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01-11-2016 #221
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3 out of 3 members liked this post."...I no longer believe that people's secrets are defined and communicable, or their feelings full-blown and easy to recognize."_Alice Munro, Chaddeleys and Flemings.
"...the order in creation which you see is that which you have put there, like a string in a maze, so that you shall not lose your way". _Judge Holden, Cormac McCarthy's, BLOOD MERIDIAN.
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01-22-2016 #222
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Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
In my opinion if you don't fancy or fuck guys then u ain't gay. That's why I like ts not tv as the feminine form should be the focus for me and a stripped down TV looks too much like a dude!
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01-22-2016 #223
Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
I'm introverted & bent. Do I qualify?
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01-24-2016 #224
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Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
I don't care what anyone thinks I am. I love to suck tgirl cock, I love to get fucked by tgirls, and I love to fuck tgirls.
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01-24-2016 #225
Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
I respect Trish's thoughts on this but I have to wholeheartedly disagree.
To accept it would mean that a man cannot have a preference for transgender woman else he is just living in the grip of a fetish that's consuming him. And it renders transgender women illegitimate as beings worthy of real feelings and love simply because of who they are.
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01-24-2016 #226
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Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
The first sentence correctly states my view, but only insofar as the “grip” is understood to be no stronger than the “preference.” The way the words are usually used one can have a preference for -say buxom blonds- but not be in the grip of a fetish.
The second sentence is posed as if it followed from the first. Transgender women are worthy of love for all the reasons that any person is worthy of love, the mismatch between their gender identity and their sex as reported on their birth certificate shouldn’t enter into it.
Though we’ve never met, I’m fairly sure you’re a fun and loving man. I find it difficult to believe that you could not love a woman who wasn’t transgender. Preference is one thing... deal-breaker is another.
Certainly you can understand that no woman would want a man who couldn’t love her because she’s transgender. So why would a woman (trans or not) want a man who couldn’t love her if she wasn't transgender?
Last edited by trish; 01-24-2016 at 09:01 PM.
"...I no longer believe that people's secrets are defined and communicable, or their feelings full-blown and easy to recognize."_Alice Munro, Chaddeleys and Flemings.
"...the order in creation which you see is that which you have put there, like a string in a maze, so that you shall not lose your way". _Judge Holden, Cormac McCarthy's, BLOOD MERIDIAN.
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01-24-2016 #227
Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
Of course a genetic woman would not want a man if he couldn't love her cuz she wasn't transgender.
But that's not your point, which is that a man is not allowed to have a preference specifically for transgender women. What you're saying is:
Hetero male having a preference for genetic women is allowed
Gay man having a preference for gay men is allowed
Man having a preference for transgender women is not allowed because that is simply a fetish.
Your point (which I disagree with) implies that a man cannot, or should not, love a transgender woman because she is transgender...he's only allowed to love her in spite of her being transgender.
Last edited by nysprod; 01-24-2016 at 09:39 PM.
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01-24-2016 #228
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Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
What I said was, "...why would a woman (trans or not) want a man who couldn’t love her if she wasn't transgender?" Notice the parenthetical as well as the counterfactual "if she wasn't".
Hetero male having a preference for genetic women is allowed
Gay man having a preference for gay men is allowed
Man having a preference for transgender women is not allowed because that is simply a fetish.
Your point (which I disagree with) implies that a man cannot, or should not, love a transgender woman because she is transgender...he's only allowed to love her in spite of her being transgender.
"...I no longer believe that people's secrets are defined and communicable, or their feelings full-blown and easy to recognize."_Alice Munro, Chaddeleys and Flemings.
"...the order in creation which you see is that which you have put there, like a string in a maze, so that you shall not lose your way". _Judge Holden, Cormac McCarthy's, BLOOD MERIDIAN.
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01-24-2016 #229
Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
does seeing a man make you hard?
would you enjoy a genetic man:
- sucking your cock
- fucking you
- you fucking him
do these thoughts make you physically cringe?
but does an MTF TS doing these make you hard? make you want her cock in your arse?
if the former do, you're gay, if the latter set do, you're not.
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01-24-2016 #230
Re: We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight
Fine, but what does that have to do with a guy who prefers transgender women having nothing more than a fetish for them?
Obviously that works for you and that's ok...but to just make a blanket statement about what should and should not enter into the equation denies reality and totally negates the possibility of loving someone as they are (transgender) simply because a man has that preference.
Last edited by nysprod; 01-24-2016 at 11:11 PM.
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