru the sphincter but only lasts a few seconds.
So relax and enjoy.

Good advice.

Ps. Apologies for the downvote, hit the wrong button.

[Laphroaig]

Both are true. It's like breaking in an engine. More than one school of thought.

Please stop giving advice. You'll end up getting someone hurt.

[Murmdrum]

Please stop giving advice. You'll end up getting someone hurt.

all you need to to do is butt chug whiskey...it acts like a lube and also kills any STD's......(sarcasm)

[Lester316]

I dread to think of what the news report into the death of someone who takes all of Boston's advice would be like.

His comments need a disclaimer; "caution posted by idiot/fantasist".

[Murmdrum]

I dread to think of what the news report into the death of someone who takes all of Boston's advice would be like.

His comments need a disclaimer; "caution posted by idiot/fantasist".

there is no way he is for real...he has to be just some bored troll saying outrageous stuff

[BostonBad]

there is no way he is for real...he has to be just some bored troll saying outrageous stuff

Oh no, it's very real.

I am a proud ts semen swallower.

I do butt chugg. I have seen stars while getting fucked hard doggy style, after butt chugging Robitussin DM and a large glass of wine. The room was spinning I felt like I was shitting and cumin at the same time. Plus my head was numb.

[Lester316]

Oh no, it's very real.

I am a proud ts semen swallower.

I do butt chugg. I have seen stars while getting fucked hard doggy style, after butt chugging Robitussin DM and a large glass of wine. The room was spinning I felt like I was shitting and cumin at the same time. Plus my head was numb.

Methinks...

Something something protest too much and all that.

[Fitzcarraldo]

The room was spinning I felt like I was shitting and cumin at the same time. Plus my head was numb.

Gee, who wouldn't want that experience?

[Lester316]

Gee, who wouldn't want that experience?

In the end we will find out he smoked weed once in his life, watched some porn and had a bad burrito all in one night.

[Jericho]

Please stop giving advice. You'll end up getting someone hurt.

To be honest, I look at that like a 'darwin' thing!

[Laphroaig]

To be honest, I look at that like a 'darwin' thing!

True, anyone thick enough to follow BostonBad "advice" is even worse than he is.

[BostonBad]

True, anyone thick enough to follow BostonBad "advice" is even worse than he is.

Are you sure? Moderation is key. Eating a smaller portion of red meat 3x per month is healthy. Eating it everyday is bad.

There is an engineer/forex trader here that buttchuggs wine, coffee and tea. It's fairly common in medicinal communities.

I do not deal in forex but have been known to deal for a foreskin or two.

That's my "Art of the Deal"

If you want another state of bliss it's worth trying.

[Jericho]

True, anyone thick enough to follow BostonBad "advice" is even worse than he is.

I'd don't know about worse, but definitely as daft!
Oh well, they'll live and learn...Or not!

[Laphroaig]

Are you sure? Moderation is key. Eating a smaller portion of red meat 3x per month is healthy. Eating it everyday is bad.

There is an engineer/forex trader here that buttchuggs wine, coffee and tea. It's fairly common in medicinal communities.

I do not deal in forex but have been known to deal for a foreskin or two.

That's my "Art of the Deal"

If you want another state of bliss it's worth trying.

So, one other person on here butt chugs and that makes it OK? Just proves that intelligence and common sense often aren't linked.

As for quoting Trump, words fail me...

[BostonBad]

So, one other person on here butt chugs and that makes it OK? Just proves that intelligence and common sense often aren't linked.

As for quoting Trump, words fail me...

I'm sure there are more than 2 buttchuggers here

Why not start a poll?

[Gillian]

And in answer to the question "can my doctor tell that I've had anal sex", of course!! Heck, even his receptionist can tell just from the way you walk ... :D:D:D:D

[mrtrebus]

yes it will stretch. you may have to wear a nappy.

[Laphroaig]

I'm sure there are more than 2 buttchuggers here

Why not start a poll?

Once again you fail to comprehend the point being made...

[BostonBad]

Once again you fail to comprehend the point being made...
You fail to understand the point also.

Moderation and deference are key.

Swallowing ts semen carries risk but most guys here have done it. If you go to the extreme and swallow from every single ts within 200 miles from where u live, you will wind up sick.

Is semen good to eat? The scientific evidence shows YES! But we must use caution too. Just as we should with buttchugging.

