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Thread: Name and Gender Change
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12-08-2008 #11Originally Posted by KellyShore
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12-08-2008 #12Originally Posted by Aurora
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12-08-2008 #13
Congratulations on that ...! Just be yourself your truth will prevail girl. you'll see it.
"I used to dream, it became a reality. Now the reality it feels like a dream..." You are who you truly believe you are, I am now the one my mirror reflected .
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12-08-2008 #14
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Nice to hear from you, Juliana!
You're absolutely radiant! Good luck and best wishes!
Come and admire Suzan's kinky drawings
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12-08-2008 #15
California is really easy for it from everything I've read.
They might be the only state that will change your legal sex status (as far as the state is concerned) for preops.
Like texas will let preops have a female DL, but as far as Texas law goes (see littleton case) your blood determines your legal sex status, so your BC & marriage rights will all be defined based on your chromosomes.
melissacarter is correct about federal agencies being different. A preop that CA has said to be female legally, won't be in the eyes of the feds (as far as SSA and passports go) until after SRS.
The reason why the courts handle legal sex status changes in CA, is because CA has a fairly vague definition of legal sex status, and so if you lay out enough evidence to support your claim, you can get a judge to sign off on you being legally female (in the eyes of CA) while preop. Other states only care about the SRS surgeon's documentation- which is what allows other states to handle it without court hearings (all you have to do is show them whatever documentation they ask for).
As far as giving a reason for your name change request, you don't even have to bring up trans stuff if you don't want to. In most (all?) states, simply saying "this is the name I want to have" is as good a justification as any. Almost every time I have heard of a judge thinking otherwise, his objections ended up being overturned on appeal. But, if you've had SRS, then it should be a real no brainer for the court (and an even easier one if you're unmarried and without children).
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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12-08-2008 #16
thanks cinthya, xact, leora (how are you girl?) and sarah
yea, also over here in california, i get to have a new birth certificate which i think is really cool.
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12-08-2008 #17Originally Posted by SarahG
They did not ask me to drop my drawers.
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12-08-2008 #18Originally Posted by melissacarter
And maybe its easier to withdraw from life
With all of its misery and wretched lies
If we're dead when tomorrow's gone
The Big Machine will just move on
Still we cling afraid we'll fall
Clinging like the memory which haunts us all
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12-08-2008 #19
congrats
in arizona the judge just asked why i wanted to change my name and if i was doing it to avoid any debts ......... i said i'm transgender and nope and he said "congrats marissa and aproved"
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12-08-2008 #20
double post
seems like this site is messing up a lot lately