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08-13-2009 #71
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Originally Posted by blackrob
its a birth defect. it can and will be corrected.
and more guys do not prefer preops.
very rarely does a man continue to have interest in me after he finds out i dont have a vagina.
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08-13-2009 #72Originally Posted by SexChangeTranny.com
Thx for sharing this story to all of us Danielle.
Yes you are a strong girl (not to mention that you are beautiful and smart too).
your future will be fine, because you are honest and you know what you want!
you go girl!
A World Class Companion
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08-13-2009 #73
Thats their loss Aly , as you are such a nice girl.
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08-14-2009 #74
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Originally Posted by blackrobOriginally Posted by CaptainGeech
transwomen are lusted after and fetishized for their cocks have driven
home to me the fact that the transcommunity is not the place for me.
The real world in which I live, I am loved, valued and respected for the
woman that I am.
I am a woman who has never identified as a HungAngels, Ts, Tranny,
Tgirl, Shemale, Transsexual, Ladyboy, or gay nor has anyone ever
designated me as such, even when I was pre op.
I have stated it before, but it appears that it bears repeating, if a woman
is contemplating GRS, plan accordinglly for her new life ahead of her, and
run do not walk away from the transcommunity the minute you get up off
the operating table.
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08-14-2009 #75
I think some healing would need to take place before running. And i mean that in both senses ... Plan your new life but you also need to remember your past and gain a sense of perspective and closure. Thats just my opinion though.
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08-14-2009 #76
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Thanks Rockabilly!
Originally Posted by peggygee
I love how empowered you make me feel.
Like no one else in the online world.
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08-14-2009 #77
Don't mention it Aly , you'll find a guy who loves you for who you are ... a smart , funny and pretty girl. Later Aly
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08-14-2009 #78
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Originally Posted by rockabillyOriginally Posted by Alyssa87
some small way.
Danielle, I truly appreciate your sharing so many apects of your iife, your
surgical results, and more importantly your hopes, wishes, dreams, and
fears.
Rockabilly, Thomas Wolfe, wrote that you "can never go home again."
I would proffer that for the post op, perhaps she shouldn't.
After surgery she will find that many things have changed, She no longer
tends to have as much in common with her pre op Sisters. Transition
issues are now for the most part behind her, so they don't have that in
common.
She most likely will no longer desire to frequent the gay and tranny clubs,
if she ever did, as most men there will be seeking seeking cock, and she
no longer has one.
Alongst those lines a woman who as a pre op escorted may now find that
revenue stream has dried up or at that she will continue to escort as a
post op, or perhaps she has plans to work in a mainstream career.
But it is almost a certainty that many of the men, the tricks, the trade, that
were interested in her when she had a penis will no longer be interested.
While the picture that I have painted may sound bleak, in actuality it is
far from that.
Because the true transsexual, the woman who truly suffered angst from
gender dysphoria is now free of the people and the organ that produced it.
She no longer has to deal with the cock-hound, the tranny-chaser, the
men who want her to fuck them, to committ an act that crushess her soul
each time she does it.
She is now free to leave the tranny ghetto, with all of it's negativity and
misery, and to assimilate into main-stream society.
Free to walk out of the darkness, and into the sunlight.
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08-14-2009 #79
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"But it is almost a certainty that many of the men, the tricks, the trade, that
were interested in her when she had a penis will no longer be interested.
While the picture that I have painted may sound bleak, in actuality it is
far from that.
Because the true transsexual, the woman who truly suffered angst from
gender dysphoria is now free of the people and the organ that produced it.
She no longer has to deal with the cock-hound, the tranny-chaser, the
men who want her to fuck them, to committ an act that crushess her soul
each time she does it.
She is now free to leave the tranny ghetto, with all of it's negativity and
misery, and to assimilate into main-stream society.
Free to walk out of the darkness, and into the sunlight. "
that gave me the chills.
like u sent spies to my soul.
i feel that way, but as articulate as i can be, couldnt word it that well.
thanks again. i'm saving this among my favorite poetry and prose.
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08-14-2009 #80
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Originally Posted by Alyssa87