What are somethings you've learned as a result of your tgirl journey?

[Rasclaat]

It can be about anything, psychology, people in general, penis size whatever. Liking T girls is most definitely a journey and good learning experience.

[Murmdrum]

definitely shave 3-4" off whatever a girl ( 90% of them) tells you her penis size is

[ilove2swallow]

that i love penis

[Cereal Escapist]

1. even in a sub-niche of porn united by a particular thing, there is still a tremendous amount of division. consensus just isn't possible.

2. my standards of beauty differ substantially for cisgender and transgender women.

3. the asshole is the most glorious orifice on a woman's body

4. i spend too much $ on porn but I don't regret any of it.

5. i'm really REALLY socially liberal but absolutely fiscally conservative which is why I looked at converting all my bathrooms at my offices to be gender neutral as both the right decision for my company AND bottom line.

[Rasclaat]

Personally what I've learned is penis size is more related to body fat than anything.

its incredible how specific the attraction, I can look at a naked transgirl pre transition and not be attracted at all and once a girl starts the transition its like magic

And at this point no matter how much I love transgirl I probably will never be open about to my family and friends but who knows maybe things will change

[skribble1]

I've only met two in real life so it may not be a fair assessment. Both were young and hot. Seemed normal enough but very quickly learned how mentally unstable they were. The fantasy is always better than reality I guess.

[Cereal Escapist]

that i love penis

about cock
i realized that i don't like cock as much as i initially thought i would when i got into tgirl porn but i also realized that i don't mind uncut girls as much as i thought i would.

another physical thing. Boobs: i have realized over time that though big boobs are still very important to me, a-cup cuties are definitely not to be dismissed.

[Rasclaat]

I've only met two in real life so it may not be a fair assessment. Both were young and hot. Seemed normal enough but very quickly learned how mentally unstable they were. The fantasy is always better than reality I guess.

This one can be very true, I was a little naive at first and didn't realize the mental struggles they have to go through. The thought of "they look like girls, they're less crazy than ggs and horny like men" is non-sense. And if you're looking for a relationship due to ease and less drama is out of their mind. It's the exact same as dating a woman if not occasionally worse because there is greater social burdens on them.

[alcoolsrimbood]

I was a teenage rakehill....ive had sex with more than a 100 tgirls over 25 years of mongering.in those years ive tried to have a few long term relationships with the girls.my first tgirl I ended up having a drama ridden relationship for 2 years..i also was practically married to another one for 5 years.i even took her to marriage counseling to try to work through some of our problems...as rasclaat has spoken above-the social aspects and upbringing of tgirls affects much of their lives in the present.the horrors ive seen and known...and psychological defenses are very high with some of these girls..another thing is how the girls who have gone straight from a tough high school existence into the world of escorting can be very emotionally detached and might never know how to have the skills or experience necessary to have a relationship(especially when they get older and the coins are drying out)..I have also met some very sensivtive and very feminine girls who just wished for a boyfriend or man but due to peoples misconceptions of tgirls can never seem to stay in relationships....lastly...the myth that tgirls give better head than cis gender females is not true...it all depends on the persons enthusiasm and skill in that endeavor...1071530

[crazyeditor]

1) I really like sucking Tgirl cock, and swallowing cum
2) All the transgirls I have met are escorts, and they all have quirky personalities
3) I like eating a nice feminine Tgirl ass and creampies
4) I havent found one that is sane sexy and smart, but if I do I would stay with her (not sure I will ever marry again, period, I'm 61. Whats the point?)

[SanDiegoPervySage]

I'll slut around with them like I will with cis women

[dirtrail]

Like someone mentioned earlier, trans girls can be just as emotional as ggirls. Some, not all of course.

