Married dilemma

[lifeisfiction]

[long boring personal piece - aborted before posting]

If you still want to share it with us, regardless of what you think I am still will read it. And when did you become boring?

[Odelay]

Seriously, half the shit I type out with the initial intention to post on this board, I abort upon re-read. It's pretty much the same for all forums I participate in.

The gist of what I was going to post was about the difficulties of remaining sexually faithful in a marriage. And despite marrying for the first time at 50+ yrs of age only 6 months ago, I am floored by my desires outside of the woman I married. I really hope I can remain true to her but it's impossible for me to know for sure. At least I don't have the burden of wondering what sex with a trans-gender woman is like, as years before my marriage I had visited a few escorts and had a brief trist with a non-escort. In the end, for me a good woman is a good woman whether she has a tee or a vee. There's a lot more of the latter so it was easier for me to find and fall in love with my wife who is cis-gendered.

[Rusty Eldora]

LOL. It blows my mind that an escort will hold on to the fantasy that she's NOT seeing any married men, or men not in other committed relationships.


When the topic of married men cheating comes up, I think anyone working as an escort should keep quiet.

It's 3/4 of her clientele. Besides married guys are safer, less likely to have STD's, less likely to be a stalker or a bother, and more likely to be quiet about it.

[lifeisfiction]

Seriously, half the shit I type out with the initial intention to post on this board, I abort upon re-read. It's pretty much the same for all forums I participate in.

The gist of what I was going to post was about the difficulties of remaining sexually faithful in a marriage. And despite marrying for the first time at 50+ yrs of age only 6 months ago, I am floored by my desires outside of the woman I married. I really hope I can remain true to her but it's impossible for me to know for sure. At least I don't have the burden of wondering what sex with a trans-gender woman is like, as years before my marriage I had visited a few escorts and had a brief trist with a non-escort. In the end, for me a good woman is a good woman whether she has a tee or a vee. There's a lot more of the latter so it was easier for me to find and fall in love with my wife who is cis-gendered.

Thanks for your honesty. Being married doesn't make you immune from temptation. Everyone forgets that even when you meet the person of your dreams, there will always be that one person who will offer something you didn't know before. Its up to you to decide where your relationship will go with the person you are with. Curiosity is a very dangerous thing in a relationship. I thank you Odelay for telling it as it is and its far better for you to have said it then to have never have said it.

[gregorysgirl]

Struggling not to ring certain escorts myself, in a little over a year of marriage I have genuinely struggled with fidelity. I certainly spend less time watching porn and logging on here, but if I am honest it doesn't really help.