Why don't more girls post here?

[suckseed]

I'm just curious. Its seems like a pretty good promotional thing.
Has anyone any firsthand accounts as to why not?

[peggygee]

I'm just curious. Its seems like a pretty good promotional thing.
Has anyone any firsthand accounts as to why not?

And that's another thing while you got me over here, PMSing, nauseous from Estrogen, hair half up in rollers, in my nightgown, and fuzzy slippers. :evil:

Unless y'all want a 'sausage fest' over here, ya need to make it more women friendly.

'Gentleman', not everything g-damn post needs to be about T &C & A, and sometimes V. And identifying women like you were the FBI seeking wanted fugitives.

I know y'all got your brandy snifters, your cigars, and your smoking jackets on, looking like the 'poor mans Hugh Hefner'.

You've sent the 'women' folk off to the kitchen or the bedroom, to wait for your call.

You guys keep it up like this, and you will be in here by yourself, with the lotion, and Myrna and her four sisters :jerkoff

You say,you want to meet women, but you huddle together like boys in the 3rd grade :grouphug

I am going to go now , cause I am starting to cramp, and when I cramp I get even more witchy :frustrated

And stay on your side of the bed, matter fact go sleep on the couch :angry

LOL

Brutal!

[AllanahStarrNYC]

Work it out Peggy- u turned it.

[suckseed]

I remember many girls being driven away a couple of years ago, and was pm'd this evening by a member who left for that very reason. She told me that it's her impression that many men here don't want girls around.
You know, I've been guilty of saying some things here that two years (or two hours) later I wish I hadn't said. One example: I remember saying that Allanah 'looked scary' once. I meant her expression, but I think it probably offended her, and I regret saying it.
I'm not trying to kiss ass here. I'll more than likely never meet anyone here. But over the years this forum, which I discovered on a porn hunt, has evolved from a place to get pages of pic threads to a place to read and write opinions about sex. And I think it would be better if people acted a little more like they would if we were talking face to face, particularly in terms of not attacking people for their appearance.
I'll tell you what I think it is - it's guys giving back to women whatever they got from someone else, even harsher because it's anonymous and because it's frustrating to deal with relationships in the first place. It's not easy being anybody nowadays. And it's true that it seems like it must be easier being the hot chick sometimes. I've often, without having firsthand experience, felt like for some people here life's a big party and that must be nice for you.
Anyway, assuming more women would be welcome, I'd guess that being a bit more respectful - like you would if you had a girl on here you know reads what you write - would be a good thing. I know this is a porn forum - let's not break out the heartbreak music - but c'mon. Think of some woman you work with that's not pinup material but is cool as hell. Think about how you'd feel if you heard some guy call her a pig or what have you.
I have exchanged quite a few thoughts with a former member here. She's been really cool to me in spite of me saying some things that I now see were pretty ignorant. Plus she's gorgeous. And no, she's not an escort or in porn. But she got treated pretty rough here. If this was a club, and she were my sister, I'd be in some people's face if they said what they said and I was around. That's one thing I really don't get - bagging on someone who looks damn pretty.

[Legend]

I'm just curious. Its seems like a pretty good promotional thing.
Has anyone any firsthand accounts as to why not?

And that's another thing while you got me over here, PMSing, nauseous from Estrogen, hair half up in rollers, in my nightgown, and fuzzy slippers. :evil:

Unless y'all want a 'sausage fest' over here, ya need to make it more women friendly.

'Gentleman', not everything g-damn post needs to be about T &C & A, and sometimes V. And identifying women like you were the FBI seeking wanted fugitives.

I know y'all got your brandy snifters, your cigars, and your smoking jackets on, looking like the 'poor mans Hugh Hefner'.

You've sent the 'women' folk off to the kitchen or the bedroom, to wait for your call.

You guys keep it up like this, and you will be in here by yourself, with the lotion, and Myrna and her four sisters :jerkoff

You say,you want to meet women, but you huddle together like boys in the 3rd grade :grouphug

I am going to go now , cause I am starting to cramp, and when I cramp I get even more witchy :frustrated

And stay on your side of the bed, matter fact go sleep on the couch :angry
http://i48.photobucket.com/albums/f210/JayStrong/pwned.jpg

[suckseed]

Legend, in case you couldn't figure it out - me and peggygee are on the same side of this. At least I think we are! Hmmm....

