I'm gonna save this one in a text file so I can reuse it.

[Ms.Stepford]

I don't mean to be curt, but it's like this: you come up to me at a bar or on the street and I think you're cool and we get along, we become friends. I became friends with some people last night and this morning because we were hanging out and they were fun people with common interests, like playing music and drinking on the street corner with a case of beer stashed behind some barrels in an alley. If you are looking in the transsexual escort section of backpage and you get this email address, you're a potential client. Is there any other way to run a business? I have guys who pay me lots of money to hang out with them and party in their nice houses, apartments, houses and hotel rooms. I get to know lots of guys, y'know? They understand that if they're gonna order up a girl off the internet to come hang out and get to know them, that they're going to pay for the convenience of not having to go out and do the whole social interaction pick-up thing, because honestly, it's very rare that someone catches my eye to get the time of day, and I'm usually a bitch at first because I'm a rock star punk house kid with the scars to prove it, I always have my own money to spend, and I'm usually not out unless I'm rolling deep with people who have all of my attention they want because I love them.

I dunno. I hope that clears that up. If you see me around, approach me there and charm the panties off of me, but don't tell me you know me from this interaction. That would be weird. I drink a lot of tequila, I speak my mind really friggin' loud, and everyone I know knows what I do for a living. They know what it looks like when it gets that kind of weird, and in general they're pretty protective of me.

Please understand that it's almost nine in the morning, and it's kind of awkward when someone contacts my escort ad just to be friends. I mean really...do you understand the position that puts me in?

I think with a little editing this will be my new form letter for when this happens.

Good morning,

[nysprod]

I drink a lot of tequila

Tequila: The Magic elixir of TGirl Sexuality

[Ms.Stepford]

Really, just girls in general...

[Rusty Eldora]

You didn't get to the part where they are going to save you from the life you must not like.

OK, when I contact a Tgirl from her ad I was the best service she has to offer at the agreed rate for her time and companionship. I never pay for sex, that is illegal, but I do pay for time that I assume will include great sex. But it can include social time. Sometimes, friendships develop which can be quite good, but I do not expect them.

I run a business myself. It galls me when prospective customers call and they expect me to drop my biggest and best clients work for their small job, on which they seem nasty to work with, expect the best product out there, and at half price also. Thank you but I am unavailable for 3 weeks, seems to work well.

So the "I'm a good looking arrogant stud that you are dying to see for free" patter probably induces desire to inflict bodily harm

[LilyRox]

Yeah I thought being friendly was part of what escorts do.

[Amy Gray]

Tequila: The Magic elixir of TGirl Sexuality

I'm doing it wrong then. Clearly I need to start drinking.

[amberskyi]

Yeah I thought being friendly was part of what escorts do.

it is but that doesn't mean we don't have boundaries.
The OP was just saying in a really long way that it irks her when guys get her work number and try to use it to facilitate a social interaction.totally logical if you ask me.you wouldn't look up a plumber in the yellow pages, get his number and call to shoot the shit.

[fred41]

i....you wouldn't look up a plumber in the yellow pages, get his number and call to shoot the shit.

...and a plumber would probably be really surprised to get the ab & cock pics too...lol.

[dderek123]

Yeah that must be really awkward. How would it be best to deal with it once a guy tries to friend you through your services?

Just don't answer his calls? Is there a chance that they could get angry or stalker-ish?

[nysprod]

it is but that doesn't mean we don't have boundaries.
The OP was just saying in a really long way that it irks her when guys get her work number and try to use it to facilitate a social interaction.totally logical if you ask me.you wouldn't look up a plumber in the yellow pages, get his number and call to shoot the shit.

Well, yes and no Amber...it's not totally unusual you go into someone's restaurant several times and shoot the shit...next thing you know, you're playing golf together (or poker, or whatever).

When a guy becomes somewhat of a "steady" customer of an escort, maybe he drives her someplace a couple of times, they have some discussions related to more personal issues...before you know it, they guy is thinking things...maybe not GF, but something more than "client."

It happens.