Incalls v. Outcalls: Which is safer for the provider/client

[StinkyPete1000]

Just looking to get people's opinions on this. I'm interested in what people think is safer for the client and/or the provider.

[RallyCola]

i'm always felt that escorts perfer incalls because they know the environment and feel more secure.

i'm sure there are guys that prefer outcalls for the safety/comfort reasons and there is always the unknown such as other bookings or roommates at the girl's place which you won't have if the girl shows up at your place

that said, i am sure there are alot of guys that a prefer going to the girl for a couple of reasons...they don't want anyone to see an escort at their place...or they don' want evidence for their WAGs to find...or they don't want a girl to know where they live

personally, i have never had an escort at my house usually because i'm never just sitting at home to call one up. i have had them come to my hotel rooms though when i am out of town.

[StinkyPete1000]

I started off only seeing girls at their place but that brought me to some pretty shady areas so once I got my own place I started to have more girls come to my place. It felt safer but I always had that fear of having girls know where I live in the back of my mind (it doesn't mean I think they were going to do anything but your address is a pretty personal piece of info).

I've actually decided to start going to girls places again the next time. I'll just try to only see girls in nice areas.

What's your take on seeing girls who are staying in hotels (as oppose to having them come to your room)? I always thought it was legit until I heard some people discuss how they are sometimes set ups (as in sting operations). Any thoughts?

[RallyCola]

i've never really heard of a tranny sting operation at a hotel.

i know some places of "ill-repute" have been raided and the clients have been charged but a tranny hotel room sting...that's a new one for me.

if you are afraid to have an escort come to your place for privacy/security issues and you think you don't feel safe if they live in an lower socio-economic area, then simply get a motel room for a few bucks for the hour and enjoy.

[top4bigbutt]

In my opinion it is 50 and 50,you may feel safe at home,but beside the fack they can save your # and adress,there's always the risk some bad apple can steal some shit from you,or boyfriend waiting outside,etc,for the girls there's always the risk they are going to a trap
And when we choose to go to the girl,we are always exposed to police traps,or boyfriends waiting to fuck you up, and then what we supposed to do? call the cops? ha ha....it is not easy,that's why the info we share here is so useful, just don't take all your money when you go to the girl.

[Willie Escalade]

I agree...it's a 50/50 situation. Personally I prefer going to her place...or the Power Exchange.

[RallyCola]

In my opinion it is 50 and 50,you may feel safe at home,but beside the fack they can save your # and adress,there's always the risk some bad apple can steal some shit from you,or boyfriend waiting outside,etc,for the girls there's always the risk they are going to a trap
And when we choose to go to the girl,we are always exposed to police traps,or boyfriends waiting to fuck you up, and then what we supposed to do? call the cops? ha ha....it is not easy,that's why the info we share here is so useful, just don't take all your money when you go to the girl.

absolutley . a friend of mine got taken for $700 with an escort in AC because he had her back to his room and he didn't use the safe to put his stuff away.

its a shame girls don't take debit card

[Mike11]

I never considered the security aspect really. I got into regular punting when I lived alone for a while and during that period I almost exclusively arrange all meetings as outcall in my place. I had tried incall but did not like them at all. All these appointments however were with Organic Girls and I have never arranged an outcall with a TG. One exception was a girl I booked who turned out to be a post-op TS.

I found the being on my own ground made the punt a lot more enjoyable. Firstly is the quality of the place. Secondly it allowed the girls to see me more as a person by seeing the environment in which I lived. It often meant that you could establish a good connection and it was rare that the ladies only stayed for the booked time. On many many occasions they stayed a lot longer and on few occasions I ended up dating them for a few months.

It is really difficult to say which is safer, incall or outcall. I guess it depends on who you are meeting. Personally I think the Working Girls are very brave indeed to let any guy of the street to visit them or to just turn up at someone's door. That in itself I find quite daring. As a punter you always know something about who you are meeting. The girls have no idea.

[RallyCola]

girls seem less rushed on outcalls because they can't really schedule anything after because of travel time and such.

that said, i'm a hinjew (ya know...the cheapest person ever...a combination of a hindu and a jew) so when i see, usually at least a $100 difference in the price of an incall or outcall, i usually choose incall.

[ed_jaxon]

For a monger incall is safer.

- If someone is in the bathroom it is probably for the girls safety

- If they do come out and rob you then you have lost only the fee as anyone knows you
don't take anything of value in with you

_ If its their place they don't want to fuck up their living situation

- Bringing someone to your crib gives them your identity

- Knowing where you live allows them to see what you have, monitor your movements and
perhaps pass the info to someone else who will come when you are not home.