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Thread: Should I be Shady or Not?????
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01-27-2009 #31
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Originally Posted by scroller
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01-27-2009 #32
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Remind me to Never piss off a T if I were to date one...... Julie my personal Opinion is that let it go,Yeah It would be funny as shit but why waste ur time on it?
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01-27-2009 #33
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This is Scary
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01-27-2009 #34
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fuck that there is no such thing as karma
out the bastard to his new gf, cheaters deserve that.
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01-27-2009 #35
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What really do you have to gain by discussing it with the new girlfriend? Really, now you are just wasting time even thinking about it.... nothing will be accomplished. Will you feel better if you can use peoples' ignorance and bigotry to persecute him? Do you think he is going to learn something? Doubtful.
Anger and resentment are completely wasted energy.
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01-27-2009 #36Originally Posted by Danielle Foxx
1. As long as you don’t tell, he’ll always owe you a favor, big time. I guarantee you will cross paths again.
2. Do you really think that you could maybe break up his relationship, and he will do nothing back to you? I believe that he has the potential to hurt your earning a livelihood, short or long term. Or he could also interfere with your future relationships.
3. He has his own karma, without your help, he’ll either mess up what he currently has, or maybe this was the one he was really meant to be with.
4. Someone already pointed out that it is not that hard to defend oneself against accusations from an ex. It could even have the exact opposite effect of what you intended. And don’t’ be deluded with that, “you are doing her a favor” line either.
5. Karma is real. Just holding on to the negative energy has an effect on your body. Short term, weakened immune system; long term chronic conditions. The opposite is doing good things, you will feel better about yourself and behave accordingly. And that’s just the first level. The effects will ripple out in your life and be returned to you. I have had amazing things happen to me.
Lastly, I wrote a song about a failed relationship long ago, which basically said that though it did not work out, I remembered the good times, and there were more coming in the future from somewhere else. It turned out to be true. I had some good times since then and you will too. That I will also guarantee.
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01-27-2009 #37
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take the high road. tell her he's a cheatin ass and the next time u see him kick him in the nutts
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01-27-2009 #38
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If you really just want to get back at him tell her he is a cheating bastard and that is why you dumped his sorry ass. This doesn't demean you in any way and is about his bad behavior and it is kind of like taking the high road, with a bit of vented anger .
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01-27-2009 #39
You broke up with him. It's over. He's not stalking you or anything.
But if you do this, you've given him a big reason to fuck with your shit. And as an escort, the last thing you need is someone looking to fuck with your shit. And now he's got nothing to lose because you played your trump card already.
Think of it this way: would you pay $2,000 to tell her? Because if he starts fucking with your business to get back at you, it could easily cost you more than that.
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01-27-2009 #40
I would definitely tell! Same type of stuff happens in my world.
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