Things You Should Know Before Dating a Transsexual

[Wendy Summers]

Yesterday I posted an article on my blog, "Five Things to Know Before Dating a Transsexual." With my work on webcam and phone, I tend to speak with a lot of guys who want to date transsexuals but haven't had the opportunity to do so yet. As a community, we discuss transsexual issues from the perspective of the transsexual, but rarely from the perspective of those of you who dig us. There's a broad range of experience amongst folks here on Hung Angels, so I'm curious what your thoughts are:

What advice would you give to someone who is dating a transsexual for the first time?

[holzz]

I never have dated a ts woman, i'd love to, but then seems pretty obvious, just treat her like a genetic woman.

[Wendy Summers]

I never have dated a ts woman, i'd love to, but then seems pretty obvious, just treat her like a genetic woman.

Except I've seen guys believe they are implementing that when in reality they say some dumb shit... such as verbalizing what you are saying.

[Fitzcarraldo]

Very informative, concise article! Thanks for posting the link.

[rbiller]

Hi Wendy, Been a fan for a long time. When you say dating do you mean dating as in dinner and a movie or do you mean in terms of an escort where sex is the dinner?

[holzz]

well i just think it is true. a woman is a woman whether gg or ts. and this shouldn't be a barrier in dating or relating to the otehr person. all relationships are based on respecting the other party for everything they are.

[Jericho]

What advice would you give to someone who is dating a transsexual for the first time?

Grow some skin...You're going to need it!

[Wendy Summers]

Hi Wendy, Been a fan for a long time. When you say dating do you mean dating as in dinner and a movie or do you mean in terms of an escort where sex is the dinner?

I was speaking more in the romantic terms.

[guitarguy]

I think in general just treat with love and respect. I have gone to dinner with, hung out with and gone to the movies. I think most appreciate being treated like a lady but some not so much. Some are gorgeous and look like ladies on the outside but act like men.

[bigkid69]

Great read as usual Wendy, you're smart n stuff.