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

LOL@You guys keep it up like this, and you will be in here by yourself, with the lotion, and Myrna and her four sisters :lol:

http://members.aol.com/okkep/truth.gif

~Kisses.

HTG

[Dkg]

I think thats one of the things that makes this board special, is that the girls are actually involved and its not just a complete sausage fest....(well, I guess it still is either way :P ) If you girls left I have to think Id probably be gone as well.

[peggygee]

I remember many girls being driven away a couple of years ago, and was pm'd this evening by a member who left for that very reason. She told me that it's her impression that many men here don't want girls around.
You know, I've been guilty of saying some things here that two years (or two hours) later I wish I hadn't said. One example: I remember saying that Allanah 'looked scary' once. I meant her expression, but I think it probably offended her, and I regret saying it.
I'm not trying to kiss ass here. I'll more than likely never meet anyone here. But over the years this forum, which I discovered on a porn hunt, has evolved from a place to get pages of pic threads to a place to read and write opinions about sex. And I think it would be better if people acted a little more like they would if we were talking face to face, particularly in terms of not attacking people for their appearance.
I'll tell you what I think it is - it's guys giving back to women whatever they got from someone else, even harsher because it's anonymous and because it's frustrating to deal with relationships in the first place. It's not easy being anybody nowadays. And it's true that it seems like it must be easier being the hot chick sometimes. I've often, without having firsthand experience, felt like for some people here life's a big party and that must be nice for you.
Anyway, assuming more women would be welcome, I'd guess that being a bit more respectful - like you would if you had a girl on here you know reads what you write - would be a good thing. I know this is a porn forum - let's not break out the heartbreak music - but c'mon. Think of some woman you work with that's not pinup material but is cool as hell. Think about how you'd feel if you heard some guy call her a pig or what have you.
I have exchanged quite a few thoughts with a former member here. She's been really cool to me in spite of me saying some things that I now see were pretty ignorant. Plus she's gorgeous. And no, she's not an escort or in porn. But she got treated pretty rough here. If this was a club, and she were my sister, I'd be in some people's face if they said what they said and I was around. That's one thing I really don't get - bagging on someone who looks damn pretty.


I would like to thank my Sisters and the GENTLEMEN, who have responded so far with words of encouragement. 8)

When one makes a post, you never know how it will be perceived on the other end. It is not quite like face to face communication.

That's why when I post I wear asbestos underwear, and a Kevlar bullet proof vest. For the potential flaming and the bullets.

In real life, I have a security detail to keep the 'haters' at bay.
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/myspaceluzcrop.jpg

Suckseed, I believe you are right about two things:

1. If this were the real world, this behavior would not be tolerated.

2. Though our approaches, may differ, I believe we are seeking the same goal. Better understanding, respect and harmony between the genders.

Again if this were the real world, and people weren't hiding in cyber space, behind facades, personas, and screen names, they would not dare act in this manner.

If they did the consequences would be dire.

I am not going to get too longwinded with this, but Iwill say, have worked too long and hard to be who I am and, where I am, to accept disrespect.

This goes for my Sisters as well, I can not, nor will I, sit idley by and watch them be dis-respected.

For those of you, who like to grab the boxes of popcorn :popcorn , I suggest you do so now, and get a front row seat.

Because, it is about to get interesting.

[TheOne1]

the real reason is that the girls are prolly gettin laid right now, while u on here posting and playin with yoself... :twisted:

[RawNY]

Yes,
There was a time, not too long ago, when more Transgender women were in here and participated in the dialogue, such as it can be called that.
Bottom line for me is that most of the men will only look at a thread which has photos or videos.
Their posts are usually confined to sentences like "I would fuck her," "What a great cock " "do you know where I can contact her" and the like. Discussions of life style and gender issues are not very high on the list. I know for a fact that there are numerous websites and forums where people who are actually interested in such topics can go and have meaningful discussions.
Let's keep our perspective. This is the Internet. Anyone who wants to put himself or "Herself" out there for public consumption should be prepared to take the good with the bad. I have commented before, in other threads that it makes me angry when guys drool over pictures which contain images which are not in the least flattering. And don't tell me about different tastes, you all know what I am talking about.
The reason some of the girls left is because two or three of the guys (and most of us know who they were) just became nasty and engaged them in personal battles which just should have been ignored.
I have enjoyed the site and commenting here. However, anyone who does not view it as anything more than a porn site or a place to advertise Transsexual events, escorts, movies, etc., is fool themselves.
I have been to two parties (one good one terrible) and have purchased some of the videos so I have made use of what there is too offer. But, lets call a spade a spade.
Ps Please don't call me names and try to engage me in debate. I am not going to engage is childish rhetoric.
Peace

