Losing my virginity

[Lonely rob]

OK, so I finally did it. After following lots of good advice from you guys,I hired a pro and had a fling.Meh. Sokay,I guess. The girl was hot and had great equipment. But the experience lacked. I really tried but after ten minutes sucking a big black dick,I grew bored. I don't know what to make of this. What did I miss?

[Fitzcarraldo]

What did I miss?

If you don't know, how can someone else tell you?

[SanDiegoPervySage]

No chemistry?
Expected too much?
Shitty escort?
Just not for you?
Best left as a fantasy?

Or like the post above, if you don't know, we can't help you.

[Lonely rob]

Good point. Forgive me. Right now I'm thinking out loud.

[Lonely rob]

All of the above. And it all felt fake.

[Fitzcarraldo]

Well, you hired an escort instead of meeting a girl, getting to know her, and seeing if you clicked. Transactions are merely transactions.

[Lonely rob]

True. Outside of specific clubs,its hard to meet T-girls.I come from a blue collar Queens,NY neighborhood.

[Fitzcarraldo]

I don't think it's easy anywhere. There are very few.

[hamdasl]

Maybe its just not your gig.

[bigkid69]

When I first took the plunge, I did a lot of research. It took months and numerous ads and many reviews when I finally found the right girl. I wanted to make sure that what I felt afterward was accurate, nothing to question.

If you decide to try again, take a little more time to do some research. If not, you at least tried.