Why Does Every Guy Say It's His "First Time"?

[ditadior]

kayds babes, i think that when they say its their first time to make them make you think they arent tainted and want you to relive their first fantasy.

or its the first time they have actually had the chance to be pleased lol.

[hippifried]

Butt it is the first time.

It's always the first time.

[tsadriana]

i dont beleve in guys who says is the first time...in bed is not like that ,for a first timer he is to good and i had that most of the time or i make him to good?

[Lovecox]

I always say it's my last time.

[ts_sunshine]

As an escort, the first thing I want to do when a prospective client calls is to find out who I am dealing with.

I will often ask if he has seen any other Tgirls before. It happens often enough that his answer is: "I've never seen a Tgirl before"

There are several flavours of this though.

There is the "TeeHee, no, I've never been with anyone before" - He wants me to treat him like he is a virgin. He wants me to convert him to cock. That means I'm going to have to be extra nice with him. Yah right. This guy makes me chuckle because it usually seems like he is acting like a girl. I don't mind that he is acting like a girl but it's funny.

There is the guy who cuts off my line of questioning: "No, I've never been with a TS." - he doesn't want me to know who he has seen before. This raises my suspicions. He has failed to establish trust with me and I am going to be careful.

There is the guy who is avoiding all my questions. These guys aren't clients, they're trouble.

There's the guy who says it's his first time but he knows all about everything when I ask him what he likes. He wants better service before we even get together and he thinks that I'll be better with a first-timer to make a believer out of him.

And then there's the real thing. His story makes sense. He is usually a bit shy about calling me. And when I finish with him, he's not a first timer anymore - he's a fan.

Be honest guys. It's a much better way to go. Escorts don't get jealous of you seeing other escorts. But they do want to know something real about you. It's important. An experienced escort will know you are lying and you won't get the gold star on your report card.

Sunshine

[buttslinger]

Do you validate parking?

[GrimFusion]

As an escort, the first thing I want to do when a prospective client calls is to find out who I am dealing with.

I will often ask if he has seen any other Tgirls before. It happens often enough that his answer is: "I've never seen a Tgirl before"

There are several flavours of this though.

There is the "TeeHee, no, I've never been with anyone before" - He wants me to treat him like he is a virgin. He wants me to convert him to cock. That means I'm going to have to be extra nice with him. Yah right. This guy makes me chuckle because it usually seems like he is acting like a girl. I don't mind that he is acting like a girl but it's funny.

There is the guy who cuts off my line of questioning: "No, I've never been with a TS." - he doesn't want me to know who he has seen before. This raises my suspicions. He has failed to establish trust with me and I am going to be careful.

There is the guy who is avoiding all my questions. These guys aren't clients, they're trouble.

There's the guy who says it's his first time but he knows all about everything when I ask him what he likes. He wants better service before we even get together and he thinks that I'll be better with a first-timer to make a believer out of him.

And then there's the real thing. His story makes sense. He is usually a bit shy about calling me. And when I finish with him, he's not a first timer anymore - he's a fan.

Be honest guys. It's a much better way to go. Escorts don't get jealous of you seeing other escorts. But they do want to know something real about you. It's important. An experienced escort will know you are lying and you won't get the gold star on your report card.

Sunshine

You're pretty smart. It's just kinda sad how some of your clients tend to think. It's not like you're asking dudes to produce a list of all the partners they've been with in the last six months. I don't have much respect for the kind of guys that cheat on their wives and girlfriends then try to keep everything on the down-low, but claiming inexperience kinda works against their favor, doesn't it? I mean, aside from the relatively minor trust issues, I'd suspect the sessions end up uncomfortable and a little awkward. Maybe I'm weird, but I'd rather get down with a chick who's honest and ugly than dishonest but attractive. I don't know if you always have the luxury of turning down clients you aren't comfortable with, but to me transparency is paramount to comfort with the women I choose to fuck. Without it, it's kinda a challenge for me to keep my head in the game.

"I've done this before, but go easy on me please" isn't synonymous with "It's my first time". The latter translates to "I don't know what I want" which I can imagine gets pretty fuckin' frustrating after a while. You'd think that these guys who are into switching it up and playing versatile would eventually get sick of the virgin-treatment. It may lend to a more comfortable session, but if I already knew what I was doing, my focus would be packing as much crazy sex into an hour as possible. Virgin-sessions move along too damn slowly.

It just blows my mind that a dude would pay up, then say something that works against his intentions and interests; especially when there's no harm in just being honest. Self-cockblockery, I guess.

[Prospero]

Ms Harley. I see you list London as one of your locations. Come here lady and I'll demonstrate that it is not my first experience and I promise yours will be one of our best yet.

[Nivek]

I'm sure there is many reasons why ppl say it's their first time, but Eff that. Why lie in the first place? If someone's going to lie about never being with a transexual Woman to begin with, that's just the tip of the iceberg. I'd rather say, "look, this is my first time with YOU, I've had some shitty experiences in the past but also some fantasic ones. Let's make this one the best for both of us, or at least try." If What I gave to having sex was given to everything else in my life I'd probably own a decent sized country, with ppl that would love me because I'd rather not lie.

[zulusierra]

It would be true in my case...

That being said, Miss Kayden, I just looked at yer website and the following is a visual representation of how enthusiastically I would hit dat...