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[Quiet Reflections]

Well, yes and no Amber...it's not totally unusual you go into someone's restaurant several times and shoot the shit...next thing you know, you're playing golf together (or poker, or whatever).

When a guy becomes somewhat of a "steady" customer of an escort, maybe he drives her someplace a couple of times, they have some discussions related to more personal issues...before you know it, they guy is thinking things...maybe not GF, but something more than "client."

It happens.

I have to agree. I'm friends with a few guys that I met through business dealings. It really help to get to know people when your first interactions are cut throat and money based.

[tsdvdman]

If the guy sees you as more than an escort and tries to get to know you more personally...take it as a compliment. (I thought that's what you girls wanted..was to be seen as more than just an escort, freak or fetish).
And if he isn't your type...just let him know you strictly about the benjamins.
BTW..if you've ever asked a "client" to stop by the store for you, or for a ride across town, then you open the door for this kind of stuff.

[nysprod]

BTW..if you've ever asked a "client" to stop by the store for you, or for a ride across town, then you open the door for this kind of stuff.

To say nothing of escorts who know a guy has designs on her, and then proceed to bleed him dry...

[amberskyi]

Well, yes and no Amber...it's not totally unusual you go into someone's restaurant several times and shoot the shit...next thing you know, you're playing golf together (or poker, or whatever).

When a guy becomes somewhat of a "steady" customer of an escort, maybe he drives her someplace a couple of times, they have some discussions related to more personal issues...before you know it, they guy is thinking things...maybe not GF, but something more than "client."

It happens.

That scenario is clearly not what the op is talking about.
However on the point you brought up,i have clients I'm cool with but a certain boundary is still respected.
I have one client who keeps inviting me to drinks, he's actually really cool and respectful but he has a wife.if i can't call your phone freely than how could you ever even entertain the idea we can be more than friends lol

[amberskyi]

If the guy sees you as more than an escort and tries to get to know you more personally...take it as a compliment. (I thought that's what you girls wanted..was to be seen as more than just an escort, freak or fetish).
And if he isn't your type...just let him know you strictly about the benjamins.
BTW..if you've ever asked a "client" to stop by the store for you, or for a ride across town, then you open the door for this kind of stuff.

We wanted to be respected as human beings by society at large.i don't really care how a client sees me as long as he's respectful and has my donation.i don't have any real social interactions with him so his opinion on me is not relevant.
I'm always friendly and never rude but certain boundaries have to be respected.discretion needs to work both ways.i have a personal life and i don't want any client apart of it.
Again tho this isn't what the op was talking about.

[LilyRox]

First off I'll say tequila and forum posting just doesn't mix well.

In my opinion it creates a negative image to your customer base when you go on a public thread and basically tell everyone that wants to contact you that you aren't their friend or even like them.

The escort business is a business of lies, cheating and false relationships... for a good reason, because people will pay for it.

The girls who make the most money lie to their customers, hint them on that they actually have a connection to them, etc.

There's also nothing wrong with this. It's a exchange. It's supply and demand. If people want to pay for it, let them pay. The second they stop paying, don't pay or you drained them clean, disconnect the customer.

Even if you get some guys that contact your ad that try to befriend you, you shouldn't go on a public forum and rant about it, let alone how your family is protective about you.

My suggestion would be to get a profession that makes you happy. I don't know if you are happy since this is the internet, but you sound pretty miserable.

I know if I went on cam everyday with a frown I wouldn't make shit. No one wants to pay for a sad story.

[nysprod]

The escort business is a business of lies, cheating and false relationships... for a good reason, because people will pay for it.

The girls who make the most money lie to their customers, hint them on that they actually have a connection to them, etc.

There's also nothing wrong with this. It's a exchange. It's supply and demand. If people want to pay for it, let them pay. The second they stop paying, don't pay or you drained them clean, disconnect the customer.

Pure escort gold...guys, commit this to memory.

[danthepoetman]

Don't be so hard, Lady Lily! Who knows what and whom Ms Stepford is talking about. Maybe just a bit of melancholy. We all fall for that from time to time. When tequila wanes off tomorrow, she might tell us a bit more... or well, in a few hours, I guess, now.

[robertlouis]

First off I'll say tequila and forum posting just doesn't mix well.

In my opinion it creates a negative image to your customer base when you go on a public thread and basically tell everyone that wants to contact you that you aren't their friend or even like them.

The escort business is a business of lies, cheating and false relationships... for a good reason, because people will pay for it.

The girls who make the most money lie to their customers, hint them on that they actually have a connection to them, etc.

There's also nothing wrong with this. It's a exchange. It's supply and demand. If people want to pay for it, let them pay. The second they stop paying, don't pay or you drained them clean, disconnect the customer.

Even if you get some guys that contact your ad that try to befriend you, you shouldn't go on a public forum and rant about it, let alone how your family is protective about you.

My suggestion would be to get a profession that makes you happy. I don't know if you are happy since this is the internet, but you sound pretty miserable.

I know if I went on cam everyday with a frown I wouldn't make shit. No one wants to pay for a sad story.

Oh, I don't know, Lily. I've made a steady living out of writing and singing sad as fuck songs over the years.......

[LilyRox]

Oh, I don't know, Lily. I've made a steady living out of writing and singing sad as fuck songs over the years.......

Yes of course lol