Do T-girls get turned on by curious straight guys?

[Lonely rob]

I would love to finally take the plunge but feel that a T-girl would be put off with my straightness. Thoughts?

[Lester316]

I would love to finally take the plunge but feel that a T-girl would be put off with my straightness. Thoughts?

Do you go around waving a big sign that says 'I'm straight does that put you off?!'


In all seriousness you are over complicating just be yourself. I'm sure some T-girls prefer 'straight' guys or some prefer 'gay' or 'camp' guys. If you really want to meet someone be more concerned whether they like you not perceived stereotypes of how people are/act.

[peacheater]

To quote an old song, some girls do, some girls don't.

Think about any sex you've ever had - the less the experience, the more awkward it usually is. Yet there are few thrills that compare to the first time of a new sexual experience. Just find a local working gal - they've dealt with your situation enough times to not be uncomfortable about it, get it out of your system and then you'll reassess everything and wonder what the fuck happens next

[nysprod]

I would love to finally take the plunge but feel that a T-girl would be put off with my straightness. Thoughts?

Aren't you the one who's put off by the uncontrollable urge to suck tgirl dick?

[Lonely rob]

No. Not put off. But my thinking about T-girls is fairly new. I am aware that I'm being awkward but I ask because I'm naive about a world that I'm new to. Also ,I'm scared.

[nysprod]

No. Not put off. But my thinking about T-girls is fairly new. I am aware that I'm being awkward but I ask because I'm naive about a world that I'm new to. Also ,I'm scared.

Scared of what?

[Wendy Summers]

Ok. I'm not a therapist, but I play one in porn. So with that in mind, I'll give you my perspective as a woman... I'm not going to speak for every other transwoman because, as others have pointed out, individual tastes will vary.

First off the phrase, "put off by your straightness" is a huge red flag for me. NOT because I don't like guys who are straight, but rather because it tells me you have some sort of sexuality baggage. Whether you're struggling with the question as to what liking a girl with a cock makes you OR you know what you are (straight guy) but you have a need to make sure EVERYONE knows it, neither situation is appealing to me. That baggage often means your ego issues will get flung in my direction. I'm so not interested in that scene.

My advice will echo what others have said... before you start trying to date, find a pro. Work through whatever issues you've got going on in your head before you try to find a transwoman to date. Otherwise, it will not end well for you -- and in my experience, guys like you never see themselves as the problem.

[Lonely rob]

I don't know. Taking a step in another direction. Admitting I love dick as much as I love pussy. Is this retarded? Is this how freedom starts?

[Lonely rob]

You nailed it. I am the problem. For most of my adult life, l never gave my sexuality much thought. I am now trying to come to terms with to me is a new type of womanhood . A womanhood that is intensely arousing.

[nysprod]

I don't know. Taking a step in another direction. Admitting I love dick as much as I love pussy. Is this retarded? Is this how freedom starts?

No, it's not retarded, it's more the typical thing guys who are first coming into this feel.