Sex as a Weapon: Withholding Sex From Your Partner As A Means Of Control

[www.tglovers.com]

Is it ever ok?

[dopearope]

dump her and find a new girl. not difficult is it?

[Silcc69]

UGh no sexy shirt this time girl!

[lovesall]

There is always more fish in the pond....

[Davida]

i'm only aloud sex on the weekends.

[www.tglovers.com]

UGh no sexy shirt this time girl!

No sexy shirt! Got tired of hearing the guys say it was a distraction or that my message was diluted by my attire. Hopefully by covering up...I won't have to continuously defend my wardrobe.

[BigDF]

I personally do not think you should withhold sex from your partner as a means of emotional manipulation or control. This applies to both men and women, but I know of guys who have done this to their wives and girlfriends. This can really damage a relationship, sometimes beyond repair.

My wife and I have been married for nearly 22 years and the last time we had sex was roughly around our tenth wedding anniversary. At first I thought the reason she was denying me was because I did something to annoy her (sex as a weapon, as we're talking about) but I finally realized it is an emotional issue with her dating back to when she was a kid. She's been trying to work it out ever since and I have managed to stay faithful to her, even though I use sites like these to look at beautiful women and fantasize about being with them.

I see a lot of bullshit answers about things on here, mainly from guys who are talking out of their asses. Whatever. Sex is a means of expressing your love for your partner in a physical manner, but it is not the only means of expressing love. Would you withhold your love from your partner as way of controlling them?

[russtafa]

Thats why hookers make money

[Helvis2012]

It happens.....

[spankrod]

Nothing a little "Surprise! Buttsecks!" can't get around.