Losing my erection when penetrated ...

[loren]

just mind .. i am the same

me too

[Dino Velvet]

Isn't the title of this thread a Bon Jovi song?!

Yeah, I think I heard that song too.


"Fucked in the ass, and now you're soft.
You give penetration a ba'ad name..."

[Chaotic]

Yeah, I think I heard that song too.


"Fucked in the ass, and now you're soft.
You give penetration a ba'ad name..."

Well played!

[theone1982]

Yeah, I think I heard that song too.


"Fucked in the ass, and now you're soft.
You give penetration a ba'ad name..."

It was that one? I thought it was "Oh, I'm halfway hard! Ohhhh, oh, but when you fuck me I go sofffftttt! Take my hand, and I'll get hard again, I swear!"

[LisaKampen]

Hi,

it depends how horny I am.
Sometimes it stays during the fuck, sometimes it goes. But thats not really important for me at that moment, because I like this "inside me".

Like some guys told before, a Cialis or Viagra could help.


Lisa

[sunairco]

True, it may be a state of mind, but has anyone given the thought perhaps why? For most men, sustaining an erection is accompanied by visual and aural stimulation. If a chick moans, talks dirty, or for that matter any physical feedback, it enhances that stimulation. Having sex in the dark with a chick that's self conscious about her body image and laying there like a piece of meat and you know she's just enduring every minute to get it over with in a recipe for a flacid member. Unless you just tune her out and get it on thinking about the last playboy playmate foldout that you seen or some other surrogate mindfuck, you're fucking a hole by proxy, you're able to keep it hard. So too in this situation. Prior to being penetrated you're thinking about all kinds of erotic thoughts. That shifts once you're penetrated as you're mind first is preoccupied with the initial penetration and then you're mind is focused on the pleasure or pain whichever you're experiencing. You're mind becomes hyperfocused on what's going on down there and how you feel, not the erotic image or sexual stimulation of the brain. The male mind is different, you need that psychosexual stimulation for the tumenscence to occur. How many TS or gay videos that you've seen have the bottom staring up at the ceiling or suspiciously somewhere else? They're most likely watching a video or watching someone else mind fluffing them during the shoot to stay hard keeping their mind of the penetrative event and on something visually stimulating.

[Elysian]

Losing one's erection whilst being penetrated is firstly a natural response mechanism for males. Anything of width entering past the sphincter muscles will cause this, due in part to the brain receiving 'need to defecate' signals. Blood flow is switched from the genitals to the muscles in the colon. This can be overcome as a 'learned' response during sex, something you habituate yourself to over time.

It helps to be aroused, very aroused, focus your mind on the 'eroticism' of the sex, you need to learn to persuade your brain to remain in arousal state.

As the poster stated earlier, taking a quarter or half a tab of Dostinex (Cabergoline) every 4 days will certainly help to open up the blood vessels and get and keep that blood flowing to the erogenous zones. Before taking any drug, do the research first on side and inhibitory effects.

[sunairco]

I'd believe that any nurse would take issue with this from practical experience adminstering an enema to a male. Same with a hydrotherapist adminsitering a colonic irrigation. Both have wittnessed too many accidental erections inserting a nozzle or specula.

Losing one's erection whilst being penetrated is firstly a natural response mechanism for males. Anything of width entering past the sphincter muscles will cause this, due in part to the brain receiving 'need to defecate' signals. Blood flow is switched from the genitals to the muscles in the colon. This can be overcome as a 'learned' response during sex, something you habituate yourself to over time.

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[Elysian]

I'd believe that any nurse would take issue with this from practical experience...

I agree, but would they take issue? The question is about maintaining an erection once penetrated (by penis or dildo)? I should think they will be exceptions. Nevertheless, a penis and dildo carry more width than an enema or colonic irrigation equipment. Natural mechanisms will most certainly play a part in deflating an erection...as you are no doubt aware, the anus is an natural outlet, not an inlet.

[Jake4]

I always stay hard when I get a cock in me.