Straight Noob+Tranny OBSESSED.

[Corran]

i like your avatar

"Tis a position I often dream (asleep and awake) of having you in, my lovely seductress.

[bluesoul]

Apart from the above, most transgirls are kinda old-fashioned. They like you to open doors, pull out chairs, pick up the tab and buy them nice presents. Don't have to be really expensive presents, as my mother used to say, it's the thought that counts.

aren't all women like that?

[Mojopink]

Ok, I'll take the blame for being vague in my description. While it's not something I've ever discussed with anyone, it's not something I am ashamed of. I'm aware of the costs a TG girl has to shoulder, both financial AND emotional. So far the advice here has ranged from sincere to snarky. I like snarky, I excel at it. But I learn nothing from it. I could cruise a gay/drag bar. But that's not my scene. And I'm not sure that trolling a support group works for me either. I have a career, a life. I just want to see if a TG girl would be right for me as a genuine girlfriend and NOT just a prostitute I visit occasionally. And I'd like to know if there's a good starting point, a place I could go to where I wouldn't feel like a stranger in a strange land. I'm still hoping this forum is that starting point.

Ryder, your videos are some of my favorites btw. I love redheads. Just saying.

[RyderMonroe]

Ryder..oh baby..I'd show you off to everyone!

aww thank u . I hope you find what you're looking for!

[TSMichelleAustin]

Most tgirls not working girls will never be in a gay club or a club that caters to trans women. They live normal lives and go to str8 bars. If you want a secret she will charge. But if ur looking for a non working girl in NY good luck!!!

[ClareSensual]

Where the hell can I go to meet up with trannies on a CASUAL wavelength? Are they ALL just straight up prostitutes?

I have certainly never been a sex worker. And I've never set foot in a club. I live a quiet life. I'm a lawyer with a nonprofit agency. And I date men all the time. I saw a construction worker yesterday. For some reason, they all seem to be hot guys in their 20's; I'm in my 40's. I guess it's the cougar thing. I'm not complaining, believe me.

Try Craigslist, transgenderdate.com and tgpersonals.com. Show a few good face pictures and be honest about yourself. Be patient. If you habituate yourself to using sex workers, you may never find what you're looking for.

[giovanni_hotel]

You need a tranny 'girlfriend' to let you hang out with her on the weekends.lol Some of the coolest undercover girls I've met in D.C. were from just chilling at someone else's crib and a supastar chick shows up.

If you live near D.C./BaltimoreNY/Atl you should go to a ball event. It's a non-professional setting and easier to meet girls who aren't on the clock....initially.

Even if a girl isn't escorting, if you come at some TS the wrong way and she feels you're either ashamed of who she is, or disrespecting her T, expect to get charged for her time.

[bluesoul]

You need a tranny 'girlfriend' to let you hang out with her on the weekends.lol Some of the coolest undercover girls I've met in D.C. were from just chilling at someone else's crib and a supastar chick shows up.

so... you're saying get a friend with a cool crib that regularly gets visits from supastar chicks? aiiight. how about saving the guy some time and introducing him to your friend so he can snag one of those undercover girls

If you live near D.C./BaltimoreNY/Atl you should go to a ball event. It's a non-professional setting and easier to meet girls who aren't on the clock....initially.

that's good advice. he can slip her a hotdog whilst they watch the game too

[giovanni_hotel]

so... you're saying get a friend with a cool crib that regularly gets visits from supastar chicks? aiiight. how about saving the guy some time and introducing him to your friend so he can snag one of those undercover girls



that's good advice. he can slip her a hotdog whilst they watch the game too

Snarkiness aside, many TS don't escort as a vocation.
If you aren't in those circles or know people, there's literally no way to meet these girls unless you cross your fingers and sign up to a tranny dating site.
A 'supastar' TS is an attractive, passable girl who's NORMAL. SHe's not made up like a drag queen or obsessed with how much money you can give her.

I can tell you've never been to a TS ball, IMO it's one of best places to meet trans-chicks and get numbers.

I know it's shocking to hear, but there are guys out here into TS who would rather not be seen as a trick.

The point is to meet TS IRL you need to go out and meet people and form friendships within the community.

EDIT: I just got that bluesoul thought when I said 'ball event', he thought I meant a ballgame like baseball.lol

Ball culture - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

You'll never find a GF on Eros.

[Mojopink]

LOL, I did think you meant a sports event. Well, this has finally given me a little perspective. Thanks.