Etiquette when talking to TS ladies

[NYCe]

Ok. So why do I see these words used everywhere, from the very ladies themselves when they post about events or on flyers? It's all very confusing.

Shemale, Tranny, Tgirls, hell Hungangels are all porn words/terms. They're pretty much only used for marketing purposes, not real life. You gotta go with what the people know and have come to expect.

[i_wuv_shemales]

Ok. So why do I see these words used everywhere, from the very ladies themselves when they post about events or on flyers? It's all very confusing.

Shemale, Tranny, Tgirls, hell Hungangels are all porn words/terms. They're pretty much only used for marketing purposes, not real life. You gotta go with what the people know and have come to expect.

Ah. I totally get you now. So "ladies" then. Well, that's answered

[TSLoverUK999]

Relax man, its just that rookies always post these types of questions on here, its just sometimes it comes across like they're after the secret password to get laid.

They're just human beings so all you have to do is treat them that way and as normal once you have someone's confidence that is when you can ask personal questions.

Shemale & tranny etc are porn terms. I've always been a fan of TG, TV, CD, GG & MM, if you have to bracket someone.

[TrueBeauty TS]

Now one of you said don't use shemale. That's out. Then another says "don't use tranny". Ok. So why do I see these words used everywhere, from the very ladies themselves when they post about events or on flyers? It's all very confusing.

Talking ABOUT people is different than talking TO people. For example, if you are talking about African-Americans that's fine, but you wouldn't go up to someone and say "Hello, Mr. African-American!"

While TS girls may be classified at times as Trannys, Shemales, Chicks with dicks, etc.... if you ever approach one in public, you would be best served to use the "regular" terms of "she, her, female or girl".



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[BeardedOne]

Also, I will not stand for someone twisting my words out to make it seem like I think these ladies are something other than human. So please don't try it.

Don't get your panties in a bunch (Especially here, where there are plenty that would be happy to do it for you). It was just an expressed opinion, something that we have an overabundance of on this forum.

I have already said that I am new to this "world" so to speak, and I want to join it as a respectful admirer of these wonderdul ladies.

So far, you're doing just fine. Just remember to signal before you turn.

Now one of you said don't use shemale. That's out. Then another says "don't use tranny". Ok. So why do I see these words used everywhere, from the very ladies themselves when they post about events or on flyers? It's all very confusing.

It's a community thing. 'Shemale' is pretty much a commercial porn term that the world-at-large uses to label a different gender that they have typically only seen in a porn environment (Note: I count Maury and Springer as 'porn environments').

'Tranny' is that thing in your car that shifts varying gear ratios to efficiently move the vehicle on its way, sometimes called a transaxle.

Within the community/enclave/clique/club of TS/TG variant people, you'll often hear the terms, but most often used by the TS/TG people themselves. A good example being that the late comedian, Richard Pryor could say the word 'nigger' a hundred times in front of an audience and people would laugh, but if Shrubya used the same word in a speech on the South Lawn there'd surely be riots in the streets. It's a matter of social context.

Lastly, a few folx have responded with variations of "You've answered your own question", so you already seem to have a pretty good handle on how to behave in this asylum. Good show out of the gate.

[Luna555]

agree with True Beauty,

there isn't a respectfulway to ask a girl that...if I was asked that id immidietly think the guy just wants sex.

its great that you know who you are attracted to and what you "preffer". and it will be hard since you preffer a pre op ts, as opposed to a guy that doesn't have a "prefferece". and even harder will be to find a girl who is non op, which is what it seems you are looking for, if your trully wanting a REAL relationship. just because you meet a girl and she is pre op that doesn't mean she will always be, she might be planning to do it later on in her life and also a girl might be non op at the moment but later feel that she want to get srs.

but as allot of the people said its not a good question to ask...especially not in the beginning of getting to know her. and as everyone has statedyou answered you own question you wouldn't ask a gg if she has hanging lips so what makes you think ts are any different wen it comes to being treated with respect. if you think the " courtship" differce between a gg and a ts its only because you view us as different and its all in your head.

other things you might want to think about is whether your ready and not just a fantasy, since you haven't had any experince... gee now that im thinking about it since you think the courtship differs between a ts and gg I wonder what you think the relationship with a ts might be like?!? if you decide your not ready then search up an escort and pay her, don't make a girl that you haven't paid get her hopes high if all you want is sex.

[Alyssa87]

TS is the most respectful i guess.
But if you’re kicking it, you shouldn’t say 'you’re a hot ts'. girl or young woman works best.

[speaking for myself]
and if im interested or attracted to a guy, i tell him right off the bat that i have a penis in my panties (if i feel safe). just to clear the air.

Sooooo, if a girl seems reluctant to answer the sort of questions you deem important- i probably means youre not going to get anywhere with her anyway.
And since youre so nice and respectful, you'll step off politely.

And dont say
"Thats why you a fuckin man anyway!" as she walks away- I get that sometimes. GhettoTrash

[i_wuv_shemales]

agree with True Beauty,

there isn't a respectfulway to ask a girl that...if I was asked that id immidietly think the guy just wants sex.

its great that you know who you are attracted to and what you "preffer". and it will be hard since you preffer a pre op ts, as opposed to a guy that doesn't have a "prefferece". and even harder will be to find a girl who is non op, which is what it seems you are looking for, if your trully wanting a REAL relationship. just because you meet a girl and she is pre op that doesn't mean she will always be, she might be planning to do it later on in her life and also a girl might be non op at the moment but later feel that she want to get srs.

but as allot of the people said its not a good question to ask...especially not in the beginning of getting to know her. and as everyone has statedyou answered you own question you wouldn't ask a gg if she has hanging lips so what makes you think ts are any different wen it comes to being treated with respect. if you think the " courtship" differce between a gg and a ts its only because you view us as different and its all in your head.

other things you might want to think about is whether your ready and not just a fantasy, since you haven't had any experince... gee now that im thinking about it since you think the courtship differs between a ts and gg I wonder what you think the relationship with a ts might be like?!? if you decide your not ready then search up an escort and pay her, don't make a girl that you haven't paid get her hopes high if all you want is sex.

What a reply. Thank you; I'll definitely take all this into consideration.

[mbf]

I usually refer to them as

"those who won't date me"

it has been appropriate in every single occasions so far

[Luna555]

TS is the most respectful i guess.
But if you’re kicking it, you shouldn’t say 'you’re a hot ts'. girl or young woman works best.

And since youre so nice and respectful, you'll step off politely.

And dont say
"Thats why you a fuckin man anyway!" as she walks away- I get that sometimes. GhettoTrash

yep I totally agree. that there is the most disrespectful thing ever.