Transgender girlfriend reverted back to male

[natina]

I have been meeting a lot of people lately that seem to be homophobic.

In fact, I have honestly met more homophobic homosexuals then heterosexuals.

This is my message to those homo's who hate on homo's.


Homophobe are really closeted gays study says
Homo Say What? Are homophobes secretly gay?

Are homophobes secretly gay? A new study purports to prove it.


Why have some of the nation's most vehement anti-gay activists—Ted Haggard, Larry Craig—had gay sex scandals of their own? An op-ed in the New York Times' Sunday Review section tries to explain. The authors of the piece, two research psychologists, say they have "empirical evidence that homophobia can result, at least in part, from the suppression of same-sex desire." Their argument—summed up in the Times headline as "Homophobic? Maybe You're Gay"—promises to resolve a long-running debate in the field. For at least 15 years, scientists have been trying to use objective laboratory measures to prove the he-who-smelt-it-dealt-it theory of human sexuality. Has a research team based at the University of Rochester finally done it?
The new study works like an elaborate game of "homo say what?": Evidence of private, homosexual urges is elicited by subtle verbal cues. The researchers start by asking college freshmen, mostly women, to rate their sexual orientation on a scale from 1 to 10 (1 means completely straight; 5 means bisexual; 10 means totally gay) and then to say how much they agree with politically charged statements like, "Gay people make me nervous" and "I would feel uncomfortable having a gay roommate." Once the students have been characterized according to their relative degrees of gayness and homophobia, they're shown a series of icons or photos of wedding-cake figurines on a computer monitor—two women, two men, or a man with a woman—and told to label each one as being "gay" or "straight." In a final twist, some of the "gay" and "straight" images are preceded on the screen by a subliminal verbal cue—a word flashed quickly on the screen that reads either me or others. If seeing the word me shortens a student's reaction time for the gay-themed imagery, it's taken as a sign of her implicit homosexuality. On a subconscious level, at least, she's associating the word me with gayness.


Many researchers have used setups like this one—known as an " Implicit Association Test - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
"—to dig up evidence of covert inclinations or even racial prejudice. The idea is that it takes people less time to make connections between words or images when those connections conform to prior beliefs. A person might respond more quickly to the word blue if she'd been cued with the word sky, or—more disturbing—she might be faster on the word man after being cued with the word president. The Rochester team adapted this idea for their measure of sexuality: A student's secret gay identity could be revealed by testing whether she responded more quickly to me-cued gay pictures than to me-cued straight ones


http://www.slate.com/articles/health...y_.single.html

[natina]

Middle Sexes - Experiment on homophobia

EXCLUSIVE: HBO to Develop 'Middlesex' as One-Hour Series
Rita Wilson, playwright Donald Margulies exec producing
By Melissa Grego -- Broadcasting & Cable, 7/6/2009 7:39:07 PM
HBO has optioned Jeffrey Eugenides' Pulitzer Prize-winning novel Middlesex and is developing a one-hour drama series based on the 2002 book.

Actor-producer Rita Wilson is executive producing, along with the project's writer Donald Margulies.

The working logline for the potential drama series being used internally at HBO is that it "follows the life of Calliope Stephanides and the epic family history that may hold the answer to her complicated sexual identity."

Margulies, known best as a playwright, won a Pulitzer Prize in 2000 for his play Dinner With Friends, which was made into an HBO telefilm.

If the Middlesex drama series follows the book's setting, it would take place largely in Detroit, where the main character grows up. HBO's recent comedy series entry, Hung, is also set in the Detroit area.

HBO declined to comment.

(The Middle Sex & an Experiment on Homophobia)
Psychiatrists from the University of GA, based after the murder of a transgender woman whose killers identified themselves as "not gay," conducted an experiment on several hundred men who identified as 100% heterosexual, and with never having had a same-sex encounter, and claiming never to have ever had a same-sex thought. So, these men were divided into control groups with a loop around their penis that measured their arousal to GAY PORN.

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[Los Angeles resident]

If you're truly in 'love' with them, why would the gender they identify with/present make a difference?

If you were dating a GG and she decided to become a female-to-male transsexual (meaning getting rid of her breasts, getting facial hair, getting a hairy body, dressing up in masculine clothes and living a more masculine lifestyle), would you still date him?

In other words, would you date Chaz Bono just because he used to be a woman? I wouldn't!

[BeardedOne]

There's 'dating' and there's 'love'. The OP said 'love'. If you truly 'love' someone and ditch them because of a major change in their appearance/life, you're not that much in 'love' to begin with.

[amberskyi]

Its kinda easy for you to say that cause your bi i believe (sorry if I'm recollection is wrong).
For some people gender preference isn't that fluid.a change in gender could affect if your partner is sexually attracted to you.it is possible to fall out of romantically in love with someone but continue to love them as a person.we all know that romantic love is a combination of sexual attraction, intimacy and strong feelings.lose one component (such as sexual attraction) it could cease to be romantic.

[my my my!]

Its kinda easy for you to say that cause your bi i believe (sorry if I'm recollection is wrong).
For some people gender preference isn't that fluid.a change in gender could affect if your partner is sexually attracted to you.it is possible to fall out of romantically in love with someone but continue to love them as a person.we all know that romantic love is a combination of sexual attraction, intimacy and strong feelings.lose one component (such as sexual attraction) it could cease to be romantic.

Exactly this.

Amber speaks the truth.

People fall in love with a total package, not just a brain or a soul.
Physical attraction is part of love. If the physical attraction is gone, there is not enough love to stay together, just enough love to still be friends or be completely separate.