Originally Posted by gaiseric
If you've e-mailed her and got a response, I suggest you ring and make the appointment as soon as poss before the shyness/nerves stop you. Just pick up the phone and dial the number - that's what I did for my first time and I was in the same position as you.
For myself, I can never understand all the people going on about 'I need courage etc '. Surely all you have to do is tell yourself 'I'm going to do something new and enjoy it' and then pick up the phone. That's how I did it. (Robinhood81 - this is not meant as a dig at you - more a general opinion on my part)
It's not just the calling part though, it's also the fact that you have to travel down there. My "first experience", although not much of an experience at all, (I still consider myself to be a first timer) involved me finally getting the courage to call, then spending over an hour driving through horrible traffic, only to arrive and the girl to answer the phone and tell me I had to wait 30 mins. This 30 mins turned into nearly an hour and when I eventually did get in, the person who answered was nothing like the person I thought I was going to be meeting. I was a victim of my own naivety, I didn't have a clue that the profiles on eros were mostly complete fakes. I should have walked away but I didn't (god knows why!), I went in, and had a mess around, but couldn't get into it at all because I was pissed off, turned off and felt kinda cheated.
Anyway, my rather long winded point is, calling is only part of it, actually travelling down there is the bit that requires courage, and sadly that can, like it did for me, end up leading to an off putting experience, and a waste of time and money.
I guess at least I learnt my lesson, and it led me to doing research and finding out about forums like this, although I do think that there a lot of fake reviews on here, some more obvious than others (dave and his asian escort agency recommendation springs to mind lol)!
Hopefully when I go to be see my 2nd I'll have a great time...now if only the ones I choose would answer there dam phone when I call!!! xD