[RawNY]

Yes,
There was a time, not too long ago, when more Transgender women were in here and participated in the dialogue, such as it can be called that.
Bottom line for me is that most of the men will only look at a thread which has photos or videos.
Their posts are usually confined to sentences like "I would fuck her," "What a great cock " "do you know where I can contact her" and the like. Discussions of life style and gender issues are not very high on the list. I know for a fact that there are numerous websites and forums where people who are actually interested in such topics can go and have meaningful discussions.
Let's keep our perspective. This is the Internet. Anyone who wants to put himself or "Herself" out there for public consumption should be prepared to take the good with the bad. I have commented before, in other threads that it makes me angry when guys drool over pictures which contain images which are not in the least flattering. And don't tell me about different tastes, you all know what I am talking about.
The reason some of the girls left is because two or three of the guys (and most of us know who they were) just became nasty and engaged them in personal battles which just should have been ignored.
I have enjoyed the site and commenting here. However, anyone who does not view it as anything more than a porn site or a place to advertise Transsexual events, escorts, movies, etc., is fool themselves.
I have been to two parties (one good one terrible) and have purchased some of the videos so I have made use of what there is too offer. But, lets call a spade a spade.
Ps Please don't call me names and try to engage me in debate. I am not going to engage is childish rhetoric.
Peace

[TheOne1]

like you said Arielle.. this isn't the real world on here... you all sound like preachers on the subway.... i think its time to realize that this is just one big advertisement on here.. isnt that why you post your pix, and your escort links anyway?

[TheOne1]

this is as good as it can get here.

[irish_rose]

I am a girl and I am posting here, for quite a while now. What the fuck more do you want?

[suckseed]

For one, I don't buy that the board 'is what it is'. The board is what we make it. And there've been a lot of great discussions here. PLUS porn! Great! Sometimes I want to talk, sometimes I want to read, sometimes I want to get off. There are more porn sites out there than anybody could ever find. There are very few good forums. When the women were checking in regularly, I thought it was great. Who would you rather be reading right now? My opinions, or, say, Victoria/Miriam's? Or Joanna Jet's? Or Gia Darling's? Or some woman who isn't famous but has some insights you might want to read? I'm just one guy with very little firsthand experience.

For two, who says you've got to treat women in porn with disrespect? The attitude of, "Fuck it, she's a ho" is really childish. It's like some guys think you're either 'showing her who's in charge', or you're being her bitch. Well, I don't want to be above or below a woman. Either one gets old quick. I want to be equals. I want to know more about what they think, which will help make me a man they like to be around.

[tranny_hunter]

I am a girl and I am posting here, for quite a while now. What the fuck more do you want?Congrats to you, "sister", but I want basic respect. If I lashed out at you right now for being a moron, there would be an adult way and an immature way to go about it, right? So please don't tell me that you don't mind when immature people fuck with you, because I don't believe it for a second. And where is your avatar pic anyway? Don't be an armchair critic.

Can't we all just get along? I wish there were a way for me to put a band aid over all the mental wounds of trannies because thats what I think is going on here. It'll be different if you didn't post here Arinna, hun. I mean if you really just didnt care and stopped posting but obviously you care and want to be a part of this online forum so don't even worry about haters. People are gonna hate, they hate on Michael Jordan as a basketball player and he was close to basketball perfection. Just have fun and don't worry about it. That's the way I live my life.

[suckseed]

Hey, Arianna, on the DeviantArt site....is that your artwork, or art you like?
Because that's some kickass stuff.

[tranny_hunter]

It'll be different if you didn't post here Arinna, hun. I mean if you really just didnt care and stopped posting but obviously you care and want to be a part of this online forum so don't even worry about haters.Then that's the real answer? TS really don't belong here? We should just promote our stuff and stfu? Be seen and not heard? Well, fuck that noise. The mods need to moderate. See how much more you'd get to talk to your favorite TS porn stars if they did.

