To the guys: Does your friends and or family knows..?

[Kriss]

I suppose I would only bother to bring it up with family in a LTR scenario but if it came up otherwise, so be it. What is important is how I experience of my life, not how my friends experience my life.

[callahac]

My wife has known for about ten years. I used to hide it from her, then I started showing her some of my pics on my computer, and then we started watching my DVD's together and incorporating shemale fantasies into our love making.

I'm at the point now that I really need to come out to her and let her know my true sexual orientation. The reality is I am not into pussy. When I look at her or any other girl I always feel that there is something missing between their legs. To that end I have joined an online support group for bisexual and gay men that want to come out to their wives.

I just want to lay it all out for her and then let her decide if she can stay with a man that loves her, but is not turned on by her. My wife is beautiful, and would be a catch for any guy. I hope she stays with me, because there is more to life then just sex, but she needs to make that decision with full disclosure from me.

[trannylover_york]

1. Since I married a pre-op girl last year. I am damn sure all my friends and family know of my preferences. I let most of my friends know gradually over the past several years and family members over the past couple.

2. I've had no bad reactions from friends or family. One or two friends/family members confess the don't quite understand but there has been no negative reactions.

[scorpion]

I havent told my new neigbours. a older couple "amasing people" that havent been a reason four this so far. But I guess they gonna find out tomorrow when my T- girl friend comes here four stay some days.
She has been here one time earlier but then they didnt meet eachother.
But this time I think they gonna do it..beacause they have been real familiar whit mee since she was here the last time. And nadia is feminim but not so feminim so you cant see that she is a he.
I guess I have to wait and see how they face it.
Real intressting.

[PhilC]

My girlfriend knows and is fine about it. She has fantasies/sexual interests as well, it is the same thing. She enjoys the occasional lesbian experience and knows that I enjoy the same with a TS. We either play together or the other knows exactly where and who the other is with. We enjoy a loving relationship and have been together 12 months.

[djbj_2_2_69]

some of you are very careless when it comes to your "stash". I am a little more computer savy than most of my friends and family so i can thoroughly hide anything I need to hide. i also make it a point to only browse for tgirl related porn on my personal pc. i religiously log out so no one has access to my files. there is an account for anyone else who wants to use my pc which is rare but you never know who is snooping when you arent around. i dont own any dvds or such so finding hard evidence outside of the pc is a non issue.

Yes that was my issue. I had a box full of DVD's and I got careless with them. Never going to make that mistake again *knocks on wood*.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

What is important is how I experience of my life, not how my friends experience my life. I realised that worrying about people finding out about my tastes was stopping me getting what I really wanted and I was missing out on life.

Co-sign. I likewise dont care what my parents, relatives and friends thought of me for being a transexual. I believe that as long as Im happy with myself and true to myself its all that really matters. They might be shocked initially (My Dad only totally accepted me back in 1995) and gave me a harder time than normal but in the end its my life and I'll live it the way I wanted it to be without regrets nor slight hesitations.

~Kisses.

HTG

[clipperfan]

no one knows about it.

I joke around with friends but they dont realize im actually serious.

my sister once found trannysurprise.com on the favorites tab but told her it must have been a mistake lol.

than she found some pictures in my folder but didnt make much of it.

[LG]

I've not really told anyone yet. A handful of friends and relatives might be understanding or at least accepting but most would be pretty shocked.

I'm single right now, but I don't know how I would tell a girlfriend or wife. But honesty, I think is the best policy- I would have to let her know.

Sometimes I dream I could just fly over to NYC, meet a beautiful tgirl and live happily ever after with her.

[hentai_ninja]

Well,I think my ex-girlfriend (were good friend btw) knows that I have Bi-Curious tendacies. Im pretty she knows something is up since I dream about her with a dick. Other than that and anohter TS I briefuly talked too,nobody. If anybody from my family knew,theyd disown me. Im Asian so ya know how they are.