escort bottoms?

[danthepoetman]

true, but that's not the point.

So what IS the point, Lixx? If you want to know what a girl does, just pick up the phone and ask her first, that's all.
Or then what? If we don't want to get fucked in the ass and say it, that means we're lying or bragging, it means that we're inauthentic and false? Do you really need to convince yourself of something like that? Or yet again, do you mean to say that t-girls who are reluctant to bottom are bitches or hypocrits or unfair? I mean, from the get go, you know that a transsexual woman is someone who is born in the wrong body, who suffers immensely to change that, and whom of course, basically wants to be A WOMAN. So why is it surprising or shoking that she might (I say "might") be reluctant in topping?
I can understand that people have different tastes, and that often, there is fantasies produced by porn, but it's real people we're talking about, Lixx! Some people indeed prefer to bottom, some to top, and that's ok. But you sound frustrated that they wouldn't do or prefer what you, yourself like!
Frankly, I don't understand what YOUR point is...

[robertlouis]

Who says this lulz..? As said, if they like dick in their arses, it may mean they're more honest about their attraction. why is it gay men who are truly into men don't see bottoming as "bad" by and large? they cannot say that a woman's body/manner is an attraction, since that's obvious bullshit.

lol... I would say the definition of a man is socially constructed. I think men who say they only like to top TSs are hiding something, or cannot admit to their true selves, or are too dim not to accept what common society/pop culture tells them. You do realise that some tops may be so since they tried bottoming and didn't like it? Or vice versa? yeah, so sex should not be about pleasure.. The thing is though is that liking TSs in itself is a (even by modern standards) "far-out" thing, but i don't give a shit really, people always do and will have their motivations including aggressively asserting how manly they are..

You seem unable to accept that some of us who are tops simply prefer our sex that way, and that somehow we are in denial. I like petite feminine girls who like to be treated as such. Nothing wrong with that.

Well, the logical extension of that is that we don't enjoy topping but only do it because to do otherwise would deliver an unpalatable truth. Yep, every time I'm topping a girl I'm spending the whole time wracked with guilt and knowing that I shouldn't be doing it.

That, my friend, is beyond parody. Yes, there are lots of guys, probably a large majority, on HA who are fascinated by the cock, worship it and want it inside them. That's their prerogative. I don't judge and I don't comment, and it doesn't bother me one bit.

But please, can't you accept that those of us who are 100% tops enjoy our sex that way simply because, well, we do? Don't dump any insecurities that you might have on guys like me.

[danthepoetman]

That's very well put, Robert Louis.

[Prospero]

This issue seems to bring out the truly obnoxious in some people - who perhaps should just think their thoughts and not post. The hostility that men and girls who prefer to top feel towards those who like to bottom and vice versa. For Christ's sake. Just accept different folks like different strokes and shut up.

[MacShreach]

This issue seems to bring out the truly obnoxious in some people - who perhaps should just think their thoughts and not post. The hostility that men and girls who prefer to top feel towards those who like to bottom and vice versa. For Christ's sake. Just accept different folks like different strokes and shut up.

That's all very well, but this thread was started by an individual who has a years-long history of making inflammatory posts attacking others who do not share his preference. I will close here now but you have this entirely the wrong way round--it is very rarely and certainly not here, 'men and girls who prefer to top' doing the attacking, but responding to lies and character assassination from men--and it is only ever men--who prefer to 'bottom' but who feel free to say anything they like about the rest of us, including that we are in denial, that we are, and, I quote, 'hiding something, or cannot admit to their true selves, or are too dim' not, apparently, to want to share THEIR tastes.

[Prospero]

I did say it cuts both ways mac and no i don't have it the wrong way round. There are constant attacks on the guys who like to bottom too. My plea is for some MUTUAL respect. The op was indeed obnoxious though.

[Genetic]

Different strokes for different folks innit? Literally.

[amberskyi]

This issue seems to bring out the truly obnoxious in some people - who perhaps should just think their thoughts and not post. The hostility that men and girls who prefer to top feel towards those who like to bottom and vice versa. For Christ's sake. Just accept different folks like different strokes and shut up.

Kinda understandable why the girls feel a certain way if you really think about it

[Prospero]

I do understand Amber... (as a TS many - probably most - are leaving behind the things that defined their gender identity as male and this includes actively fucking people)

But it is still unproductive and creates bad atmospheres here when those who are 100 per cent tops and those who prefer t bottoms are forever sniping at each other. Everyone simply needs to be more accepting of difference is my position really.

[robertlouis]

That's all very well, but this thread was started by an individual who has a years-long history of making inflammatory posts attacking others who do not share his preference. I will close here now but you have this entirely the wrong way round--it is very rarely and certainly not here, 'men and girls who prefer to top' doing the attacking, but responding to lies and character assassination from men--and it is only ever men--who prefer to 'bottom' but who feel free to say anything they like about the rest of us, including that we are in denial, that we are, and, I quote, 'hiding something, or cannot admit to their true selves, or are too dim' not, apparently, to want to share THEIR tastes.

I tend to agree with what you say, Mac, but then I'm a top-only too. If I was bottom-only I might just as easily see it the other way round (as it were ! ). You pays your money.....