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10-20-2007 #1
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Question for "straight" guys
Since many times the place to find a cute TS is a gay bar or at least
gay friendly, how are you supposed to handle an advance from gay men,
if you don't swing that way? I was recently in Florida and a girl told me
these guys said "hi". Minutes later, one walks by and says " hi baby".
My reaction is to ignore them and hope they catch the hint. A TS
friend of mine says I should kindly say "I'm flattered, but I'm here for
the girls", or something like that. Anyone else ever encounter this? How'd
you handle it?
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10-20-2007 #2
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Well although I would LOVE to meet a really sexy tgirl, its not NEARLY enough to make me go to a gay bar. Although I have absolutely nothing against gays, going to a place like that would make me a little homophobic, plus its a place where guys like guys so there's a 100% more chance of getting hit on and that's not my style. My attitude is, if I meet one hooray for me but I'm not gonna go lookin at a gay bar, there's WAY TOO MANY beautiful GG's women in straight clubs to even think of doing something like that. Women is my goal, wether Tgirl or GG, but I'm not going that far to find a TS.
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10-20-2007 #3
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Where I live you canīt find any beautiful tgirl in gay bars.
I have to say that I have seen a lot of tgirls in non-gay bars and I know the, because third persons.
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10-20-2007 #4
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In my country, I have to go to gay bars to meet TS girls. When gay guys hit on me, I tell them I am flattered, but I'm not available. I am in control of who I choose to go home with.
To the OP, chill out dude. If a gay guy tries to hit on you, take it as a compliment.
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10-20-2007 #5
The only time I went to a straight up gay establishment was at The Abbey in WEHO...went with Anna Alexandre(RIP),Kayla Taylor and Kitty Diaz...fun night!!!
Had several bois walk by and say things like.."Too bad youre straight" without ever speaking to me prior.I asked the girls about this phenomenon and they pretty much agreed that gay bois know a straight boy when they see one...so fret not,relax and enjoy.
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10-20-2007 #6
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Originally Posted by 62des
This last episode was at a tranny club, though. Kinda caught me off guard.
Just another part of the irony that t-girls are really a subset of the gay community, yet many of their admirers aren't that fond of the gay community.
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10-20-2007 #7
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Originally Posted by DJ_Asia
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Originally Posted by mofungo
with everyone. I hate drama. So if there's a better way to handle things
without coming across like a jerk, I'd like to know.
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10-20-2007 #9Originally Posted by Night Rider
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10-20-2007 #10
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It doesn't bother me any more than a gg i didnt fancy hitting on me....only if they cant take a hint