Let me ask you, if you buttchugged two glasses of wine and 15 ccs of cough medicine would you die?

The answer is no. Could the sensation increase the fun of a ts experience? The answer is YES!

[Laphroaig]

You fail to understand the point also.

Moderation and deference are key.

Swallowing ts semen carries risk but most guys here have done it. If you go to the extreme and swallow from every single ts within 200 miles from where u live, you will wind up sick.

Is semen good to eat? The scientific evidence shows YES! But we must use caution too. Just as we should with buttchugging.


Once again you go off topic. I made no mention of semen. However, since it's been brought up now, where is all this scientific evidence?




Let me ask you, if you buttchugged two glasses of wine and 15 ccs of cough medicine would you die?

The answer is no.


I have no intention of finding out and maintain that anyone who does, no matter the frequency, is a moron.




Could the sensation increase the fun of a ts experience? The answer is YES!

No, not in the slightest. Just increases the risk in all kinds of ways. Plus, alcohol intoxication often leads to limp dick, which is no fun for anyone...

[Lester316]

I don't believe he's serious at all any more, Boston is trolling. It's thoroughly irresponsible as often people who have no real sexual experience come here to get ideas of how things work.

We just need to keep reminding them that he's most likely a lonely fantasist who hasn't sexaully interacted with real people so his advice is meaningless.

[BostonBad]

I don't believe he's serious at all any more, Boston is trolling. It's thoroughly irresponsible as often people who have no real sexual experience come here to get ideas of how things work.

We just need to keep reminding them that he's most likely a lonely fantasist who hasn't sexaully interacted with real people so his advice is meaningless.

Back when the escort pages were up I offered tips and advice thru experience. The nature of my comments showed that I'm an experienced man with fucking and swallowing hot ts semen loads.

Every local trusted my experience and comments. I have swallowed 200 plus loads easy.

[Lester316]

Back when the escort pages were up I offered tips and advice thru experience. The nature of my comments showed that I'm an experienced man with fucking and swallowing hot ts semen loads.

Every local trusted my experience and comments. I have swallowed 200 plus loads easy.

Sadly those pages no longer exist so we can't verify if you either posted or if anyone believed you..

[bastian]

I have been bottomed since i was 25-26 yrs old (since the late 80's), and im still kinda thight. I bet its different from person to person.

[holzz]

there's no evidence that anal sex fucks up the anus or rectum. yes, there are higher chances of STDs, but condoms and lube can reduce that.
i dont' get how it can happen though. unless one gets fucked so much that it causes nerve damage.

[BostonBad]

Seems like most people think there is a limited amount of stretching. I agree. If you are fucked regularly each time it's easier to get it in.

[Yasmin Lee Fan]

I started with my fingers , then , small dildo, large dildo. I guess there is some stretching involved, but I think it is mostly a mental thing. For me the key to pleasurable anal is that the tops know what they are doing and take their time. Cumming while getting fucked is an awesome experience.

[Ponyboy]

... . The key is for the top to enter slowly and for the bottom to be relaxed and of course use lots of lube.... .

I agree with Ted 54. If they enter you very very slowly it makes a big difference. My second relationship with a Tgirl was meant to be a D/s relationship where I was the s, but she was well hung and I couldnt take her. In fact it was torture which was heart breaking for me as I had developed strong emotions for her. I hated myself and was very jealous of women who had a vagina. But many years later, a man took me and he was even thicker, but he entered me very very slowly.... millimeter by millimeter. He was very patient but he got his reward (I was very tight for him). And he made me very happy knowing I could take big cocks!!!!!

[Ponyboy]

Oh no, it's very real.

I am a proud ts semen swallower.

I do butt chugg. I have seen stars while getting fucked hard doggy style, after butt chugging Robitussin DM and a large glass of wine. The room was spinning I felt like I was shitting and cumin at the same time. Plus my head was numb.

I understand what he means by shitting and cumin at the same time. When a cock in my ass has been too big I have felt a sensation similar to wanting to shit it out.

[filghy2]

I think it's more about learning to relax the sphincter muscle rather than stretching. There is a natural impulse to tighten up at first, which you have to learn to overcome.

