How Does it feel to be a trick

[keepingitreal470]

All I can say is I hope to no man I've ever dated ever felt like a "trick" after meeting me. I would hope that instead he feels like he just had a fun time with a friend, and that he would look forward to spending time with me again.

I think calling a man who has the CLASS to be willing to help his lady of the evening out with a little green to thank her for pleasing him with her body a "trick" or "john" is a derrogatory ghetto street term akin to calling a transsexual a "tranny," only worse.
No tricks at my house, only TREATS!

Giggles,
TS Jamie

Consider the source. Enough said.

[MrF]

Interesting question, "How does it feel to be a trick ?". I suspect that "escorts" see most "clients" as tricks. The words "escorts" and "clients" are such nice euphemisms !

In rare case (how rare depends on the nature of the trick) there may be a connection between client/escort -- a sexual excitement which is mutual, perhaps a bit of empathy and friendship -- but it is mostly a numbers game for the girls and often a cold empty experience for the guys. A big part of how "cold and empty" it feels would depend simply on how much money the guy has. If he has a lot of money, then it's a trivial expense, and so who cares ? Personally, I cannot afford $200+ for a short sexual experience, so it's easy for me to avoid, having some knowledge of what I'm avoiding. The analogy would be an expensive restaurant. If you've got the money to eat there, fine, more power to you. But I know how to cook at home.

[Jonny29]

Mimi,

I don't like taking chances with my money on working girls( Video poker is a different story). I stay away from craigs list and eros.
I like to go to the parties to see the girls in person and only then decide to part with my money.

Buyers remorse still occurs when I AM or PERCEIVE that I am treated like a trick. Some of the girls will push you so quick and rush you out ( Under 20 minutes). I make a mental note never to see her again and she doesn't get the problem that I HAVE. Yes I understand that she is in a hurry to see the next guy and make more money but I then will choose to spend MY MONEY on someone else who is as pretty and does not make me feel that she is in a rush.
The sentiments of one of the other posters that she tries to make the guy feel like he just spent time with a friend is exactly what I do enjoy! Then I will put her into my regular rotation so to speak.

[needsum]

All I can say is I hope to no man I've ever dated ever felt like a "trick" after meeting me. I would hope that instead he feels like he just had a fun time with a friend, and that he would look forward to spending time with me again.

I think calling a man who has the CLASS to be willing to help his lady of the evening out with a little green to thank her for pleasing him with her body a "trick" or "john" is a derrogatory ghetto street term akin to calling a transsexual a "tranny," only worse.

No tricks at my house, only TREATS!

Giggles,
TS Jamie

Well said! I think the kind of guy who goes with a girl who openly refers to him and other "clients" as tricks gets what he deserves.

I've had some experience with escorts, and ofr me its about finding some mutually beneficial connection. So, like saifan said, I do my research and find out if the woman I'm seeing is going to be the kind of woman I'm looking for. If I want a cheap get-off, I'll go jerkoff in a video booth for the price of a few tokens and save my hard earned $$ for something more worthwile.

blah blah..when ur giving a girl money to fuck u ur a trick, referring to urself as a toaster or a giraffe doesnt make u less of a trick, it simply makes u a deluded trick...

blah blah yourself. I consider the word trick to be derogatory, and as mimi is unsig it in this thread, as an insult. I'm not stupid, I know I'm paying for sex--I'm not trying to deny the fact that the only reaosn why I'm with a particular girl is because I'm paying her to be there.

But if you have a lower class mentality and want to look at things purely from a perspective of "trick" and "whore" then you are tagging those people as some "thing" based on what they do rather than for who they are. I for one don't just judge someone solely on face value. I don't consider an escort a whore, nor do I consider a client a trick, based solely on the actions they are performing.

Its a state of mind that makes you who you are. if you think because you pay a girl to fuck you that you're a "trick" then so be it. I don't pay for that experience. Like I said in my original post, I'm looking for more than just getting fucked. I do research and find a girl that will give me more than just a half hearted bang in the back of a car. If I'm going to spend my money on something like this, then I make sure that I get what I'm looking for, end of story.

So go for it--label us all tricks and ho's, I don't really care. It just paints a broader picture of who you are when you generalize shit like that.

[Ryz]

i thought trick meant a hoe

i always thought a trick was the man with money \
and i also though tricks understood the game
and knew their place but apparently not

apparently.... :/

[blakpadi]

I rather like it that way,the pay for play.I have a steady that I see and sometimes she does not want the $...but I insist! Once whan I got back home she had put my $ that I left on her nightstand back in my back pocket while I was washing up in the bathroom,found it when I got home...our next time together I left it in her medicine cabinet! I've been married,done that,I like living alone,just my preference...

[mimiplastique]

ALOT OF ANGRY RESPONSES


PLEASE DO NOT BE MAD AT ME . IT IS NOT MY FAULT YOU PAY FOR SEX
NOT MY FAULT I SELL IT !
I JUST ASKED A SIMPLE QUESTION
NO DIRECT DISRESPECT TOWARDS ANY ONE
BUT IF YOUR SHOE IS FITTING SNUG ....

[Jericho]

1.) do you like taking a chance with your hard earned money

Just another service industry....If the food's shit, you don't eat there again

[Odelay]

Hillarious thread, not so much from the question but from the answers.

Listen up: "We're all tricks!"

You pay, always. Or if you're in college and your parents are shelling out $10k - $30 k per year for your lifestyle, then they pay. Either way, everyone always pays some price (in money) for enjoying the company of women (gg or tg). There are always costs... cab rides, restaurant bills, "can you lend me $120 for books this semester" expenditures, etc.

And if you think that college girl, or MILF, or pole dancer, or co-worker is being dead honest with you after she fucks your hairy, overweight, egotistical ass, just remember, one of the biggest lies in every human language is... "I love you."

So if you insist on sitting on that high and mighty horse named delusion, stay up there and enjoy the ride.

[Blazr63]

It's all in the research and doing your homework. There's no shortage of info / reviews. Escorts who enjoy their work show it and have good reviews. See those and don't waste money or time on the rest. Then it's a win / win but when it's not, like Robert Plant sang, "It's nobody's fault but mine".