I really meant self moderation, in the sense of ignoring fucktards who annoy you. By not paying attention their posts but you may have a valid point about a more hands on moderator because some people post negative responses just to get arise out of someone. I dont check here a lot and have never logged on under this name, the only other name I used was bigd321 and I missed the massive exodus of the girls I guess.

[suckseed]

I say, "the hell with that." I wasn't actually online at the time the big exodus happened, but I was here before when there were more women here. Had I been here then, I would have attempted to help. I hate bullies, and get special pleasure out of torturing them. Anybody who fucks with the women on this forum now better open wide for a shit sandwich. And I hope I get some backup from people who also are sick of the assholes. What's that saying? 'All that's necessary for evil to triumph is for good people to do nothing'?

[TomSelis]

I'm not sure why HA gets a bad rep, I think it's a word of mouth thing. The way I see it, one or two trolls on a board isn't a bad thing. There are some boards with dozens!

Anytime a girl posts her pictures, she always gets a lot of respect and admiration. Whenever a girl asks a question about something, they get tons of responses. Some of them are very well written and thought out and some of them are just plain stupid. Again, it's the same on every board you go to.

What I have noticed is that some girls catch a lot of flack. Again, not sure why this is, but I have a feeling that some things are said that shouldn't be said.

Sometimes people have a tendency to say things that are really out there and when they get jumped on, who's fault is that really? I've seen guys do that and girls do it too. Then the responses are less than kind, sometimes, rightfully so.

Another thing is....this is a porn board. Yeah it has some other topics, but the hottest board is the one with the porn. Any porn board you go to has a majority of guys and a few girls, any one. That's just the way it is. There's been some attempts at more female oriented boards, but to me, the topics are just as innane as the ones on here.

The last thing is some of the girls I've talked to seem to feel that this board is filled with loser type tranny chasers that slam girls all day. The guys I've met are decent, fun loving guys with good heads on their shoulders. Are there some assholes? Sure. I've never met one in person from here though. Maybe because the TS community is so small, one girl gets slammed, for whatever reason, perceptions get skewed and HA becomes a bad place for TGs....then that spreads.

That's just the way I see it.

[TomSelis]

Ari, I need some kind of example of harsh treatment. Because I haven't really seen any. All of the girls you mentioned get treated with the utmost respect here.

[BeardedOne]

And I think it would be better if people acted a little more like they would if we were talking face to face,

Though I may run off at the mouth quite a bit (Or fingertips, as it were), I tend to operate on the assumption that I will meet who I'm talking to/about face-to-face someday. I've been slapped, it ain't fun, I try not to inspire it.


I do know what Hingshing, DKG, Bearded One, Seanchi, etc look like.

*Shreik!* My dreams of a political empire are crushed! Wait...Do you have a blue dress? :lol:


I'm not sure why HA gets a bad rep, I think it's a word of mouth thing.

I have oft heard it referred to as "The Locker Room" and must admit that there are times when I can hear the towels snapping.


What I have noticed is that some girls catch a lot of flack. Again, not sure why this is, but I have a feeling that some things are said that shouldn't be said.

It's not often that I will badmouth someone, but when I do it is (In my reality, anyway) justified. I've yet to commit this sin on HA (Or any of the TG/TS forums) as the gurls (And most others) have generally treated me fairly and responded to me with some modicum of respect. Do unto others, what goes around comes around, blah, blah, blah. Cliche' as it may sound, it works rather well.


Intelligent, respectful, guys are few and far between.

Ooh! Ooh! Am I one of those? :shock: I try to be, and some see me thusly, but there are times that these traits go unrecognized (And, yah, I am a "cock bandit", but I have the manners to ask before I suck). I understand that the gurls get a lot of PMs from trolls, but there are the occasional jewels buried in the manure. Patience is a virtue, and though we really don't expect you to be virtuous (Hell, =WE= sure as hell aren't!), the patience can sometimes be rewarding (And thanks to all those that exercise it. :D )

Hunh. Should I post the soapbox of the banana dance? Both! :soapbox :peanutbutter

[BeardedOne]

Hey, "Joe Lunchbox"! :lol:


Ari, I need some kind of example of harsh treatment. Because I haven't really seen any. All of the girls you mentioned get treated with the utmost respect here.

