Rant about shemales

[youngfit93]

Hey everyone,

long time viewer, first time poster.

Im sorry but i really need to vent this, and interested to see if anyone gets the same thing, maybe its just the girls in Sydney.

So i use various social media apps Blendr, skout etc to find and talk to shemales because its what im attracted to and what i want basically so ill talk to a couple and you know they seem cool down to earth and ill invite them out to dinner or drinks and they refuse, instead and this happens all the time they say no you have to pay. Im like pay, pay for what im inviting you to dinner not an orgy then they say if you want to sleep with me you have to pay.

this happens to me everytime, and its annoying because sure i want to sleep with them but its not like thats the be all and end all i want to conversate etc and it pisses me off that i have to "pay" for that, even though i can afford it i dont do it out of principle no woman would ever make me pay to take them out to dinner so why do shemales do it.

Rant over it really annoys me does that happen to anyone else?

[GroobySteven]

You could start by changing your terminology so you can at least show you're educated enough on the subject to be able to take a girl out for dinner.

[saifan]

I have a pretty substantial relationship that started off with me as a client.

[AshlynCreamher]

You invite people out to dinner but you won't pay for their dinner?

[TheFrenchman]

Same as Saifan here, had a few starting as a client and one of them lasting for more than 6 years... the greatest part was that she was a top only dominant girl and with me, only me actually, she was 100% passive bottom... can't ask for more!

You say : "no woman would ever make me pay to take them out to dinner" if she was a GG escort and you didn't know each other, of course she would make you pay for her time spent at a restaurant...

Salut

[Lester316]

If I read the original post right he's saying he goes on dating apps/sites meets someone, asks them out and then during the date they basically reveal they are an escort. So TheFrenchman's point about GG escorts doesn't really work, I mean whether they are a TS-girl or a GG if they were an escort I would expect to know before we were at dinner.

Of course if you invite someone out to dinner I think there is a certain expectation you would be paying for the meal and drinks; it's not like a couple going out on a regular basis and splitting the bill after all.

But I have heard of escorts (to be fair the instances I've heard of were GGs) before using social media apps to get taken out and then surprise the guy during the 'date' with the fact they are there as a working girl; I have to say if I were placed in that position I would excuse myself and leave. The only decision I would have to make having been lied to would be whether I settle the bill on the way out or leave them to deal with the consequences of their lies.

Anyhow, perhaps try to be clearer in your original post.

[saifan]

Since when does dinner guarantee sex on the 1st date, LOL?

[Lester316]

Oh I agree there should be no 100% expectation of first date sex but sometimes it happens, unless it wasn't a date and you were with an escort who went to dinner with you having pre-arranged what was to follow.

I just think the original post was a bit blunt in how it was put; he goes on a date with someone he thinks is hot so a natural conclusion would be if it goes well it might lead to more, of course it just happens to be dinner does go really well because they are going to hit him with the 'by the way I'm an escort' surprise.

At least that's what I think he means.

[saifan]

Oh I agree there should be no 100% expectation of first date sex but sometimes it happens, unless it wasn't a date and you were with an escort who went to dinner with you having pre-arranged what was to follow.

I just think the original post was a bit blunt in how it was put; he goes on a date with someone he thinks is hot so a natural conclusion would be if it goes well it might lead to more, of course it just happens to be dinner does go really well because they are going to hit him with the 'by the way I'm an escort' surprise.

At least that's what I think he means.

Seems like this is happening before the dates even happens:

"ill invite them out to dinner or drinks and they refuse, instead and this happens all the time they say no you have to pay. Im like pay, pay for what im inviting you to dinner"

[Lester316]

Ah good point, I misread that originally.

I guess then it's still an issue of misrepresentation in a way anyhow, if he's meeting them on a dating app like Tindr or whatever, chatting to them and then asking them out it would still be a surprise to be hit with the 'I'm an escort' reveal. But if that's the case at least it's much easier to tell them to bugger off for misleading him and didn't hit him in the wallet as he didn't pay for dinner etc.