Does being black matter?

[DevAero]

Be Yourself, Have Fun and Bring Lots of Cash

Black, White, Yellow doesn't matter but Green does

Thanks bro!

[DevAero]

You remind me of myself. I'm also black and not a stereotype.

Being black will not prevent you from dating. There are many women and ts women who love black men. However, it may prevent you from dating someone who isn't interested in black men stereotypical or not.

Some women are turned off by black men for not being stereotypical. This is where you may have a lot of problems. Women have complained about me not being "black enough" for their tastes.

Welcome to the forums. I hope you stay active here. You sound like a nice guy.

I've only recently found this out. Most girls that are into black guys want thugs and stuff like that. And black girls are a different world to me, they don't like me because I act "too white". Thanks for the advice bro!

[DevAero]

i've found that looks, money and a big cock are often cited by men as the main thing most women look for where as many women would say its confidence and personality.

i'm not saying one group is right where the other is wrong, but a confident man will generally be more successful than those without. don't worry about race so much otherwise you are the one that might make it an issue more than your target.

This really makes a lot of sense. Really appreciate it.

[amberskyi]

What an odd question.
Some people are going to be into you and others won't be for one reason or another. Don't over think it

[Winkle]

You don't act black? well the first thing you can do is lose your stereotypical view of the world and understand that people should be viewed on individual merit.

Know yourself, know your history young brother.

[fordly66]

As a black man I can say that one may want to worry about race. I know from personal experience that some women will not date a black man. Some women are disinterested in black men. Then we have women who have racist opinions about black people and will not date us. There are also women who want to date blacks but their families will disown them for choosing a black man.

I spoke to a porn director about interracial porn. He told me stories about how girls want to shoot IR scenes and their fathers found out and beat on or off set.

I met a girl in college who said that she wanted to date me but wasn't allowed to. Her family was racist and would have kicked her out of the house if she dated a black man. She's now married to a white guy and has a kid. I think she also dropped out of school.

This kind of thing goes both ways. I'm a white dude and have dated two women of color. Seems that their dads had problems with me because I was white. But there are white girls who can date guys of color without family issues. I mean, most ir couples are black guys with white girls, at least that is true in the U.S. It really shouldn't matter what color you are, and the more that time goes by and younger generations get older, the more it will be acceptable. As for being black but not acting black, I have two friends that act white and both are married to white women. They have told me that most black women have said that the aren't "strong enough" for them. So I guess they also view white guys as being "weak". Mentally is what I think they are referring to. I guess you just have to find the right person you click with, no matter what race they are.

[FreddieGomez]

Ya'll need to be more secure with yourself.

I'm mixed with black but it's never been an issue for me.

I'm confident enough in myself to not even worry about who's into me and who's not because the fact is I've never had to chase after ass and i'm not about to start now.

It's that simple.

[nysprod]

As a black man I can say that one may want to worry about race. I know from personal experience that some women will not date a black man. Some women are disinterested in black men. Then we have women who have racist opinions about black people and will not date us. There are also women who want to date blacks but their families will disown them for choosing a black man.

I spoke to a porn director about interracial porn. He told me stories about how girls want to shoot IR scenes and their fathers found out and beat on or off set.

I met a girl in college who said that she wanted to date me but wasn't allowed to. Her family was racist and would have kicked her out of the house if she dated a black man. She's now married to a white guy and has a kid. I think she also dropped out of school.

Ignore this completely, Franklyn has never even been with a Ts girl...and far as the TS world is concerned, there is no question that young, in shape and hung guys of any race will have no problem scoring all the free TS action they could ever want.

[LibertyHarkness]

That's only if a Ts is looking for a shag nysprod.

Personally I can't stand young guys for personal level stuff as I find most young people are out for one thing only.

Personality goes a huge way if people are looking for something more serious than arrogance or overt cockiness about looks and sexual prowess.

As some others have said be yourself and don't be sleazy and you will find it easy to engage with girls whether Ts or gg .

As for color etc. That's subjective on each person so go with the flow, if a girl not into you then move along lots of people out there

[nysprod]

That's only if a Ts is looking for a shag nysprod.

Lol I thought that's what we were talking about...