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[Felicia Katt]

thanks, again, all or almost all, anyhow. I'm honored and humbled and heartened all at once by all you said. or almost all, anyhow

meow

FK

[yodajazz]

Wow, , thanks to Nicole for the cut and paste bump, and to everyone else for the nice props. I just posted that to get some things off my chest, (first time I ever wanted less chest, by the way) and truly had no idea it would have any resonance with anyone else.

meow

FK

You're very welcome, Felecia. You deserve the props, and so does that post. "Poignant' is the word that comes to mind. Thank you for making it.

Yes I think "poignant" is the word that comes t my mind also. So many well taken points. Why would someone want to hand out where they are insulted? This forum is for the T community and those that love them. So why should people be criticized for complimenting someone? Of course Felicia put it a lot better.

Why is being an 'ass kisser' here such a big deal, when there are plenty of cocks on display, as well as plenty of asses for viewer enjoyment?

Thanks Nichole Dupree for reposting this. And to Felicia you are greatly appreciated by many here, beside myself.

[justatransgirl]

Thanks Felicia. Excellent comments.

As everyone knows, and regardless of how you feel about it several girls have left the site or greatly reduced their participation.

I'm in the business of bringing pleasure and enjoyment into people's lives and the negativity has worn on me too. Like many of the other girls, I've tried to honestly open myself up and give people a glimpse into my life and who I am as a person. But lately it's resulted in negativity. I'm here to have fun, not to leave sad or angry. I can get enough of that in real life.

I decided a couple of weeks ago that at least for awhile, I would be more selective in my commentary as I'm not here to alienate people, nor is it my job to change peoples minds about how they see transsexuals or escorts or porn entertainers.

So have a Happy New Year and hopefully the new year will bring us all back together in a respectful and fun way. You know what they say... "The family that plays together, stays together..."

Giggle,
TS Jamie

[thx1138]

I'm in a quandary. Part of me wants to agree wholeheartedly with Felicia's comments. The other part of me fears I'll be branded as a tranny ass kissing faggot! What to do? Help!

[johnb]

Felicia's brain is better than her legs...and that's saying something

[eggbert]

I for one relish any opportunity to kiss Felicias' ass as well as any other girl on this site. Well spoken FK.

[Kriss]

1. I don't post as often as I used to because of the pervasive negativity here. Why bother to whisper my opinions, if they are going to be outshouted by everyone else's rants and raves and rancor.

FK

THEN SPEAK UP, DON'T WHISPER! opinions are two a penny. RANTS AND RAVES AND RANCOUR ARE GOOD AND INTERESTING AND ENTERTAINING, THEY BRING PEOPLE IN TO TOPICS MORE THAN BLAND OPINIONS!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2. I don't engage in the heated discussions as much as I used to, because of all the personal attacks that inevitably invites. Why should I weigh in on a controversy only to get whipped about my looks, or my gender status, or my height or what have you? Maybe I am shallow, or insecure, but part of why I come here is for a little validation or even adulation, and those are in short supply. Not only from the people who are the ones throwing all the hate, but from anyone else who might have a kind word or two, but now withholds them, lest they be called a kiss ass or a brown nose or otherwise drawn into the line of fire.
FK

It's like this, you CAN'T EXPECT ADULATION. You may get it if people adore you but why should they do that? And why would you want it from people who don't know you? You ARE SHALLOW AND INSECURE. Sort yourself out for christ's sake, you seem to have let your EGO totally govern your sense of worth. What about your SELF?
Your validation must come from the knowledge that you are good and worthy, not from the OPINIONS of others.
HOW DARE YOU EXPECT ADULATION? what next? RESPECT?

I think the reason people may respond badly to you is that your posts are often very SMUG, like YOU are the main act on the stage and everyone else is a mere heckler

But i think it's the ass kissers who draw fire to you, so many bandwagon jumpers and sycophants here

YOU PEOPLE ALL NEED A GOOD TYRANT TO RULE YOU LIKE THE ZOMBIE SHEEP YOU ARE

the rest of your rant was good stuff tho

[trish]

THEN SPEAK UP, DON'T WHISPER! opinions are two a penny. RANTS AND RAVES AND RANCOUR ARE GOOD AND INTERESTING AND ENTERTAINING, THEY BRING PEOPLE IN TO TOPICS MORE THAN BLAND OPINIONS!!! !!!!

c'mon kriss, with all your conspiracy rants, i thought you'd be suspicious of establishment capitalism HA might want to bring the crowds here with entertaining rancour, but what's in it for us?

now i know you guys never go around praising each other. at least not the way girls do. your style of praise is razzing and poking fun. but girls do not always have those sorts of barriers and obstacles to navigate. often we just come right out tell somebody what we think of them...even if what we're thinking is

"Felicia you're just fucking awesome. When I read your posts (on "disgusted") two nights ago it was like someone was very carefully explaining my own thoughts to me...putting them into place and expressing them like i never could. thank you, girl."

if that sounds like adulation.....well, it is; and it is also the truth.

[Legend]

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[peggygee]

I think the reason people may respond badly to you is that your posts are often very SMUG, like YOU are the main act on the stage and everyone else is a mere heckler

the rest of your rant was good stuff tho

Kriss, long time no see.

Gotta say that I can't agree with you about Felicea's posts being smug.

I have always found her posts to be written with great humility. They are
well thought out, are often very witty.

I have never known of her inciting or contributing to flaming or
disharmony on the forum.

I've said it once, but it bears repeating, my take on her is that she is a
highly valued member and contributor to our forum.