Men on dating ts women

[MrsKellyPierce]

Men, besides the obvious judgement and segregation that can come along with dating a transsexual women.

Is another reason it's hard to date trans-women because of the contempt many transsexual woman seem to have towards men?

I have never really understand the hate and how loosely the term "tranny chaser" is thrown about.

Also why the word shemale is such a sacrilege, besides it being a porn term. Some get mad, because of it having "male" in it. Well so does female = FE-MALE...

Then you got the transsexuals who want this prince charming sort of man that has never been with a transsexual and would never ever want to be with another transsexual besides her or be attracted to another transsexual. It's like get a GRIP on reality...

Then a man is called a 'tranny chaser' due to the fact he has slept around with so many girls. Well girls men do the same with women...and if they dated one tgirl he may want to date another tgirl...

Or how insensitive transsexuals are to the men who are interested in them. It's like don't you remember what it was like to come out to your friends and family, the male has to deal with something similar who dates you. If you just gave the guy a chance he may not be such a bad guy after all. I just find transsexuals seem to demonize men.

Lastly, porn girls that get so up in arms over the term shemale and go after companies like say Steven's because he uses the terminology shemale...BUT SWEETHEART noone is forcing you to pose for that site..if you don't want men to label you a shemale..why promote it by posing for the site? It's always been hypocritical to me. Can you really get mad if so and so who has never been with a ts just came from a porn site looking at your video called Shemale Fill in blank...calls you a hot "shemale"?? I mean girls will go off and get all bitchy..and then in turn the guy feeling attacked says something stupid and hurtful cause of it. Then it's like world war 500..why can't the transsexual pornstar just say sweety I prefer to be called whatever the case may be..instead of being a cunt about it? The guy under most circumstances will be respectful if he is treated respectfully.

I just find transsexuals in general like to play the victim and can be so hypocritical. Yet they want everyone to feel sorry for them or see things their way or have empathy for them. Yet they have no empathy or look at themselves in the mirror..

Do you think you would be more willing to date a transsexual woman if so many didn't have so many hang ups on men?

Or what is your perception...

I know this thread is going to cause a commotion and some hate...

But I think transsexuals have had their say on men on here 100 times over, so why not let the men INTELLECTUALLY (not disrespectfully) say theirs...

Just a few thoughts I had and a blog I want to write so it would be great to get some views from men..

[chromeheart44m]

great post kelly .I have found when I meet a girl I want to date she just wants 2 "date" for an hour or so. I have taken tgirls to dinner and movies and to central park concerts but they always appear to be disgruntled and in a hurry to get back to their money so now sadly i jus pay and play.

[MrsKellyPierce]

great post kelly .I have found when I meet a girl I want to date she just wants 2 "date" for an hour or so. I have taken tgirls to dinner and movies and to central park concerts but they always appear to be disgruntled and in a hurry to get back to their money so now sadly i jus pay and play.

Yes, a majority are working girls. But there are also quite a few who aren't, usually those girls don't hang in the transsexual scene though.

If they do they hang in LGBT activist works...so that may be a place for you to start looking.

[bluesoul]

I just find transsexuals in general like to play the victim and can be so hypocritical. Yet they want everyone to feel sorry for them or see things their way or have empathy for them. Yet they have no empathy or look at themselves in the mirror..

default tranny response = "why are you even hereif you don't like transsexuals? obviously you love us since you spend so much time thinking about us etc etc"

[MrsKellyPierce]

default tranny response = "why are you even hereif you don't like transsexuals? obviously you love us since you spend so much time thinking about us etc etc"

lmao I am not saying men don't have their faults, I'm just saying transsexuals overly demonize men that are into us

[EvonRose]

I read men, maybe sometimes overanalyze it... but it helps me.

If a man truly wants to be in a relationship with me, he would have no problem taking me out, having a blast with me and at the end of the night have no sex, men who want sex at the begging want freebies. If that;s the case I might as well charge.

I guess being in the industry, I am so deprived of emotional connections, that I truly seek that when looking for a partner, It's more to it than sex because I know i deliver in bed, so lets move on and get on with the substance.

[bluesoul]

If a man truly wants to be in a relationship with me, he would have no problem taking me out, having a blast with me and at the end of the night have no sex, men who want sex at the begging want freebies. If that;s the case I might as well charge.
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amazing response. any hope of a rational response on kelly's behalf has just been thwarted by this single sentence.

[GroobySteven]

amazing response. any hope of a rational response on kelly's behalf has just been thwarted by this thing sentence.

Well I agree with her. If you want to date a TS woman then take her out as you would any woman and don't expect just because she's a TS it would lead to sex right away.

[giovanni_hotel]

I've always told myself some of the difficulties in dealing with many TGs has more to do with how hard it is to BE transgendered.

I put up with more shit from a TG than I would a GG, to a point. If it's really too hard being up front with one another I just bounce and quit trying.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Well I agree with her. If you want to date a TS woman then take her out as you would any woman and don't expect just because she's a TS it would lead to sex right away.

I don't necessarily agree..loads of men invite women over to their house to "watch movies" just for sex..

I think if the guy is being honest he wants nothing serious and isn't ready to come out..and if the girl still proceeds it's her own fault she got burnt..not the man she is angry with.

A lot of the issues trans-women have are of their own fault..