How to date TS Girls online without being viewed as a "chaser"

[formil]

I agree with you to an extent and that would be my usual attitude in that of someone is not prepared to get to know me before making a judgement i would usually be like your not worth my time or effort anyway that doesn't include women who aren't interested in me because I'm not their type that's just part of life. However, the problem with taking this approach is that so many trans women get harassed by chasers and time wasters who are not interested in a long term relationship or don't want to be seen in public with them that's why they are so cautious of chasers i get it but that's not what i want which is why i'm trying to be more cautious to show I'm not the usual chaser.

[formil]

i understand its a process from A to B but following that sort of attitude means that the only people who are interested in a serious relationship are those who meet a trans women by chance which is not true at all.

[Paladin]

the best way to go around this, is to state clearly in your profile that you're not a chaser. eg: i'm not a chaser.

you can also say this when you meet: "hello darling. btw: i'm not a chaser. so, wanna have dinner?" this works really well with ts girls because it lets them know you're not a chaser. also trying telling yourself your not a chaser. that helps too.

In other words, keep on lying to yourself.

[Paladin]

You didn't know? Really, you didn't know?

You spent an entire date with her and didn't pick up on anything?

Yeah, I'm not buying it either

[Paladin]

Of course you are

And I only used to read the articles in Playboy...

[Paladin]

Sounds like some of you need a refresher on This topic:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...Art-of-Chasing

[Devilboy]

The problem with your approach is that you’ve already objectified them before you ever meet them. Not much different than the “chaser” you’re worried about being... Really hard for a healthy LTR to start off that way. Usually you meet someone first TG or GG, y’all have a little chemistry, you get more serious, etc, etc, and poof you’re in a LTR.

Usually people want to be desired and loved for who they are...not what they are. Good luck.

...snip.... However, the problem with taking this approach is that so many trans women get harassed by chasers and time wasters who are not interested in a long term relationship or don't want to be seen in public with them that's why they are so cautious of chasers i get it but that's not what i want which is why i'm trying to be more cautious to show I'm not the usual chaser.

[whamm]

Of course you are

There is way too much free and cheap trans porn available for this to not be true. Personally, I visit only the forum on this site. I don’t even click through from the main site anymore.

[Aticus100]

I didn't know this was sub-site at first as i found it by searching Transgender Forum or something similar.

Without wishing to sound condescending, I do feel sorry for those that cant see past the porn aspect. Of course, if thats all you want from it, knock yourself out (pun intended) but to then insist that your own reasons for being into trans folk are the only valid reasons that exist and that all who disagree are kidding themselves, frankly, a bit sad.

[Aticus100]

Yeah, I'm not buying it either

So have you never met a Trans person who was convincing?