Being outed/exposed

[Bestloverleo]

Hey guys

Old user here coming back to hung angels, damn why did I ever stop using this forum, is sooo good, anyway,

I'm just wondering if anyone have the same "fantasy" or kink that I have.

I've been meeting trans girls for around 15 years and I'm lucky enough to have met some of the most beautiful trans girls during these years and I'm open about it to some family members and some friends but not to everyone in my life and my absolute biggest kinks is always been being "outed" by a trans girl on my facebook or something like that.

It gives me a extreme deliciously heart rush when I think about some tg going and telling everyone that I'm a big cock sucker, maybe even showing them private messages and incriminating pictures.

I can't explain why, I just love the idea of some girl taking that decision for me and going ahead with it even without my consent (even tho I'd probably have to tell them about this kink before they get interested in doing it)

It did happen 2 times but I freaked out and asked them to stop and they did but deep inside I wish they didn't

What you guys think about all this? Anyone ever felt the same way?

Cheers

[Bestloverleo]

Shitty post? ��

[Jackal]

I've been turned on by erotic humiliation or, at least the idea of it, but more about a woman telling me how I'm not good enough or something like that. I get the appeal, though.

[LilyRox]

I never heard of this before. When I told a guy how I came out as trans to friends he told me he also "came out" to his friends about liking trans, but I don't get it. Its not gay to like trans and trans women like straight guys so I don't know why guys are ashamed of people knowing, they shouldn't have to say anything and just live their life. It kind of ticked me off that he put himself into a similar boat as me.

If you can't get past people knowing you're dating someone trans, it isn't for you even if they're passable. Its not really about being passable or not, its about acceptance because no one is passable forever and why would a trans woman want to date someone that won't accept her in the future.

Porn and escorts do anything you want. Hide it and kiss your wife at night, but if you want a real relationship there should be no hesitation or its not for you.

[Nick Danger]

Shitty post? ��

Grammar's not bad, spelling either. Post seems to consist of a long-considered thought, explained cogently and thoroughly. So no, not too shitty.

But regarding your question, which by reading between the lines, I'm deducing is actually, "Am I weird?" the answer is yes, weird AF. However, as a Nobel Prize-eligible amateur psychologist, I think I can help you.

Either you are a masochist, or a milquetoast. If getting outed will likely cause you practical problems or emotional pain, then you're a masochist. Never understood masochists, but there are plenty of them and you're not alone by any means. The root of masochism is essentially low self-esteem, i.e., you don't feel you deserve any pleasure because you think you are a terrible person, but receiving pain temporarily levels the playing field for you and allows you to feel some pleasure as payment for tolerating the pain.

If you want to get outed simply because it would be easier than outing yourself, then you're a milquetoast, AKA a lowly coward.

Either way you've got some kind of deep-rooted psychological thing happening there, and as a Nobel-eligible brain-fucking dilettante, I recommend smoking a lot of marijuana and telling everyone you know that you are a peter-puffing booty bandit.

[BlüeKarma]

That's some next level psychoanalysis, don't forget to bill him for that, lol. :razz:

[smoothboi]

One of my friends found out because he's a nosy bitch and found my trans porn on my hard drive, but he didn't care. Since I've moved, I've been to fetlife munches, so they know.

[Jackal]

One of my friends found out because he's a nosy bitch and found my trans porn on my hard drive, but he didn't care. Since I've moved, I've been to fetlife munches, so they know.

Munches?

[LilyRox]

Munches?

Its a gathering of people tied to a specific kink, typically dining together. For instance someone holding a local event dinner party for everyone that has a Daddy/LG fetish (or in his case TS related I'm guessing). Its considered an adult environment, but is normally just talking.

[smoothboi]

Ours are just fetlife members so there's a wide interest in lots of different things.

[Bestloverleo]

Lily rox

Is not really about coming out, people knew when I was dating a trans girl and I would never be ashamed of trans girls.

Is more about my kinky side that I would like to be "outed" for, maybe you could help? Lol

[LilyRox]

Lily rox

Is not really about coming out, people knew when I was dating a trans girl and I would never be ashamed of trans girls.

Is more about my kinky side that I would like to be "outed" for, maybe you could help? Lol

Be careful what you wish for

[Bestloverleo]

I wish you would do it to me lol

Why?