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Thread: Is it deception?
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07-12-2009 #1
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Is it deception?
First post here. I've been having some thoughts about something and wouldn't mind the view of others.
I believe we all wear masks and that the real experience begins once it's no longer objective, some come out of the factory absolutely stunning while some come out a little flawed needing a little tweaking before becoming gorgeous.
My question is, do you find plastic surgery deceptive? If you met someone whom you were attracted to and later found out that they had a little work done to themselves, would you feel deceived? What would your initial response be?
Some women wear clothing to make it look like they have more than what they actually have is a little deceptive but still are allowed to do so without heavy critique. But when it comes to cosmetic surgery it becomes a war of morals.
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07-12-2009 #2
Re: Is it deception?
Originally Posted by geddajae
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07-12-2009 #3
Re: Is it deception?
Originally Posted by geddajae
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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07-12-2009 #4
Re: Is it deception?
Originally Posted by geddajae
"...later found out that they had a little work done to themselves, would you feel deceived"? "War of morals"? "Allowed to do so without heavy critique"?
I think you are describing a guy who is ultimately a very thin-skinned and controlling man. And any guy who would feel so cheated is entirely self-focused and denominating the relationship using only her physical assets.
Other people's lives and personal choices are not about you, your superficiality or your morals.
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07-12-2009 #5
Re: Is it deception?
Originally Posted by phobun
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07-12-2009 #6
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Well it depends if its a one time only thing then who cares but if its more than one surgery then I think there are deeper problems than physical features and wont stay too long. Most women that I seen had plastic surgery looked a lot better before being worked on with very few exceptions. If I was in a serious relationship then I would only accept a boob job or ass implants because some women really are depressed that they didn't blossom more but anything else IMO is just shallow.
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07-12-2009 #7
Re: Is it deception?
Originally Posted by dgs925
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07-12-2009 #8Originally Posted by 62des
Just having a long list of surgeries doesn't, in itself, make someone look "over surged" or having deep rooted psychological problems. All depends on circumstance.
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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07-12-2009 #9
Re: Is it deception?
Originally Posted by dgs925
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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07-12-2009 #10
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Originally Posted by SarahG