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12-04-2007 #41
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Originally Posted by Night Rider
As far as having a relationship with an escort... It's hard enough to get a relationship to work well at baseline; the extra baggage is just asking for trouble: Emotional/attachment issues, STD risks, dangers of violence, etc.
Personally, I could not handle my girl being with someone else while also dating me. In this case, I don't believe that work can be separated from one's personal life effectively.
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12-04-2007 #42Originally Posted by redtiger
"Can the guy she's with handle her pulling down more money than him?" Obviously, it depends on the guy, and similarly it depends on the woman as to whether she could deal with him making less money than she does, but that's all really irrelevant. What's relevant is that the success of this possible LTR in the scenario you give is based entirely on money, and if the more traditional relationships between GGs and men are anything to go on, LTRs like that don't really work... even in cases where neither one is employed in the sex trade. Thus, we can expect that in a situation such as you've described, it'd be more of the same, though I'd imagine such a relationship would probably disintegrate faster. But then, when you consider the types of guys who get into these "relationships", they're looking to be taken care of anyway, so they'd probably stick around at least long enough to find someone else to mooch off of, rather than let their pride get in the way.
I was also going to reply to Night Rider's comment, but Tobe said it all really, so...
"We are irritated by rascals, intolerant of fools, and prepared to love the rest. But where are they?"- Mignon McLaughlin
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12-04-2007 #43
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Originally Posted by Night Rider
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12-04-2007 #44
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Originally Posted by Tobe
Men don't care about the hang ups, it's in our genes to be shallow and not give a fuck.
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12-04-2007 #45Originally Posted by Night Rider
"Can't worry about what another nigga think, now that's liberation and baby I want it."
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12-04-2007 #46
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Originally Posted by Fox
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12-04-2007 #47
Heh, either way, I was just looking for an excuse to post that.
"Can't worry about what another nigga think, now that's liberation and baby I want it."
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12-04-2007 #48
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Well I'm glad you got that off your chest..
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12-04-2007 #49
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Originally Posted by Night Rider
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12-04-2007 #50
Re: (For the Gentlemen) Would you be able to handle a....
Originally Posted by Night Rider
But the answer is, yes, I have had relationships with escorts and continue to. I see them, we have a nice time, I fuck them, we talk some, I pay them. There's nothing in the john-whore arrangement says you can't have a relationship. But it will always be a john-whore relationship.
But a SO relationship with a working escort? No, I have never tried and never would. Sorry, she would have to stop.