Sadly, I have seen it. The one at the top of my brain is the recent thread where Yasmine vented about the guy that scammed her and stole her stash. A bunch of jock yahoos jumped on and played the "Yeah, so what? You're a whore and deserve to get ripped off!" shit.

Though she did get some sympathy and good advice from guys and gurls alike, there were a significant number of posts that did no less than kick in her virtual teeth. The fact that she perseveres (Sp?) and continues to post here after such abuse sez volumes of her character as a person.

If you don't like dick, you shouldn't be here. If you don't like escorts ("Whores"), you shouldn't be here. If you can't treat someone with some basic respect, either STFU or go elsewhere.

:soapbox

[suckseed]

I vote for a citizen's brigade!

[WendyWilliams]

Im attacked all the time I just stay to annoy my hate fan club LOL


Overall Ive had an o.k experience here and met some great people.

Wendy

[TomSelis]

Yeah, ok, those things happend. Still, it's not like the whole board jumped on them. It was like two guys, whose names I can't even remember, probably because they probably stopped posting. As usual, most guys rushed to the girls' aid and it was over. So some people decide not to post here because of one or two guys, when MOST guys defend them? Uh-uh.

Like I said before, the internet makes people bold enough to say some things they wouldn't say in person. How does this equate to "The guys on HA...." anything? Personally, I get miffed when I get grouped in with a bunch of mongs, especially when I'm not a mong and some of the guys I've met here aren't mongs either.

I'm still not seeing it. Glass half empty. Seeing the bad side and paying lip service to the good, but no heed.

[TomSelis]

I guess you didn't read what I wrote.

[AllanahStarrNYC]

First of all- I think this generally will be a mostly male forum because the largest consumers of porn and transsexual material are of course male. And this is an adult oriented board, though ever since I have been here every subject I can think of has been discussed.

I have been attacked on here, called names, cursed at, called plastic & fake, etc. etc. Against popular belief- I do not own HA. I have never made an exodus or a dramatic depart because I know that the amount of positivity for me has been greater than the negativy. Yes, I have a lot to promote and that is why I am here as well. But I have posted and talked about many subjects that have not been buisness related.

There is a certain amount of disrespect that some guys have shown to the girls, or some girls in general. The recent post about post ops comes to mind. Which in my view, was very insensitive and inaccurate.

I have had my public feuds with some, which have been resolved. And there are a heck of a lot of people that I may not find attractive or not like on here, or agree - but I do my best to keep it at bay and be non confrontational about certain issues. Yet,I still am very opiniated and speak my mind on many subjects.

A LOT MORE GURLS LURK AROUND HERE THAN YOU THINK. And I can assure you, ALL of the girls who have left still watch.

I for one am not leaving and am sticking around. HA has been very good to me, and I think I have been very good to HA. Some few bumps in the road, but those are always to be expected.

[TomSelis]

First of all- I think this generally will be a mostly male forum because the largest consumers of porn and transsexual material are of course male. And this is an adult oriented board, though ever since I have been here every subject I can think of has been discussed.

I have been attacked on here, called names, cursed at, called plastic & fake, etc. etc. Against popular belief- I do not own HA. I have never made an exodus or a dramatic depart because I know that the amount of positivity for me has been greater than the negativy. Yes, I have a lot to promote and that is why I am here as well. But I have posted and talked about many subjects that have not been buisness related.

There is a certain amount of disrespect that some guys have shown to the girls, or some girls in general. The recent post about post ops comes to mind. Which in my view, was very insensitive and inaccurate.

I have had my public feuds with some, which have been resolved. And there are a heck of a lot of people that I may not find attractive or not like on here, or agree - but I do my best to keep it at bay and be non confrontational about certain issues. Yet,I still am very opiniated and speak my mind on many subjects.

A LOT MORE GURLS LURK AROUND HERE THAN YOU THINK. And I can assure you, ALL of the girls who have left still watch.

I for one am not leaving and am sticking around. HA has been very good to me, and I think I have been very good to HA. Some few bumps in the road, but those are always to be expected.

Thank you, Allanah. :wink:

[AllanahStarrNYC]

You sho' did! What;s up with that! ;)

[RangeHova]

... in all honesty; do you think, say, Playboy playmates would get this kind of treatment on a PB forum?

