Hiding your past

[LieutenantInnuendo]

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[christinafoxx]

What is the point of hiding and always worrying who will find out?

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Something I am proud to be.

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[youshouldtrythislol]

The way I see it, if a guy likes a woman enough, they won't be ashamed of her past.

[dreamon]

What you are talking about is the male in the relationship's fault, not the girl. If you expect to have a long term relationship, you can't be afraid or embarrassed of the person you are with. You are essentially telling girls they should pretend to be something they aren't.

[toopretty]

i see what your saying. Personally I would lose friends and family if I openly dated a tgirl. and I have two different ways of thinking about it. 1st, im a man and would be proud of anyone i choose to date. But on the other hand, when dating a gg, I would dump her if keeping her meant losing my friends for any reason. I hold two conflicting viewpoints, so... i dont know i guess.

[fred41]

Say what you want....you're not a man if you're worried about your Mommy finding out.

[fred41]

i see what your saying. Personally I would lose friends and family if I openly dated a tgirl. and I have two different ways of thinking about it. 1st, im a man and would be proud of anyone i choose to date. But on the other hand, when dating a gg, I would dump her if keeping her meant losing my friends for any reason. I hold two conflicting viewpoints, so... i dont know i guess.

I could probably think of some real important reasons you might want to keep part of it secret depending on whether or not she does adult work...but losing your friends ??!!....I'm sorry but..what're you like 18?....who the fuck cares about their friends?? you think forty years from now you're gonna have the same friends??...you may still have the same lover though in that time span.....because she would become your best friend...

...so , you wouldn't even marry a girl if your friends disapproved??

[PomonaCA]

I could probably think of some real important reasons you might want to keep part of it secret depending on whether or not she does adult work...but losing your friends ??!!....I'm sorry but..what're you like 18?....who the fuck cares about their friends?? you think forty years from now you're gonna have the same friends??...you may still have the same lover though in that time span.....because she would become your best friend...

...so , you wouldn't even marry a girl if your friends disapproved??

My friends can go pound sand if they want to tell me that my attraction to transsexual women will destroy our friendship. I have to live with myself and my friends can say goodbye anytime they want. I have friends who have seen me with my ex girl who I loved and was moderately fish and were cool and then I have friends who were critical of any girl I dated. That said, if you don't have a friend who has known you since your 20's at least, there is something wrong with you. As men, we are born egotistical. But there comes a time when we have to accept each other as men and all of the quirks that comes with learning ourselves.

Acceptance is the same for transgirls.

[giovanni_hotel]

Close friends and maybe a few select family members, other than that, I'm not going there with people if I'm in a LTR with a TG.

I won't deny her if confronted about it, but IMO it's really no one else's business.
My family is very Black and very conservative/traditional. I mean they would still love me no doubt, but they would definitely be saying, 'you know cousin ----? Who knew he was a straight up FAGGOT?? You think he's coming to this year's family picnic??'

Again, I know names are just 'labels' other put on you and not yourself, but as a self identified str8 man, it takes a while sometimes for this to sink in.

[fred41]

My friends can go pound sand if they want to tell me that my attraction to transsexual women will destroy our friendship. I have to live with myself and my friends can say goodbye anytime they want. I have friends who have seen me with my ex girl who I loved and was moderately fish and were cool and then I have friends who were critical of any girl I dated. That said, if you don't have a friend who has known you since your 20's at least, there is something wrong with you. As men, we are born egotistical. But there comes a time when we have to accept each other as men and all of the quirks that comes with learning ourselves.

Acceptance is the same for transgirls.

I agree with almost everything you said ..but the bold sentence makes no sense whatsoever to me.