Barebacking

[rogueirish]

This may not be the right place for this post as it's not about a particular escort so apologies. I wanted to hear everyones view on the matter and give some insight to my own experiences.

I typically use Birchplace and Backpage to find girls and the majority of profiles stipulate 'safe only'. Of the hundreds of girls I have met over the years I can honestly say the vast majority will either suggest or attempt bareback. Absolutely all will claim to be clean when asked but given their casual approach to the matter, I can't see how this can be the case.

It feels as though stating on a profile 'safe only' is a way to ward off those who actively pursue unprotected sex, and by the laws of subtraction those left are likely clean. A crazy theory but one some escorts may adopt.

I do not write this post to offend anyone. Many girls respect themselves immensely and would never put themselves or their clients at risk but in my experience, many it seems are more than happy to.

[suttonporksword]

If you offend anyone then I shouldnt worry, its their problem and not yours, nothing wrong with promoting safe sex. I have not had that many "offers" for unprotected sex but always moved on quickly having turned it down when it has been the case. I have also reported it on here naming the person. That is the way to deal with it, name and shame - there is no excuse regardless of setting, state of arousal or situation and so anyone offering bareback should be reported on here so others know the type of sex they practice.

[tarot]

I'm treating the posts made by rougerish ,with the utmost suspicion.I've gone over his past threads , and he seems to be on smear campaign .
I'm all my years visiting escorts , never once have I been offered bareback - never.
I'm not saying it doesn't happen .But rougerish is coming over a bit too troll like ,for my liking .

[rogueirish]

Oh please. You really do treat this forum as though it's yours. It's a message board for people to respectfully share opinions. That is all I have done and will continue to do.

A star of the amateur dramatics though.

[tarot]

Sorry , I just find it interesting that every girl ( in the escort section) you review , tries to bareback you .

[rogueirish]

Perhaps you should re read them buddy.

im glad you find it interesting.

[rascal13]

Unless its a simple misunderstanding. A few girls I've been with have role played bareback, nudging etc. for an extra 'thrill' but have then covered up for the final push. Likewise girls have offered themselves, but if it seems like I'm getting carried away with these edgy games, will ask if I want to fuck them, then provide a rubber (note I have never barebacked an escort). Perhaps I have an honest/trustworthy (delete as appropriate) face.

You can discuss the merits or otherwise, but its not as dodgy as, say, docking in terms of uncovered games as far I can see.

R

[MrBest]

BB/Don on the menu is the biggest red flag in the hobby that and the pimp chill'n in the bathroom

[MrBest]

It feels as though stating on a profile 'safe only' is a way to ward off those who actively pursue unprotected sex, and by the laws of subtraction those left are likely clean.

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[hugeadmirer]

Girls say safe sex only as anyone that promoted bb would scare the shit out of most customers

I've has 2 or 3 girls try it and agree they should be named and shamed. This is supposed to be a fun hobby and not a game of Russian roulette