GREAT example. I think HA would be better served if the haters were spanked more by the mods. I think the girls really help keep this MORE than just a place a porn site.

Not just here, but haters can drag any discussion down to such low levels. That negativity makes it hard for any kind of thinking on most discussion boards. When mods make it harder for those who want to hide behind the internet to just shit on others you get a better board overall in my opinion.

Don't get me wrong, I love the porn but I think we all can benefit from the times where we go deeper. I'm sure most guys here just don't want to go beyond looking at pictures and getting turned on, other may entertain the idea of paying a roll in the sack with a girl ever now and then. And there are some that have been or will be in relationshipss with a girl or girls.

I have been around the T world since before I could get in a nightclub legally. I have made many close friends in this world yet it is still hard to find like minded folks (other guys) just to share elements of this life, this attraction, relationships, funny stories, etc. Even though such talk can be few and far between here, I have found HA to be a good place for that interaction. Even with the friends that I have who know of my attraction I don't get that mutial understanding (when we talk about it thay are all about asking me questions). I get something from sharing with another guy who has walked my path or even one that hopes to someday in the future.

Hey maybe a porn site isn't the idea place to go for discussion of this matter but I'll go where I can find it.

[TomSelis]

A-ight I fixed it just for you, Allanah!

You are saying exactly the same thing I was saying. I see this board as being very complimentary to the girls. There are some instances of some guys being assholes, can't deny that. They don't outweigh the amount of positivity that guys give the girls here, doesn't come anywhere near.

I really don't see how painting the board with a broad brush of any kind as constructive in any way. That's seeing the "glass half empty." As diverse as this community is, you are going to have some negativity in there every once in a while. There's TV's, TS's, CD's that come here. There's Tops, Bottoms, Versatile, curious guys, etc. It's not fair to say this board is one of anything. People come from all walks of life here. To say, "Guys on HA are rude to girls" or "HA is a locker room" just isn't accurate to me.

And just for FYI, Playboy doesn't have a forum like this. Hmmm, wonder why?

[hondarobot]

Holy crap, I just got drunk off my ass with two very rich gay guys.

Didn't do me any good (but they are nice guys), and they are not giving any money to me, regardless of the purpose.

What the hell were we talking about here? Oh, why don't more girls post here? Why would they? Most guys who post here are fuckin idiots, or are just too scared to say anything intelligent beyond "I think you're hot", or whatever.

The girls do check out this forum, but they just dont really have anything to respond to because most everything posted here is desperate fanboy weirdo shit.

Just be normal. And try to be interesting.

[TheOne1]

c'mon guys, lets all stop acting like we really have feelings and care, and lets start a big teta picture thread :twisted:

[AllanahStarrNYC]

LOL- bad bad baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad!!!

[RangeHova]

c'mon guys, lets all stop acting like we really have feelings and care, and lets start a big teta picture thread :twisted:

It is not about having feelings just a desire to go beyond just talking about who's dick is the biggest and who breast hang the best. I mean lets be real, I'll jump in those conversations but many will shit on my post because that isn't all that I wanna talk about? If it is not your cup of tea skip my post and have a great day. There are plenty of post that I skip because they don't have what I'm interested in.

I will never be so jaded that I won't respect the vision of a beautiful girl with a attractive body but after 20 years of dating t-girls that fan kind of heavy handed worship and that being all about the dick, the dick, the DICK can be hard to understand or to fully relate to.

Again, I don't have to think like you or see eye to eye with those dick crazy guys (or just the over the top physical enchantment in general) but the it is almost as if those guys don't want the other guys to talk about anything else. Instead of just letting what they are not interested in be. It is like they HAVE to shit on other types of post.

There is room for so much more.

[TheOne1]

20 years of dating tg's? goddamn... the godfather of tranny chasers :lol:
im just look'n for my first time

[RangeHova]

well... more like 15. Most of those years were spent in 2 LTRs. The first few years was just flirting and being friends with a bunch of girls and never crossing the sexual line.

It's not that uncommon. I think in places like this most guys are so much on the outside looking in that they can't see a guy who dates TS women as anything but a chaser looking to fuck as many girls as he can.