I find that it’s very exciting for transgirls to see that a srt8/cis male is attracted to them. I in turn feed on this and it makes for some passionate hot sex, lol

[nowornever]

Discovered this world rather late in life was over 50 before I even entertained visiting a trans girl and i had great reservations has to how I would be in a real encounter . Only seen escorts myself no relationships which would be a whole different "ball game" excuse the pun.
not seen that many ladies but the ones I have ,have been some of the sweetest human beings I have ever met period yes they take my money even so I have met some really lovely girls and even managed to fall hopelessly in love with one them alas the feeling was not mutual.
Would I marry a T girl yep in a flash.
Give me a beach in Samui and a beautiful Thai T girl that I could bang senseless every day and that be me in heaven.
NON

[dickten]

Pretty funny, no responses at all from the fairer side of the sexes? Just us boys chatting? Mostly us posting pics, but this a unique thread... HA is changing in lots of ways, things are evolving these days and the love we have for these ladies is just going mainstream. In a way I miss the taboo lust of the old days, finding and seeking these beauties were a conquest for me, and the hunt thrilled me. Now it's so easy to meet someone. My current relationship started In a hair salon. I spied her one day cutting hair and the girls gossiped to me about her status. I'm not the most handesome or the youngest guy around, but everyone buzzed when I asked her out to dinner and she said yes. She is much younger than me and one of the things I find interesting about her is that she seems to have no hang ups with guys and does not seem to challenge why I want to be with her, other than the fact that she knows she's exquisite and intelligent and why wouldn't I want her? Time Will tell, but times are a changing and slowly for the better.

[CoolAwesomeBXDude]

That the grass ain't always greener

[Rasclaat]

All very interesting responses, whether it was predicted or not I have a lot of shared experiences

[BostonBad]

Some are very caring and want to be happy. I feel bad for their struggles. I love to massage ts women so they feel special and loved.

[Wendy Summers]

That all the angst I had over transitioning before I transitioned was pointless. My life has improved in all areas and at comparatively little cost.

[Gillian]

Perhaps I'm fortunate in that I was late to the party and the situation for trans people is an improving one. There's still a long way to go, particularly in the workplace, but we are much more accepted now than ever before.

It's not for me to say how passable I am, but certainly I've never had any grief from anyone when I've been out and about. My guess is people are a lot less interested than we perhaps think they are ... ;)

[skribble1]

The thought of "they look like girls, they're less crazy than ggs and horny like men" is non-sense.

Sadly, I was hoping this. Probably what was most frustrating aside from the manic moods was nothing felt natural, it never felt like I was interacting with a real girl, but someone trying to mimic the behaviors of one.

[alcoolsrimbood]

Sadly, I was hoping this. Probably what was most frustrating aside from the manic moods was nothing felt natural, it never felt like I was interacting with a real girl, but someone trying to mimic the behaviors of one.

there is a "tool use methodology"(pun intended) to their female behaviours at times...versus a simply intuitive move...

[Stavros]

If I have learned anything it is not in fact about gender or sexuality, but that I am not very good at relationships, even though as a man I am not supposed to admit this. Although humans find company the most natural and delightful thing it is a pity more do not accept that they do not make good partners, as it may spare relationships a lot of grief, and in some cases, violence and death.

The fact is that a lot of people have a need for sex that a partnership cannot satisfy on its own, so why make a commitment that cannot be kept? If partners are satisfied with each other, great, but let us not pretend that there is some elevated moral stature to marriage compared to being single, and let us also accept that in spite of insatiable sexual needs, a lot of people are actually not very good at sex itself though few people will admit this. Time and again in the now defunct Escort Reviews section I wondered if a bad review was not about 'chemistry' or attitude, but technique, because as with relationships in general, people are reluctant to talk openly about how they engage in sex and what gives them the most pleasure and whether or not this matches the needs of their partner.
But in order to find out what gives the greatest pleasure, a diverse range of actions and positions should be tried out and I do wonder how many people experiment with sex, or go through life using a basic: stroke-blow-insert routine; when there are alternative paths to fulfillment. Some men discover early on or later in life that they need some form of BDSM to reach fulfillment, others hate it, but unless we try these different techniques, how can we know?

I wonder if people assume transgendered people are more adventurous, more experimental, that by definition to be transgendered is to be 'kinky' when in reality most transgendered people, including the porn stars, are not kinky at all depending on how that is defined.

Perhaps at the end of the journey we only know what we have experienced, and that it is not the whole of the truth.