[vastry]

You don't stretch doing anal . The key is for the top to enter slowly and for the bottom to be relaxed and of course use lots of lube.
From my own experience being a bottom for several years the pain is less now because I know what to expect and enjoy being a bottom very much. There is some pressure as she enters and the head passes thru the sphincter but only lasts a few seconds.
So relax and enjoy.

dont bottom often, but when I do, I choose a girl with a mid-size cock,,you feel instictively that taking a huge big dick up your asshole is not a good idea..
I

[Ponyboy]

I agree with Vastry that avoiding bigger cocks is a sure way to avoid the pain, but I have had people with smaller cocks ram it in and cause pain. If it is too big, you can just give them a blow job.

Another problem is you dont normally know the size of their cock until its naked in front of you. In some cases I never see their cock. That was the case of the man I mentioned above. To this day, I still havent seen his cock. He took me from behind, and I always check that they are wearing condoms so I put my hand behind my back to feel it and that is when i discovered how big it is.

Even before I had anal sex, I was attracted to long skinny cocks, and now I find that is the shape that I am sexually most compatible with (because skinny cocks cause less pain). I find that really interesting that I was naturally attracted to the best cock shape for me.

[BostonBad]

It's an amazing sensation. The room spinning, being drunk with a robo trip and feeling like you are shitting and cummin.

[BostonBad]

How does it not expand?

[FionaFortune]

As a continuous bottom for 20 plus years, I can assure you that the idea of getting buttfucked regularly will
cause incontinence, that idea is BS for the most part.

The one exception is if you tear the sphincter muscles, but even then the muscles will repair with the exception of nerve damage.

The muscles of the sphincter are like all the other muscles in the body. Regular stretching does not
weaken muscles, it actually helps and strengthens muscles. Think of ballet dancers and gymnasts,
the stretching they do increases strength and flexibility.

I like to concentrate on squeezing and relaxing my sphincter when getting fucked, I feel my muscles down there
are well developed. I can take both large and small cocks and give them both an amazing, tight fuck.

If you are inclined to bottom, go for it. Just take your time slowly increasing the sizes you take, and
concentrate on squeezing/relaxing. You will build strength and flexibility in those muscles all while
giving your partners an amazing time.

[Lorca81]

I agree with Vastry that avoiding bigger cocks is a sure way to avoid the pain, but I have had people with smaller cocks ram it in and cause pain. If it is too big, you can just give them a blow job.

This is very true. The worst experience I ever had bottoming was a quickie hookup with a trans girl packing less than 5”. She wanted to top, but didn’t really want to engage in foreplay. She rammed it in almost immediately and was very aggressive without any warm up. On the flip side, I regularly hooked up with verse trans girl for a year who was legitimately 8” and VERY girthy. I never really had any issues when she topped, because she was always slow and gentle for a few minutes before speeding up, going deep, etc.

[BostonBad]

This is very true. The worst experience I ever had bottoming was a quickie hookup with a trans girl packing less than 5”. She wanted to top, but didn’t really want to engage in foreplay. She rammed it in almost immediately and was very aggressive without any warm up. On the flip side, I regularly hooked up with verse trans girl for a year who was legitimately 8” and VERY girthy. I never really had any issues when she topped, because she was always slow and gentle for a few minutes before speeding up, going deep, etc.

I had a Brazilian girl packing 8 that was thick fondle me, did finger foreplay then fucked me. There was slight pain going in for a moment but once it was in it was pure pleasure.

I had an Asian girl (my 1st) smash me while I was unknowingly fucked up. My blood was the lube.
She was hard on me and wanted to hurt me on purpose because she was popping my cherry.

I found the size matters less, it's what is done before that matters more.

That said. IMO an asshole is a bit looser after getting fucked. You compensate for it but it's still a little different.

[BostonBad]

I started with my fingers , then , small dildo, large dildo. I guess there is some stretching involved, but I think it is mostly a mental thing. For me the key to pleasurable anal is that the tops know what they are doing and take their time. Cumming while getting fucked is an awesome experience.

I want that.

[sd123223]

I want that.
Does stroking your cock well being fucked assist with the pain? Or is this a simple jedi mind trick?

[BostonBad]

Does stroking your cock well being fucked assist with the pain? Or is this a simple jedi mind trick?

Yes it does and nipple clamps that create moderate pain. It creates feel good chemicals in your brain (jerking off) and the clamps create pain elsewhere 2 help u tolerate the anal pain.