[TheOne1]

.......................thanks for the breakdown

[ezed]

Summarizing...this is what it is....it is constantly changing depending on the organisms involved. Men, woman, t-girls, cd's, chasers, teasers, gays, lesbos, midgets, negroes, whites, hispanics, truck drivers, rednecks, "i am not a homo's", post-ops. pre-ops, special ops, asians, brazilians, europeans, africans, fatties, anorexict, jackers, whackers, lovers, philosophers, political commentarians, story writers, promoters, hackers, girls with big penis's, girls without penis's who were formerly guys, men who dress in female underwear but are deathly afraid of shaving their nether regions........need I go on. We all shovel our shit, hoping it get's thrown back so we know we are heard.

You know what, I love you all! You make life interesting. If anyone is going to hook up with anyone, it will happen. But not until you meet face to face. Until then relax. And have tolerance, in reality, no one gives two shits about your bigoted opinions till they know who you are and can place a face with your posts. ( I don't have a face post, why.....It's none of your fucking business....go sit on a cucumber)

[peggygee]

20 years of dating tg's? goddamn... the godfather of tranny chasers :lol:
im just look'n for my first time

I find that intriquing, for a guy who has not been with one (1) women, I got an impression that you had been in 'the life' for an eternity :?:

[peggygee]

And, I a transwomen, full time for over three decades, 10 of them as a post op, always am learning something new.

And though I am far from new to 'the life'. I am relatively new to this board.

But, what is cool, about threads like this (and the we hate the post ops, etc), is I get a sense of who the really cool, decent, interesting, intelligent people that I would potentially like to know better are. :wink:

And who the 'haters' are.

Thanks for making my search for a 'decent' guy easier.

[nyctraveler]

I'm just curious. Its seems like a pretty good promotional thing.
Has anyone any firsthand accounts as to why not?

And that's another thing while you got me over here, PMSing, nauseous from Estrogen, hair half up in rollers, in my nightgown, and fuzzy slippers. :evil:

Unless y'all want a 'sausage fest' over here, ya need to make it more women friendly.

'Gentleman', not everything g-damn post needs to be about T &C & A, and sometimes V. And identifying women like you were the FBI seeking wanted fugitives.

I know y'all got your brandy snifters, your cigars, and your smoking jackets on, looking like the 'poor mans Hugh Hefner'.

You've sent the 'women' folk off to the kitchen or the bedroom, to wait for your call.

You guys keep it up like this, and you will be in here by yourself, with the lotion, and Myrna and her four sisters :jerkoff

You say,you want to meet women, but you huddle together like boys in the 3rd grade :grouphug

I am going to go now , cause I am starting to cramp, and when I cramp I get even more witchy :frustrated

And stay on your side of the bed, matter fact go sleep on the couch :angry

Interesting comment- "like...FBI seeking most wanted fugitives"

You mean like a database where working girls can exchange information on clients, ie- phone numbers, email/ip addresses, real names, that sort of thing? who are the junkies, who are the gentelmen, and most importantly, which are the easiest mark? Perhaps even using a blog site to track who's who?
I am most grateful for this site, but lets be real- information is a 2 way street, and while the tactics some guys use on this site are deplorable, their intentions are no different than an escort collecting as much info as possible on there potential mark- I mean client :D

[ARMANIXXX]

Lack of time is gonna prevent me from gettin too cerebral here, but I do wanna submit the fact that the girls here themselves are just as guilty of spewing venemous rhetoric towards other girls here. Monica and Shalaya are 2 that come to mind here.

So before condemning all the guys here, mabey blame should be passed around equally.

[suckseed]

To sum up:
Not all guys here are jerks. Most aren't.
Pretty girls shouldn't be worshipped like goddesses. Beauty's nice, but it doesn't mean everything.
Girls we're not attracted to personally may be someone else's cup of tea, and in any case, hurting someone's feelings is unnecessary and childish.
Disagreeing with what someone is saying is different from bagging on their appearance.
People here should call out others who are being assholes. On a couple of other forums I frequent, it's always a cool place to be. Once the mudslinging starts that violates the above, if the mods won't do anything, it's up to us.

[signupjustforthis]

Maybe when guys on here stop referring to ts women with quotation mark women end quotation mark , than more women would come on here. The most basic respect is to respect the womanhood of TS women, alot of guys here dont even do that. Idiots.