looking for honest answers -no nudie pics here sorry boys

[tsntx]

he wants to explore this new thing for now so he can better understand himself

Rule number one: Within the context of a relationship, any time a man says anything about trying something new in order to "find himself" or "understand himself" – it's always bullshit. By the time a guy says that to a woman, he already knows perfectly well what he wants and in what direction he is headed; he just doesn’t want to say it to her.

-Quinn

well hes only 20 so i do think hes exploring and i dont think this is his end all of relationships i think hell go back to women and men and if he ever meets another pretty ts i think hed be just as interested in that ... but i do think hes too scared to be 100% honest w/ me and thats fine too like i said i just wanted to start over as friends and move slowly from there... ive got way to much going on to be running back to a guy that would date my ex bf after only 5 days of being seperated by a petty fight

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

ty hara this means a lot ill reply back to ur email tho but yes basically i feel that everything you said is accurate... tho i know for sure nothing started b4 the 3some :/ my fault i know

Youre welcome Jen. I think this Brian guy pulled a Michelle Gellar i.e. "cruel intention" (like the movie) on you and ruined your relationship with Scott. Whatever it is its not good to play with other people's emotions especially when relationships are concerned.

~Kisses.

HTG

[tsntx]

Jen,

Just walk away a little wiser about human nature. You can see, just from this forum alone, the state of confusion, denial, and fear that some of these guys must live in. Relationships are always a potential learning experience. But I think that being TS requires accepting that your relationships will be a little trickier than most girls'. Just love and respect yourself, and know who you are.

thnx babe... thats what my mom said... get away from brian hes been a disease for me and my life and ive let him b/c i wanted the crutch... now that im becoming more self sufficent and secure in my own skin i dont need him now... esp after this...

thnx to everyone that has responded 6 pages in 1 day im amazed at the input and the help and honest heart felt answers and replies ive received .. so ty - j

[tsntx]

ty hara this means a lot ill reply back to ur email tho but yes basically i feel that everything you said is accurate... tho i know for sure nothing started b4 the 3some :/ my fault i know

Youre welcome Jen. I think this Brian guy pulled a Michelle Gellar i.e. "cruel intention" (like the movie) on you and ruined your relationship with Scott. Whatever it is its not good to play with other people's emotions especially when relationships are concerned.

~Kisses.

HTG

oh i wanted to say that in interviews w/ the actual ppl involved in the killing of barry wenchel i always felt there was some kinda lust for barry from the guy that instigated everything...

[callahac]

Jen,

I'll tell you my thoughts. I don't think guys start out liking TS to explore their homosexual side, but I think the attraction to TS leads to homosexual behavior and even attraction.

I was (and still am) attracted to shemales. I fantasized about it for years, but never met one. I started going to adult clubs and eventually had the opportunity to suck a guys cock through a glory hole. I was so horny for cock I just went for it and really enjoyed it. This lead me down the path of many homosexual experiences and I really got into it- and have done just about all there is as far as gay sex.

Would I prefer to be with a hot girl like you? Yeah I would. But if I wasn't wiht a girl like you would I pass up the opportunity to suck a guy off or let him fuck me now? No I wouldn't- I have been having gay sex now for long enough that I am comfortable with it and who I am.

Based on your stats before I would have to think that there are plenty of guys out there that really wanted to be with a shemale, but because there are so few the desire for cock lead them down the same path as me. THey never expected or wanted gay sex but now find themselves hooked because of their fascination with cock.

[Like Loving]

Do you believe that GG/TS sex is straight sex?

Was thinking about that, too. Or what about a guy and a girl who wants to be a guy (you know, one of these flannel shirt wearing types)?

From a neutral/technical point it is. For the TS it may be lesbian sex, while for the GG it's a kind of bisexual experience.

[skweetis]

i don't think sexuality can be labeled or described thoroughly.

the fact is that we all have a little bit of the other gender in us, how much of that, i don't know.

cheer up jen!
you're intelligent and beautiful.

and arianna, i like the new av.

[Like Loving]

That makes no sense. Two people having sex with each other; one's having "gay" sex, but the other's having "straight" sex?

Because of the different mindset of the TS. I suppose she really feels like a woman so to her it's not gay sex.

[blckhaze]

Me, personally, i've thought about my attrations for years now, and can say other than maybe a VERY few exception, a guy doesnt attract me sexually, and gay porn doesnt attract me either. I like TSs, and both top and bottom Ts. the few times ive been with a TS, we both took turns topping. I stopped seeng TS within the last year, because my girlfriend and i have become very serious and she ask me not to. She know my attaction to TS, and while it doesnt thrill her, she loves me for being up front and honest about my experiences.

[Like Loving]

[quote="Arianna"]

You're losing me. If she felt like a woman, and she was with a woman, that would make it lesbian (gay) sex.

Anyway, do you suppose the "mindset" of a TS is just as valid as the "minset" of a non-TS? In other words whose version, of whether or not it was gay, might be the correct one?

Well, as it's always said, a TGirl is a girls mind trapped in a boys body. As a guy I can't fuck your mind, but the body, at least there's no way around it. And that's also the main attraction, or maybe the kind of contradiction between the two.
The TGirl on the other hand feels like a GoodGirl so that overwrites her body.
So there's a difference of what each sites experiences.