Men who are attracted to transgendered women- Straight, bi, gay?

[bigkid69]

I'm curious how her ad was presented?? Did you misread it or are you always so accommodating when you've been victimized by the ol' bait-and-switch??.

Her ad never mentioned her operation, however she did let me know before the action so I could back out if I wished. I was there and she was hot so I didn't care. Something I could cross off my list as well.

[tsmirandameadows]

Her ad never mentioned her operation, however she did let me know before the action so I could back out if I wished. I was there and she was hot so I didn't care. Something I could cross off my list as well.

It would be tricky to talk about that prior to the actual meeting. Certainly when screening clients, I don't say a word about my genitalia and redirect any questions about it, because to do otherwise would be quite incriminating -- why would someone who just wants a date or some company need to know how big your cock is and if you can cum on their face? I suppose stating that you're post-op in the ad would be innocent enough, but I still avoid anything about my genitals and don't say a word which could be perceived as sexual or innuendo in my ad copy.

[tsmirandameadows]

I think the reason the asterisk works is because categorical answers lose most of their descriptive ability when you try to fit many characteristics into a small number of categories. Sex and sexual orientation are co-dependent categories. If individuals can have physical and psychological features that transcend simple binary description then naturally those who are attracted to them are not going to be susceptible to description with binary categories for sexual orientation.

Biological sex itself consists of many components from genetic to phenotypic, and from genitalia to secondary sex characteristics. If someone is attracted to the female form but likes male genitalia then they are certainly not attracted to male secondary sex characteristics such as body hair, facial hair, and heavy musculature.

If, as in the example Prospero gave, someone is attracted to a female to male transsexual then they do like male secondary sex characteristics but are still attracted to female genitalia. Perhaps behavioral factors partly determine their interest.

Besides, one reason these discussions are irritating is because most of the talk involves a great deal of self-serving homophobia. The agenda for many is to label their own sexual activities as heterosexual and then demand that other people accept a categorization that does not capture the complexity of human sexuality.

This is an excellent post: well written and hits the nail squarely on the head. I don't have anything to add, but I felt that hitting the like button was insufficient.

[killa69]

I'm just a guy who loves pussy & TS girls. I've never looked at a guy & had any attraction whatsoever. But when I see a hot chick or TS girl I get turned on. Never been topped, the idea doesn't turn me on at all. Every single TS girl I've ever been with is very attractive but happens to have a dick. I love my dick & I love sharing it with females & TS girls but I also love eating pussy sucking a TS girl's cock & tossing salad. Others can call that whatever they want, I just know what I like & like what I know.

[BCboyCOMINGatYA!]

I just like pretty, I cant explain so I try to never categorize myself, being versatile and much prefer to bottom,if I had to I would definitely call myself bi.

[robertlouis]

It would be tricky to talk about that prior to the actual meeting. Certainly when screening clients, I don't say a word about my genitalia and redirect any questions about it, because to do otherwise would be quite incriminating -- why would someone who just wants a date or some company need to know how big your cock is and if you can cum on their face? I suppose stating that you're post-op in the ad would be innocent enough, but I still avoid anything about my genitals and don't say a word which could be perceived as sexual or innuendo in my ad copy.

My first encounter with a ts was with a post-op. It wasn't with an escort, but with a colleague when I was working in the far east - we were working on an acquisition with me representing the buyer and her working for a big 4 accountancy firm as advisor.

I didn't know until she told me, and she was afraid of my reaction, but I was with a beautiful woman that I liked a lot, so it didn't matter to me at all. But I guess the fundamental difference is that I was expecting her to have female genitalia; she did and the sex was wonderful.

[Prospero]

It is hard for some men to raise their gaze beyond the genitalia of any sexual partner. But appreciation of the whole person is surely the key.

[BellaBellucci]

Most certainly they are all, as the rednecks in Family Guy put it, 'queerosexuals.'

~BB~

[simonisthebest]

like ke$ha said "we are who we are"

at this point i dont know anymore,
u got dude who get fucked or dream off being fucked by sasha strokes,mariana cordoba,viviany aguilera or all off theses big cock TS but sill doesnt want & are not attracted by "Men" so what's that mean ? they're in denial ?...its like being dominated by them are more exciting then a women with a strap-on, well that's not my case ,but in paris a girl like natalie Jolie told me she's fuck alot of "straight dude" on the regular, married dude....i dont know how to call that


anyway first off all , we need to determinate what type off gender a Ts IS? Personally i see them ,like a Women in a Wrong Body,not as a Man who had Sugeries & all that, so im good...in some pornsites u see them in gay section,i think its wrong

excuse my english

[TS.Cessilia]

You're bi but just very picky about males. You know you'd fuck a hot little crossdressing trap. I know I would.

Well, if you perceive a crossdresser to be a man, and your interest in a crossdresser is because of you love for cock- as your lovely username quite rightly suggests, then you are definitely bi to say the least (that's if you still like women). That is by following your own reasoning.

Many guys on here like robertlouis look at ts girls as women, and they like them regardless of whether they have a penis or a vagina. They are attracted by femininity in all its forms. That is a different kettle of fish, Mr. cocklover!