Just broke up with TS girlfriend, can't do it anymore

[nysprod]

I hate men that are into trans-women, yet am a trans-woman. Life is so fucking unfair.... the f*gs/bi/confuse are the ones that want to be with us, its a shame....

Sounds like who you really hate is yourself...

[MHarrigan82]

Things were good for a while, we had a lot of common interests and there was a real connection, but after a while things started to get real messy. So much issues and insecurity, which I was more than willing to try and help with.

Sick of being up all night, every night till 3am "convincing" her that I loved her, and accepted her for who she was.

Sick of convincing her that my family and friends did accept her (they really did, not a single fuck was given) and that they weren't always staring and talking behind her back.

Sick of being called a "fag" whenever an argument happened.

Sick of panic attacks and depression.

Sick of no gratitude for anything, and being compared to past "lovers" who had cheated on her and treated her like crap when i didn't.

Sick of being told to "fuck off, fag"

Yeah, just sick in general.

I made a real go at this, but it was such a headfuck, and very very bizzare, when I first met her she lied about being a virgin (i didn't really care) and being "innocent" etc, after a while the cracks and lies started to show, but still I put up with it, she called my parents at 3am the other day to talk to me because i was "getting agressive", all that happened was every time we argue she calls me a "fag" and tells me she could "beat the shit out of me" (serious) which I just laugh at, but this time I was eating a bowl of cereal and had had enough, so literally I just dropped the bowl which smashed on the floor looked her straight in the eye and said "try it then". now, I would have never lifted a finger against her, i would have just let her hit me, whatever but I am sick of being put down and having this fucking issue with testosterone levels, and every time she gets mad, trying to belittle my masculinity, it's BULLSHIT.

Not going back, fuck it she drained all my money too so she can move back in with the parents because i'm the one who pays the fucking rent, bills, food, gives her going out money.

Or go back on fucking cams again, lazy fuck.

SRS

/rant

Keep your headup brother it will get better. You are better of being single than putting up with her bullshit.

[MHarrigan82]

I would have done the same if not worse maybe even more worse atrocious words and behavior, maybe would of have thrown things at you, thats why i don't date and only escort. I hate men that are into trans-women, yet am a trans-woman. Life is so fucking unfair.... the f*gs/bi/confuse are the ones that want to be with us, its a shame....

Jamie you give the decent transwomen bad name. That is why the majority of the guys see transwomen as a fetish and not serious relationship material due to women like you.

[jamiethewild]

Jamie you give the decent transwomen bad name. That is why the majority of the guys see transwomen as a fetish and not serious relationship material due to women like you.

eerrrr, whatever dude ... you very well know the vast of the majority what men want from a TS. Your statement doesn't make sense at all because the fetish was there since the beginning. The treatment with NSA we get from men has been since the beginning. The percentage of men like you that would take a TS seriously is very low, soo whatever. I completely get where his ex-girlfriend is coming from.

Try being a trans-woman in your other life than you would understand where we come from.

[bat1]

yep, I dated one for 6 mos to many head games ... I had to leave I think it's better to just
be gay or straight no in between..Trans women are nice to visit don't won't to live there..

[MdR Dave]

OP, you're better off.

Now, just make more money and buy a new one.

[Infern0]

I would have done the same if not worse maybe even more worse atrocious words and behavior, maybe would of have thrown things at you, thats why i don't date and only escort. I hate men that are into trans-women, yet am a trans-woman. Life is so fucking unfair.... the f*gs/bi/confuse are the ones that want to be with us, its a shame....

Well this is it isn't it. Even though I consider myself straight and would never do anything with a guy, she considers me not straight because I like her, and yet she considers herself a woman (I did too, but if i'm a "fag" for likeing her....)

She needs to sort her fucking life out because it ain't going nowhere except maybe rehab clinic or prison if not the graveyard.

Sorry just being honest, I'm 100% happy with myself, i don't care what she calls me, she just hates herself even though good people try to help her she doesnt want it, she doesnt want to be "understood" she doesn't want to be "accepted" she wants life to be full of drama and some sort of fucking fantasy world.

Well, shove it up your ass love and fuck right off

(to the person who asked did i tell her i was breaking up with her yes, the quote is above, and yes i've already had in 24 hours, 37 text messages from anger to sadness to asking forgivness and all the way back again)

[Yeah]

Wow. Sounds similar to my last relationship with my ex who was a gg.

[magus13]

Hang in dude. Venting is good for the soul. Alot of men women and Ts all have issues. Don't write off all TS because of her. Just leran the warning signs. Good luck.

[fivekatz]

Well this is it isn't it. Even though I consider myself straight and would never do anything with a guy, she considers me not straight because I like her, and yet she considers herself a woman (I did too, but if i'm a "fag" for likeing her....)

She needs to sort her fucking life out because it ain't going nowhere except maybe rehab clinic or prison if not the graveyard.

Sorry just being honest, I'm 100% happy with myself, i don't care what she calls me, she just hates herself even though good people try to help her she doesnt want it, she doesnt want to be "understood" she doesn't want to be "accepted" she wants life to be full of drama and some sort of fucking fantasy world.

Well, shove it up your ass love and fuck right off

(to the person who asked did i tell her i was breaking up with her yes, the quote is above, and yes i've already had in 24 hours, 37 text messages from anger to sadness to asking forgivness and all the way back again)

Give it time to cool off dude. Everything your feeling my stay true with time and cooling but when things are hot they aren't very easy to get a handle on.

A lot of her shit towards you is probably insecurity or whatever but give yourself some space and then figure it out.